What do YOU need to feel loved?

[MrSunshine]

the ability to communicate like an adult.

honesty, integrity, open to other ideas besides their own.

And for shit sakes don't try to run the fuck!

[MsDemeanor]

Puppy kisses.

(In my book, all dogs are puppies. Once a puppy, always a puppy.)

[Ldyluck88]

I feel in order to be loved one has to love oneself. The more I love myself, the more I can love someone else. Expectations? Well, I think the more I love being in the company of someone who can be themselves, by sharing laughter, conversation, heartaches, etc., the more I feel I have found my "best friend" and this is a feeling no one can express in mere words. In essence, they show their love, and in return, I show them love back.

[MrSunshine]

Originally Posted by June

Oh. I was waiting for an opportunity to post another one of June's unpopular (and personal) opinions.

Rule #1 - Femmes Always Run The Fuck. Even when they're taking it from behind.

Judging from comments received I would have to say it's not such an unpopular opinion. But we would like to believe we are in charge of something other than holding your purses while you try on a new pair of shoes.

[Apocalipstic]

Originally Posted by MrSunshine

Judging from comments received I would have to say it's not such an unpopular opinion. But we would like to believe we are in charge of something other than holding your purses while you try on a new pair of shoes.

I let my G/F work on the pumbing sometimes too...you know, on those rare occasions when holding my purse is not enough.

[MrSunshine]

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

I let my G/F work on the pumbing sometimes too...you know, on those rare occasions when holding my purse is not enough.

Well, I do feel the love when the purse matches my boots.

[SuperFemme]

Originally Posted by MrSunshine

Judging from comments received I would have to say it's not such an unpopular opinion. But we would like to believe we are in charge of something other than holding your purses while you try on a new pair of shoes.

Fucking running shoes, right?

[MrSunshine]

Originally Posted by SuperFemme

Fucking running shoes, right?

Usually clogs, I like the wood.

[Lillie]

Originally Posted by MrSunshine

Usually clogs, I like the wood.

I like the "wood" too!" lol sorry had to

Lillie

[Random]

Originally Posted by MrSunshine

Judging from comments received I would have to say it's not such an unpopular opinion. But we would like to believe we are in charge of something other than holding your purses while you try on a new pair of shoes.

I let her carry everything (even though I am the stronger) and I try to remember to let her move the heavy furniture... Isn't that enought.. sheese..


Hehe

[Queerasfck]

Originally Posted by June

Oh. I was waiting for an opportunity to post another one of June's unpopular (and personal) opinions.

Rule #1 - Femmes Always Run The Fuck. Even when they're taking it from behind.

O June, June, June. I'll be first in line to buy your book of rules! I love a good laugh.

[WickedFemme]

Effort; when I communicate my needs, make an effort by listening and then making the appropriate changes. If there is anything I need to do differently, let me know and I'll make the changes. Effort means a lot to me.... I don't expect perfection but some effort and mutual give and take is lets me know that i'm loved, which I am feeling presently... I am feeling the 'love'

[Queerasfck]

Originally Posted by June

Here, honey, hold my football while I do the Touchdown Dance.

Why'd you have to take it there June? Now I need a cold shower.

[Lillie]

Originally Posted by June

Oh. I was waiting for an opportunity to post another one of June's unpopular (and personal) opinions.

Rule #1 - Femmes Always Run The Fuck. Even when they're taking it from behind.

I LOL each and every time I see this posted..something so simple as "run the fuck" gets me each time ..ahahaha..

ok anyyyyyyyway lol..

I have no one way to feel love..I think each person loves differently..and each person recieves love differently..I remember the first time my first (ex) told me she loved me..she kept staring at me over dinner..and of course I asked what? and she said I need to show you..so she took my hand and traced the words I love you on it..it was a moment I know I will never forget..because without words she showed me..it was what our relationship was all about..showing!..it was in the "doing' of something not the "saying" of it..

Now fast forward 20+ years and its in all ways..I love to be romanced..I love to have notes left in places like my lunch box or car door..just saying..hello beautiful..it takes my breath for that moment..that is very powerful for me..I love to hear it as well..but..to me loving a partner must encompass what the word Partner truely means to you..it means everything to me..we share everything..im your rock you are mine..I do not feel the need to be reassured 24/7 of your love for me..but when we are together It will be known, felt..in a touch a certain look..the tone of voice in the conversation we are having. Im a queen and treat hym like a king..and I reap the rewards from that..it is unspoken yet it is the loudest I have ever heard it!..

Lillie

[Mister Bent]

Originally Posted by June

Oh. I was waiting for an opportunity to post another one of June's unpopular (and personal) opinions.

Rule #1 - Femmes Always Run The Fuck. Even when they're taking it from behind.

It scares me when I agree with you.

This may or may not be one of those times.

[Lynn]

I was thinking about this tonight, as I drove into the driveway after dinner out with some old work friends. After five years together, I still feel so loved and so loving. The two go hand in hand. I'm so appreciative of the "little things" she does and gives me every day which all amount to support, validation, and kindness. Contrasted with my past marriage, which seemed to be all about changing me, "helping me" overcome my weaknesses, and expecting me to meet his needs as a prerequisite to meeting my own. I felt like shit all the time. I've never been younger, sexier, prettier, smarter, more important, and more worthy of respect and adoration. Imagine that. So, to feel loved I need to be truly...loved. For me, that means support, validation, and kindness. It's so easy for me to return in kind when I feel so good.

[blush]

but
Goof.

That's all I need to feel loved.

[Cyclopea]

Wow, what a good question and I'm not sure I can answer it. I have been deeply, profoundly loved. But how did I "know" it?
Because I have had other people say they love me and I did not feel anything. It was just like something people say.
When I felt loved, I had the sense of being cherished. Infinitely adored.

Ask yourself this question: Is it more important to love, or be loved?

It is more important to me to love.
No judgement on those who answer otherwise.
But to me "to love" means the person is honest, ethical, beautiful, magickal, a warrior, true, endlessly fascinating, fantastic, deep, hilarious, brilliant, good-hearted, brave, ephemeral, smells good, worthy of respect, amazing, silly, adorable. Etc. They can have crappy qualities too but those are the good ones..
When you love someone that amazing they make you "feel loved" in thousands of wonderful ways that can't be listed. At least not by me!
Those that have loved me have gifted me in ways that can't be quantified and I am grateful. I am one lucky fucker.

[redrose]

what do i need to feel loved?

a lot ...

~ respect me all the time whatever the situation (whether i am wrong or right, whether i've been bad or good)
~ you're focus should be on me
~ you must give me your 100% attention
~ you must have patience
~ you must have perseverance
~ you must win me over and over and over
~ you must be over protective of me
~ you must be intelligent so i can learn from you
~ you must do anything in your power to keep me
~ you must be my kind of butch,,, intense and using her imagination,,,
(i don't go for cocks in any form whether the real ones or the plastic ones, i don't go for dildo, or any other toys)
~ i just want my BUTCH

it is really hard to love someone like me, i am the freakin' jealous type, i am lazy, i don't know how to cook, i say whatever i want and i don't care if you would be hurt or not,,,
and because my family and friends know that it is really hard to love someone like me, i am very sure that they will love you back for loving me...

my butch really loved me and i love the way she loved me,,,
and i know she feel that i love her more because i can still hear her last words,,
"THANK YOU FOR LOVING ME"

[Butterbean]

It is difficul to define, but I definately recognize/feel it when I am.