An Age Old Question... Can Butches, FTM And Femme's Just Be Best Friends?

imperfect_cupcake · 11-22-2012, 11:07 PM

Oh completely. I have had some incredibly close and most trusted best mates that are butches over the years.
That said, I also occasionally screw my friends. But it doesn't matter if they are butch or femme or a burning shrub if it's just a friend-frolic.
As one of my older female friends said as I was growing up "if ya can't fuck yer friends... who *can* you fuck??"
I tend to agree. But I grew up in a clique of people who all did this so it's pretty normal to me, the odd frolic with a mate. *shrug*

I also have had friends, real honest friends that we both know a relationship would never, ever work but when both single, the chemistry is good so we shag around a bit. But that's a *very* particular dynamic and rare.

And I have friends, butch, femme, just me, straight, heteroflexible etc... that I'd never screw. It would be too weird.

but I love them to bits too.

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11-22-2012, 11:07 PM	#14
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Oh completely. I have had some incredibly close and most trusted best mates that are butches over the years. That said, I also occasionally screw my friends. But it doesn't matter if they are butch or femme or a burning shrub if it's just a friend-frolic. As one of my older female friends said as I was growing up "if ya can't fuck yer friends... who can you fuck??" I tend to agree. But I grew up in a clique of people who all did this so it's pretty normal to me, the odd frolic with a mate. shrug I also have had friends, real honest friends that we both know a relationship would never, ever work but when both single, the chemistry is good so we shag around a bit. But that's a very particular dynamic and rare. And I have friends, butch, femme, just me, straight, heteroflexible etc... that I'd never screw. It would be too weird. but I love them to bits too.