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Old 04-09-2012, 09:16 PM   #1
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I thought the title of this thread was femme flogging - I did a serious double take. lol
Yeah, I did a double take too. I was thinking I needed to write in "pick me pick me pick me!" LOL

As for flagging as a femme, if it would be so easy to pin something or tie something on, that would be great. But for some of us, I don't think anything tied or pinned on would automatically transform that femme into someone that is not invisible. There are times that it feels, to me anyway, that I could have neon lights pointing to me saying "She is gay, she is femme, and she likes butch women!!" and I STILL would get ignored!

But I do have to say, the little etsy things are cute.
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Old 04-09-2012, 10:51 PM   #2
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A friend of mine put a post on her Facebook today about femme flagging... Using nail polish. Just paint one colour of one nail on either the right or the left (and hold your drink with that hand all night) in the colour of your choice.

Though, I have to say, painting argyle with my left hand onto my right would be an adventure...
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i love the crafty ideas, especially the nail polish (although i like all my nails to match...) and the pins and bracelets idea

and i approve wholeheartedly of both flagging and flogging
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Old 04-09-2012, 11:49 PM   #4
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That's really creative! More options are always a good in my book. Too bad I don't like to wear nail polish, though.

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Lavender and black...lavender for the feminine and black for the edge.
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Lavender and black...lavender for the feminine and black for the edge.
This is a great idea, but we need some glitter or sparkle on one of the colors I think.
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I thought this said Femme Flogging.

That is all.
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I'm finding 'Fondlee' very amusing.

Regarding flagging, maybe we should revive the practice. I've always thought it was a skosh cheesy, but I confess I dig the straightforwardness of the system, too. Like all of my leanings, mine would be on the left. With all my proclivities, I'd look like some kind of exotic bird, lol.
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I feel the pink quartz crystal is a beautiful colour for our femme symbol. We could have a special bird feather brooch made of pure pink quartz crystal.
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There are times that it feels, to me anyway, that I could have neon lights pointing to me saying "She is gay, she is femme, and she likes butch women!!" and I STILL would get ignored! .
OMG I so know this feeling! I'll wear a rainbow necklace to Pride and in my skirt and heels, and someone will still come up to me and thank me for being there, and ask if I'm there to support my brother or something. UGH! I think I'm going to make a dress that says "I ♥ BUTCH LESBIANS" in giant letters or something LoL
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OMG I so know this feeling! I'll wear a rainbow necklace to Pride and in my skirt and heels, and someone will still come up to me and thank me for being there, and ask if I'm there to support my brother or something. UGH! I think I'm going to make a dress that says "I ♥ BUTCH LESBIANS" in giant letters or something LoL


OMG I needed to read this! I have a shirt that says "I ♥ Boobies!"

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OMG I needed to read this! I have a shirt that says "I ♥ Boobies!"

I want some of that fabric for a top! LOL!
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