Halp! I never developed gaydar and I need...

imperfect_cupcake · 05-17-2012, 03:18 PM

gosh really? I'm always envious my my very charming exes and wish I had their ability. Maybe I've picked up a bit?

Thanks talon, that's a lovely thing to hear! x

Talon · 05-17-2012, 03:32 PM

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Originally Posted by honeybarbara

gosh really? I'm always envious my my very charming exes and wish I had their ability. Maybe I've picked up a bit?

Thanks talon, that's a lovely thing to hear! x

Well, if they truly were charming...I doubt that they would have chosen a boring ol' sap to bump nasties with....right? They chose you...right?....Right.

*chuckle*

imperfect_cupcake · 03-19-2015, 01:55 PM

I was doing some back reading and found this thread...

But to fill you all in.... She *was* gay! And turns out, yes, Butch in the way she related to her partner and the relationship they had, but she did not ID as Butch. Well. Not publicly. I found ID to be a private matter with many people in southern England (though not always) and many people would not tell you they ID'd as anything unless you had a quiet and intimate conversation with them that required actually knowing them.

Violette · 03-29-2015, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

I was doing some back reading and found this thread...

But to fill you all in.... She *was* gay! And turns out, yes, Butch in the way she related to her partner and the relationship they had, but she did not ID as Butch. Well. Not publicly. I found ID to be a private matter with many people in southern England (though not always) and many people would not tell you they ID'd as anything unless you had a quiet and intimate conversation with them that required actually knowing them.

Yes, but did you snog? (Am I using the word correctly?)

homoe · 11-04-2015, 07:54 PM

I've never had the 'gaydar' thingy myself! I once worked with a straight women who swore she could tell however so we'd joke and say she got my gaydar!

I guess I really don't need any help..IF per chance a femme spots me in a crowd..she'll know for sure!

job · 11-06-2015, 03:01 AM

Yeah. I'm pretty oblivious. I've even had waitresses two different times give me free drinks for hours, and both times I was like, wow! She's really nice. Then way after the fact notice their name and numbers on the napkins.~>Dork

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05-17-2012, 03:18 PM	#1
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,726 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	gosh really? I'm always envious my my very charming exes and wish I had their ability. Maybe I've picked up a bit? Thanks talon, that's a lovely thing to hear! x

03-19-2015, 01:55 PM	#3
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,726 Times in 1,613 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I was doing some back reading and found this thread... But to fill you all in.... She was gay! And turns out, yes, Butch in the way she related to her partner and the relationship they had, but she did not ID as Butch. Well. Not publicly. I found ID to be a private matter with many people in southern England (though not always) and many people would not tell you they ID'd as anything unless you had a quiet and intimate conversation with them that required actually knowing them.

11-04-2015, 07:54 PM	#5
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,592 Times in 14,920 Posts Rep Power: 21474889	I've never had the 'gaydar' thingy myself! I once worked with a straight women who swore she could tell however so we'd joke and say she got my gaydar! I guess I really don't need any help..IF per chance a femme spots me in a crowd..she'll know for sure!

11-06-2015, 03:01 AM	#6
job Junior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Join Date: Mar 2015 Location: Vegas area Posts: 47 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182 Thanked 160 Times in 35 Posts Rep Power: 644257	Yeah. I'm pretty oblivious. I've even had waitresses two different times give me free drinks for hours, and both times I was like, wow! She's really nice. Then way after the fact notice their name and numbers on the napkins.~>Dork