The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

[Bleu]

Originally Posted by LipstickLola

I question myself, my ability to be relationship material after being rather burned this last time, I know I'm still
that invisible lesbian to most that I come in contact with....now I will appear "older" I'm afraid.....

LipstickLola,
I can so relate to what you've written. I try every day to stay positive and know that I am lovable and desirable. Not always easy but when I don't believe it myself, I pretend that I do until I do. May sound crazy but it works for me when I need it to.
xo,
~Bleu