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			[QUOTE=SuperFemme;77007]Poor poor men. In a Patriarchal society where it is the norm for men to cheat (just not get caught) it is hard to feel pity. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I don't CARE who is cheating as long as it's not on me. I simply REFUSE to feel any pity for the (despite the diversions of double standards and blahblahblah) men. You make your bed you lie in it. Pun intentional.[/QU I don't feel any pity for these guys at all. And it is the patriarchal traditions that are at the bottom of the men will be men stuff. But, why aren’t we talking about the entire state of being able to make a commitment and stick to it (if a monogamous marriage/relationship is what we commit to) instead of differentiating along gender? One is either has an honorable character, or not. Doesn't matter if male or female, or combination, thereof.  | 
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