Butch on the Outside Femme on the inside, and Vice Versa

[princessbelle]

Originally Posted by AnnRkey

Is this possible? You may ask yourself. And yes, I believe so. I live it everyday. My girlfriend doesn't use this site, but I randomly tell her about some of the postings. I was confused by the women identified lesbians living with other women identified lesbians. So I was telling her about it. If your male identified your straight? So I was like, use a straight site than? Right? Wrong?! We both were slightly confused, we are women..who like other women. Does that exist anymore? Or has it all come down to this complicated, fits inside the right box, your this label and I am that label. I mean don't get me wrong its all fine and dandy to feel like you belong to something or fit in somewhere. But I am confused, however it is fair to say the whole Butch Femme dynamic is something that is intriguing..indeed intriguing...none the less..is there still room for Girls like myself and my girlfriend who like other girls...No labels..No confusion about gender identity...just girls who like girls. I do like reading and chatting at this site however. It is very interesting, Like I mentioned previously the dynamics are intriguing...

Oh yes yes yes yes!!!!!! Plenty of room for everyone!!!! There are more identities here than you can possibly imagine.

MANY identify as lesbians in a lesbian relationship. Me for one!!! Even though my partner is butch, we are both female identified and also lesbian identified. You don't have to be butch or femme or FtM or <insert any gay/queer label> to belong here.

MANY of us are women loving other women!!! No rules here about identities!!!

Just be yourself!!!! Invite your girl to come on in and sit a spell.

Glad you are here!!!!!