Femme Flagging?

ArkansasPiscesGrrl · 04-09-2012, 09:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Parker

I thought the title of this thread was femme flogging - I did a serious double take. lol

Yeah, I did a double take too. I was thinking I needed to write in "pick me pick me pick me!" LOL

As for flagging as a femme, if it would be so easy to pin something or tie something on, that would be great. But for some of us, I don't think anything tied or pinned on would automatically transform that femme into someone that is not invisible. There are times that it feels, to me anyway, that I could have neon lights pointing to me saying "She is gay, she is femme, and she likes butch women!!" and I STILL would get ignored!

But I do have to say, the little etsy things are cute.

genghisfawn · 04-09-2012, 10:51 PM

A friend of mine put a post on her Facebook today about femme flagging... Using nail polish.

Just paint one colour of one nail on either the right or the left (and hold your drink with that hand all night) in the colour of your choice.

Though, I have to say, painting argyle with my left hand onto my right would be an adventure...

aishah · 04-09-2012, 10:57 PM

i love the crafty ideas, especially the nail polish (although i like all my nails to match...) and the pins and bracelets idea

and i approve wholeheartedly of both flagging and flogging

cara · 04-09-2012, 11:49 PM

That's really creative! More options are always a good in my book. Too bad I don't like to wear nail polish, though.

Talon · 04-11-2012, 12:44 PM

Lavender and black...lavender for the feminine and black for the edge.

Femminator · 05-02-2016, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Talon

Lavender and black...lavender for the feminine and black for the edge.

This is a great idea, but we need some glitter or sparkle on one of the colors I think.

girl_dee · 05-02-2016, 08:23 PM

I thought this said Femme Flogging.

That is all.

Ascot · 05-02-2016, 09:02 PM

I'm finding 'Fondlee' very amusing.

Regarding flagging, maybe we should revive the practice. I've always thought it was a skosh cheesy, but I confess I dig the straightforwardness of the system, too. Like all of my leanings, mine would be on the left. With all my proclivities, I'd look like some kind of exotic bird, lol.

Poss · 11-09-2016, 06:04 AM

I feel the pink quartz crystal is a beautiful colour for our femme symbol. We could have a special bird feather brooch made of pure pink quartz crystal.

thedivahrrrself · 04-11-2012, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by ArkansasPiscesGrrl

There are times that it feels, to me anyway, that I could have neon lights pointing to me saying "She is gay, she is femme, and she likes butch women!!" and I STILL would get ignored! .

OMG I so know this feeling! I'll wear a rainbow necklace to Pride and in my skirt and heels, and someone will still come up to me and thank me for being there, and ask if I'm there to support my brother or something. UGH! I think I'm going to make a dress that says "I ♥ BUTCH LESBIANS" in giant letters or something LoL

LaneyDoll · 04-11-2012, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by thedivahrrrself

OMG I so know this feeling! I'll wear a rainbow necklace to Pride and in my skirt and heels, and someone will still come up to me and thank me for being there, and ask if I'm there to support my brother or something. UGH! I think I'm going to make a dress that says "I ♥ BUTCH LESBIANS" in giant letters or something LoL

OMG I needed to read this! I have a shirt that says "I ♥ Boobies!"

1QuirkyKiwi · 04-11-2012, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by LaneyDoll

OMG I needed to read this! I have a shirt that says "I ♥ Boobies!"

I want some of that fabric for a top!

LOL!

04-09-2012, 11:49 PM	#4
cara Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer/lesbian femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: Married to my love 08.15.15 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Indianapolis, IN Posts: 3,401 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,995 Thanked 13,255 Times in 2,725 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	That's really creative! More options are always a good in my book. Too bad I don't like to wear nail polish, though. __________________ "The world in which you were born is just one model of reality. Other cultures are not failed attempts at being you; they are unique manifestations of the human spirit." ~Wade Davis

05-02-2016, 09:02 PM	#8
Ascot Member How Do You Identify?: Preppy Butch artist Relationship Status: Riding solo Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: North of the Emerald City Posts: 1,135 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 179 Thanked 2,487 Times in 549 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I'm finding 'Fondlee' very amusing. Regarding flagging, maybe we should revive the practice. I've always thought it was a skosh cheesy, but I confess I dig the straightforwardness of the system, too. Like all of my leanings, mine would be on the left. With all my proclivities, I'd look like some kind of exotic bird, lol. __________________ Now, if I could just find a way to get paid for what I can do with my tongue and a cherry stem.

11-09-2016, 06:04 AM	#9
Poss Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Gay, Lesbian, Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Legally Married in 2018 Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: Victoria, Australia Posts: 38 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 160 Times in 33 Posts Rep Power: 1932747	Pink quartz crystal I feel the pink quartz crystal is a beautiful colour for our femme symbol. We could have a special bird feather brooch made of pure pink quartz crystal.

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04-09-2012, 10:51 PM	#2
genghisfawn Member How Do You Identify?: Femme/Gentlewoman Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: Happily married 05/17/14 Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Posts: 561 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,056 Thanked 2,158 Times in 403 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	A friend of mine put a post on her Facebook today about femme flagging... Using nail polish. Just paint one colour of one nail on either the right or the left (and hold your drink with that hand all night) in the colour of your choice. Though, I have to say, painting argyle with my left hand onto my right would be an adventure...

04-09-2012, 10:57 PM	#3
aishah Member How Do You Identify?: queer stone femme shark baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, little one Relationship Status: dating myself. Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: dallas, tx Posts: 1,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,823 Thanked 6,440 Times in 1,288 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	i love the crafty ideas, especially the nail polish (although i like all my nails to match...) and the pins and bracelets idea and i approve wholeheartedly of both flagging and flogging

04-11-2012, 12:44 PM	#5
Talon Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Divine Feminine Preferred Pronoun?: . Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: . Posts: 4,921 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,246 Thanked 10,223 Times in 3,305 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Lavender and black...lavender for the feminine and black for the edge.

05-02-2016, 08:23 PM	#7
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,829 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	I thought this said Femme Flogging. That is all.