Changing last names

[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by IslandScout

The kind of person I would fall in love with wouldn't want me to change my name to hers.

Ok, so because I like the idea of TF changing her name to mine I am what? A misogynist? Is it like an automatic thing or do my other characteristics and character traits come into account when determining this?

Just wondering.

:smh:

ETA: Am I less of a misogynist if it actually tickles her fancy more than it does mine? Is she is misogynist? Or are we just bad feminists? So many questions....

[Soon]

Originally Posted by DapperButch

Ok, so because I like the idea of TF changing her name to mine I am what? A misogynist? Is it like an automatic thing or do my other characteristics and character traits come into account when determining this?

Just wondering.

:smh:

ETA: Am I less of a misogynist if it actually tickles her fancy more than it does mine? Is she is misogynist? Or are we just bad feminists? So many questions....

Isn't Island Scout speaking for herself and what she finds desirable in a partner when it comes to this issue? I don't see anyone calling you or TF a misogynist or a bad feminist. She was expressing a personal preference.