All Things Holiday Thread!

[WingsOnFire]

Most definitely over commercialized...

I love love love Thanksgiving and a huge dinner with family and friends... Not sure yet this year what my plans will be but I am sure I will be partaking in several dinners with friends. I love the smell of Turkey baking in the oven, my favorite foods are stuffing, mashed potatoes and sweet potatoes.. mmmmm and all the fixings in between....

I want to decorate my house this year for Christmas. It will be my first year living on my own but I am sure I will be celebrating it with everyone who cares to share their time with me.

I am with Gemme... I ALWAYS participate in the angel tree service... my employer has always had that for their employees and I absolutely love participating.

[CA_BabyCakes]

I love the holidays!! Love having the whole family over and doing different holiday themed activities with my kids on the weekends! I especially love baking with my brother and helping my grandma make tamales, Mmmmmm....

[easygoingfemme]

Love the holidays! Over commercial or not, I don't have to buy into the hype but choose to celebrate my own way and have fun.

Halloween is a great kick off. My daughter usually plans a costume a year in advance and has been known to spend months and months sewing and creating. Then we usually have a party with our collective homeschooling families. When the kids were younger, they would go out treating, but now they hang out in their costumes and watch a semi-spooky movie and just be themselves. The parents hang out in another room with wine and snacks and relax. We're also taking the kids ice skating in the afternoon this year for "Halloween on ice"

Thanksgiving has changed a lot over the years. About 20 years ago my mother started making it really big after recovering from breast cancer treatment. For a while we'd have extended family travel and come and we'd have up to 30 people together for the meal. Then older generations started getting older and the party dwindled because it was too hard to travel. Last year my grandmother died a few days before Thanksgiving and that was hard. She loved Thanksgiving so much. This year, as I did last year, I will take over making the dishes my Grandmother made (Corn bread pudding, Indian pudding, chocolate cream pie, pumpkin pie, sweet potatoes...) and my mom will make an entree and we will get together for a nice big meal.

The day after Thanksgiving we stay home and play board games and avoid the crazy outside...

Someday between Thanksgiving and Christmas (which we celebrate) my daughter wakes up to find I've cancelled everything so that we can have an all out crafting blitz and we start playing holiday music and make wintery crafts all day.

Christmas eve we have dinner at my parents house, usually something simple like quiche and salad (My mom doesn't like to cook and my dad doesn't think to take over) and we just visit.

I host Christmas day at my house. Overnight I make steel cut oats in the crockpot, and then in the morning my daughter and I make a few quiche. Usually my daughter spends the week before baking sweet breads and muffins. I put all that out with a big bowl of fruit and a lot of coffee and family comes. It's sort of small, my parents, and by brother, his wife, and their son who will be 1 1/2 this year. Everyone eats a lot and there is an exchange of gifts, largely centered around the kids. My family is pretty practical and other than my brother, most of us are not too into tangible goods as gifts, so often gifts are things like registrations for a class someone wants to take, or tickets to a play, or a gift certificate to go somewhere special. I make a huge dinner with shellfish, some sort of poultry, loads of vegetables, etc. Then we bring out the pies and cocktails. We usually run well into the evening once we've gotten through it all.

The day after Christmas my daughter and I play whatever new games might have come into the house and eat leftovers and do not leave home.

My guy and his kids will get here a day or two after Christmas, so they can spend the actual holiday with family who lives right there near them. We will take a few (home based) vacation days to go snow tubing, have board game marathons, and relax. Don't tell, but my father is building all of the kids wooden stilts, because they experienced them at a festival over the summer and loved them. So I foresee a fair amount of time being spent watching the kids master the art of stilt walking. Depending on how much snow and ice we get, this could be very interesting, or scary.

New years, last year my guy and I went to dinner at an Irish pub, followed by an awesome stand up comedy night at a local theater. We're going to do that again this year. My daughter will visit with my parents while we're out and then we'll all be home probably an hour or so before midnight. I don't have a television so we might put on a computer to watch a ball drop somewhere, or not, not a big deal.

Fun to read everyone's holiday plans!

[Jar]

ahk... wanted to know what asparagus casserole was ..... My mom makes it (I've never attempted it yet). In a casserole dish she layers asparagus, sliced boiled eggs, mushroom soup and cheese. She makes 2 or 3 of these layers and tops it with crumbled crackers, then bakes it for about half hour or a little more. Good stuff!

[Gráinne]

The kids already "did" Halloween at Magic Screams, a sort of haunted amusement park (Magic Springs). It's a good thing, as there's supposed to be bad weather moving in by then.

For Thanksgiving, I'd hoped to work at the food bank or a serving before having dinner at home. With my family gone, it's all on me.

Christmas, the kids and I are going to Oregon for my brother.

[Soft*Silver]

my holidays have changed over the years. I use to go all out decorating, inviting family over for get togethers and meals, etc when my daughter lived with me. As she matured and moved on, my health also started to decline so I had less ability to decorate but I still held dinners. Then even that changed. I went to people's houses instead. I was too poor to afford to make meals and frankly, had no one left in my life. Its amazing what poor health does to a social registry.

I met chrissy, and in the beginning, I wanted to do the holidays again because he was with me. But alas, he was still so hurt over the trauma from his past around holidays, that he could not enjoy them. He helped me put some things up for decor' but I forfeited alot because I knew it was hard on him. But, over the past few years he has come to see these holidays in a new Present light. He is beginning to enjoy it now.

And now, I am back together with my daughter, and she is pregnant. I will have a grandchild to enjoy Christmas with! We are invited to their house for Thanksgiving and they are coming to our for Christmas. I am ready to pull out all the decorations again and burst open the holiday dinnerware! A baby!!! A BABY!

life has its ebbs and flows. When I was most desolate and depressed living away from Ohio, I never thought I would feel loved again. I feared I would leave there and be unconnected to anyone ever again. My heart was broken at so many different levels, but on the larger scale, that sense of having a place in the world, was shattered. I was without family, friends, a lover, a home, no horses, no god, no job, no health, no nothing. Never have I been closer to the edge of my world than then. And now, I am celebrating again. I am at the top of my mountain and singing like that crazy nun.

So, for some, holidays might be very dark times, a candid snapshot of all that is lost or never had. Life can change tho, as it did in mine. It took everything bit of courage I had to go on, inch by inch, but it worked. So I guess I am saying this...that if your holidays are dark moments, lift them up however you need to, in order to put that tinsel on your tree...

[Corkey]

We went to a pumpkin patch, they had a corn maze that was of the Brig Niagara. We didn't do the maze because it was too much walking for us. But they had a college student who painted the pumpkins, we got one and the stand made of iron that looks like arms holding the gourd. We showed up a day early, oh yes we did! (Ami wondered why we were the only ones there).
Does not mind supporting our local farmers.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Originally Posted by Miss_Tia

I will have a grandchild to enjoy Christmas with!

Grandbabies change everything, especially at holidays. In my extended family when there are babies and little kids, everyone just _tries_ harder to be better, to get along, to be less cynical . . . I think we all want the kids to have happy memories. [Now my cynical side is creeping up to think some disparaging remarks, but I won't do it! I will not! I'll remember that it's good to have regular reminders (like holidays) to do the right things, lest we all forget their importance.]

Congratulations on the new grandbaby, Miss Tia!

-Georgia