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Let's not forget about the full body project, STUNNING
http://www.leonardnimoyphotography.com/7body.htm
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this was one of the most erotic photo series I have ever witnessed.
I have loved people of all sizes but I have always been drawn to people of "more" size. One of my lovers was close to 400 lbs and was one of the sexiest butches I ever dated. I also dated an incredibly handsome butch who hated the way he looked because he had gained weight over the years. I didnt know him when he was younger and slim but his body was so flaming hot to me...I looked at photos of him in his younger years and was so glad he wasnt so hard edged in body in his older years. His extra weight gave him substance, not harshness. I have also dated people of a more average weight (which is debatable as to what really is "average" anymore, if it ever was) and as long as they werent thin, or bird like (my description..very thin so as to feel their bones) I was attracted to them. I am not attracted to thin people. I can appreciate them for who they are but sexually, it is not something I find myself drawn to. I myself am a woman of size. I am comfortable with my body and its weight. I am trying to drop 15 lbs simply because it will help my back feel better. I love how lush my body feels in its plusness. I am very responsive and attribute that to my love of my body image. I feel I am a better lover as a plus size woman who accepts herself. I have had partners who shared how their past lovers would never get fully naked because they were ashamed of their bodies. How sad... I am grateful for this thread and thank you for starting it. I hope somehow it might break down the self shame of someone who has not been able to accept themself. Quote:
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i've been fat all my life; i have a picture of me at maybe 3 or 4...it's a full profile, and i have on ruffly-butt panties & my round tummy protrudes like crazy! i love that picture.
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(ok it may have something to do with my love of butts....but that's beside the point)
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Ravfem, I agree with you about the photograph. It is truely amazing. ![]() |
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That picture is beautiful and captures amazingly the beautiful curves of a woman ~ love love LOVE it
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I I have always been a large woman. I just turned 41 and this isn't the biggest that I have been I at 1pt about 3 yrs ago went into the doc and I was about 315. I don't have great self esteem and so sometimes I don't feel great about myself. BUT I am really glad that this thread was started up. I have had a few women recently and 1 straight guy while I was living in Alaska say I was beautiful and if he had been unattached that he would want to ask me out...I told him...SORRY my friend, ummm but I don't date straight guys...I am totally into women.
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Thanks so much for posting and sharing of yourself. As a woman of size, it's hard in our culture to have good self-esteem. Associating myself with fat positive/ size positive images, people, and politics can be helpful in changing the dominant fat hating bias within our society that insinuates itself into our psyche as fat people. One blog that I read when I want to connect with a stronger side of myself is: http://www.bigfatblog.com
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Thanks NYC femme for your response to my post. I think that what has helped me in the past was seeing that I am NOT the only woman who is large. For example...I was at Layne Bryant one time and I saw a picture of Cameron Mckenzie. At that time she was a large size model and has become a known actress. She was on the tv show Ghost Whisperer.
Another woman who I find very attractive even though she has lost quite a bit of weight she is still a Large woman is Queen Latefa. I think it is because of seeing large women in the public spot light that has made it easier for me. BUT it is still rather hard. I am doing better and trying to lose weight but it is hard when you get to be over 40. I am only a lil bit over but still. Also having a bad back doesn't help. BUT I do get out and walk the dog around the park when I AM feeling up to it. |
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