Instant Turn-Offs - Page 3

ProfPacker · 05-23-2014, 06:20 PM

not looking me in the eye when talking to me is a big turn off
not having my sense of humor which is pretty dark and twisted
not interested in the world around them
not wanting to take on the status quo

but mostly, in my previous long term relationship and growing up I lived in a world of smoke and mirrors. I need to have someone be direct with me.

someone who doesn't say as I am talking, I'm not done, let me finish
belittling me
being emotionally abusive
If I even have a hint of that...I am out of here

I like to have fun. If someone can't be silly it is a turn off.

at this time in my life we must be sexually compatible. no more lesbian bed death, haha.

if they don't like that I have kids, it is a negatory (is that a word, no but I like it)

candy_coated_bitch · 05-23-2014, 06:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by nycfem

You scared me for a minute-- I thought you wrote unicorns were a turn off to you, and if that were the case, I'd really have to reevaluate our friendship.

NEVER that. On the contrary--I find unicorns very erotic.

Happy_Go_Lucky · 05-23-2014, 06:48 PM

When she showed up wearing a GPS ankle monitor.

candy_coated_bitch · 05-23-2014, 06:53 PM

I am more turned off by those toenails, frankly. If you have an ankle monitor--at least show it off in style.

ProfPacker · 05-23-2014, 06:57 PM

I agree about the toe nails...but that means she is under surveillance. Well that gives you a lot of options regarding leaving the house...does she have to call her
PO first?

Happy_Go_Lucky · 05-23-2014, 07:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch

I am more turned off by those toenails, frankly. If you have an ankle monitor--at least show it off in style.

ProfPacker · 05-23-2014, 07:19 PM

chains and shackles is a look too, good for the bedroom later on, lol

Girl_On_Fire · 05-24-2014, 12:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch

I am more turned off by those toenails, frankly. If you have an ankle monitor--at least show it off in style.

I was going to say the same thing! It would have taken me a minute to notice the GPS tracking device for those toenails. Dayum!

deathbypoem · 05-24-2014, 12:50 PM

Lack of intelligence and wit.

gotoseagrl · 05-24-2014, 04:06 PM

~ intellectual snobbery (or any kind of snobberies)
~ over-inflated egos
~ materialistic fluff
~ designer labels for sake of showing off
~ keeping up with the jonses
~ abnormal paranoia
~ ambiguity, in general
~ facades
~ more words than action
~ flakiness/inconsistency
~ over judgmentalness

Duchess · 05-24-2014, 09:57 PM

Weakness
Dishonesty
Lack of ambition

aishah · 05-25-2014, 02:50 AM

threads like this are fascinating and make me grateful there's a lid for every pot.

05-25-2014, 04:45 AM

Acting like a teen who's just discovered sex

Not liking Rocky Horror Picture Show

Numerous 'turn-offs'

Degotoga · 05-25-2014, 08:18 AM

Lack of integrity
Self-absorption
Know-it-Alls
People speaking for me, or thinking they know me better than I know myself
Lousy drivers

Ginger · 05-25-2014, 08:51 AM

Cleavage.

..

kittygrrl · 05-25-2014, 08:15 PM

don't tell me how amazing you are, let me find out for myself

candy_coated_bitch · 05-25-2014, 08:17 PM

Someone who WON'T. SHUT. UP.

05-26-2014, 05:28 AM

Self-absorption in conversation

Shystonefem · 05-26-2014, 04:49 PM

Being Mean
Drama
Dirty hygiene
not supportive
old before your time
complaining all of the time
putting more value on "stuff" than on those you love
Someone who argues all of the time

canadianmusician · 05-26-2014, 11:22 PM

Showing up drunk or high is definitely a turn off. This happened once.

Low self confidence.

Jumbled/compartmentalized communication styles. I like to hear it clear as a bell!

