Helpful Tips on Raising a Happy Child

ProfPacker · 12-03-2014, 12:16 AM

All these things make sense. I have learned to also let them start to take responsibility for their consequences, you will not be in the world with them all the time.

Be honest, like someone said, don't sweat the small stuff, choose your battle.

Be there to listen, respect their space and privacy. Trust that even though as teens they become subhuman, they will pull out of it and have a sense of respect and kindness and empathy for others if you model that.

(I finally learned that going ballistic at times does nothing except get tears from all and a sore throat) lol

Rockinonahigh · 12-03-2014, 02:02 AM

When I was 10 I had a big issue with an uncle abusing me,I told my mom and she didn't be leave me.This happened again when another uncle call me a worthless chunk of s87t while she was standing there and did not a thing about it ever.Thank goodness my grannie stood up for me and did take care of the issue, big time.By mom ding this set the tone of a distrustful and bad relationship
that never got better ever.Please don't let this happen to you and your child.

Bard · 02-20-2015, 03:30 AM

With my daughter aka Goose, I have tried to instil that actions have consequences. To always try your best but it is ok to fail or not be good at everything. I am very lucky she is a smart sweet kind child, very considerate of others feelings and not afraid to stand up for what she believes. Both her other mother and I had self-esteem issues and I am so glad that Goose has the self confidence that she does. I always remind her that she has a lot of people that love her very much and will no matter what. Just as we did when she was very small we sometimes go thorough the list... She always knows that even though she is not with me all the time I am only a call or text away..

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12-03-2014, 12:16 AM	#1
ProfPacker Member How Do You Identify?: butch/MOC Preferred Pronoun?: Hy/hym/hys but in circumstances like work and some other places she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Sep 2013 Location: nj Posts: 1,365 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,023 Thanked 4,815 Times in 1,187 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	All these things make sense. I have learned to also let them start to take responsibility for their consequences, you will not be in the world with them all the time. Be honest, like someone said, don't sweat the small stuff, choose your battle. Be there to listen, respect their space and privacy. Trust that even though as teens they become subhuman, they will pull out of it and have a sense of respect and kindness and empathy for others if you model that. (I finally learned that going ballistic at times does nothing except get tears from all and a sore throat) lol

12-03-2014, 02:02 AM	#2
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	When I was 10 I had a big issue with an uncle abusing me,I told my mom and she didn't be leave me.This happened again when another uncle call me a worthless chunk of s87t while she was standing there and did not a thing about it ever.Thank goodness my grannie stood up for me and did take care of the issue, big time.By mom ding this set the tone of a distrustful and bad relationship that never got better ever.Please don't let this happen to you and your child.