05-23-2014, 06:48 PM	#43
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05-23-2014, 06:53 PM	#44
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05-24-2014, 12:50 PM	#49
deathbypoem Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Poetically versed to breathe only truth and bleed certainty Preferred Pronoun?: Kane Relationship Status: Married to Chefnaction Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Finally, home Posts: 1,987 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,900 Thanked 4,733 Times in 1,583 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Lack of intelligence and wit. __________________ I need your grace To remind me To find my own

05-24-2014, 04:06 PM	#50
gotoseagrl Senior Member How Do You Identify?: old-fashioned queer stone submissive girl Preferred Pronoun?: mermaid, very lucky babygirl Relationship Status: Saltwater mermaid ♡ Join Date: May 2010 Location: CA Posts: 2,209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,192 Thanked 6,103 Times in 1,727 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	~ intellectual snobbery (or any kind of snobberies) ~ over-inflated egos ~ materialistic fluff ~ designer labels for sake of showing off ~ keeping up with the jonses ~ abnormal paranoia ~ ambiguity, in general ~ facades ~ more words than action ~ flakiness/inconsistency ~ over judgmentalness __________________ Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence

05-24-2014, 09:57 PM	#51
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05-23-2014, 06:20 PM	#41
ProfPacker Member How Do You Identify?: butch/MOC Preferred Pronoun?: Hy/hym/hys but in circumstances like work and some other places she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: nj Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,023 Thanked 4,816 Times in 1,187 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	not looking me in the eye when talking to me is a big turn off not having my sense of humor which is pretty dark and twisted not interested in the world around them not wanting to take on the status quo but mostly, in my previous long term relationship and growing up I lived in a world of smoke and mirrors. I need to have someone be direct with me. someone who doesn't say as I am talking, I'm not done, let me finish belittling me being emotionally abusive If I even have a hint of that...I am out of here I like to have fun. If someone can't be silly it is a turn off. at this time in my life we must be sexually compatible. no more lesbian bed death, haha. if they don't like that I have kids, it is a negatory (is that a word, no but I like it)

05-23-2014, 06:57 PM	#45
ProfPacker Member How Do You Identify?: butch/MOC Preferred Pronoun?: Hy/hym/hys but in circumstances like work and some other places she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: nj Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,023 Thanked 4,816 Times in 1,187 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I agree about the toe nails...but that means she is under surveillance. Well that gives you a lot of options regarding leaving the house...does she have to call her PO first?

05-23-2014, 07:19 PM	#47
ProfPacker Member How Do You Identify?: butch/MOC Preferred Pronoun?: Hy/hym/hys but in circumstances like work and some other places she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: nj Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,023 Thanked 4,816 Times in 1,187 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	chains and shackles is a look too, good for the bedroom later on, lol

05-25-2014, 02:50 AM	#52
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05-25-2014, 04:45 AM	#53
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	Acting like a teen who's just discovered sex Not liking Rocky Horror Picture Show Numerous 'turn-offs'

05-25-2014, 08:18 AM	#54
Degotoga Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Respectful and situational appropriate ones Relationship Status: Enjoying butchelorhood Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Texas Posts: 3,301 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,390 Thanked 4,380 Times in 1,233 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Lack of integrity Self-absorption Know-it-Alls People speaking for me, or thinking they know me better than I know myself Lousy drivers __________________ Don't try to explain yourself to stupid people. You're not the jackass whisperer.

05-25-2014, 08:51 AM	#55
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05-25-2014, 08:15 PM	#56
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05-25-2014, 08:17 PM	#57
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05-26-2014, 05:28 AM	#58
Daktari Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	Self-absorption in conversation

05-26-2014, 04:49 PM	#59
Shystonefem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Shy for President Join Date: May 2014 Location: NH Posts: 1,105 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,475 Thanked 3,671 Times in 897 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Being Mean Drama Dirty hygiene not supportive old before your time complaining all of the time putting more value on "stuff" than on those you love Someone who argues all of the time

05-26-2014, 11:22 PM	#60
canadianmusician Junior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM Preferred Pronoun?: Him/He/His Relationship Status: Poly & D/s Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Vancouver Posts: 47 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 25 Thanked 63 Times in 29 Posts Rep Power: 430180	Showing up drunk or high is definitely a turn off. This happened once. Low self confidence. Jumbled/compartmentalized communication styles. I like to hear it clear as a bell! __________________ The only thing I learned from the tooth fairy is that I can sell my body parts for money.

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