Lusting after lingerie...

[Candelion]

Originally Posted by Kobi

Ok Im confused so help me out here.

When I read this, I am hearing a woman only wears lingerie, strikes a provocative pose and requires validation from an outside source to feel sexy. To me, this is a very male oriented, very hetero oriented mindset.

Are you saying a woman should never or would never wear sexy lingerie just to please herself?

I dont have a male mindset or a hetero mindset, so I dont get it. Can you explain it to me and what this has to do with being pc?

Let me help you out with your confusion. I certainly do wear lingerie just to please myself. But, personally, I find it even more fun to wear it for someone else. To please my partner, is to please myself. It's a win/win situation for the both of us. And when I say my bedroom is a non politically correct zone, I mean I want it to be a place where we can explore our deepest, darkest fantasies without being limited by political correctness. A "come hither" look does not denigrate me as a woman in this context, rather it gets me exactly what I need, exactly what I want. My partner is happy, I'm happy. I should think this would be the goal whether you have a hetero or queer mindset.

[Kobi]

Originally Posted by Candelion

Let me help you out with your confusion. I certainly do wear lingerie just to please myself. But, personally, I find it even more fun to wear it for someone else. To please my partner, is to please myself. It's a win/win situation for the both of us. And when I say my bedroom is a non politically correct zone, I mean I want it to be a place where we can explore our deepest, darkest fantasies without being limited by political correctness. A "come hither" look does not denigrate me as a woman in this context, rather it gets me exactly what I need, exactly what I want. My partner is happy, I'm happy. I should think this would be the goal whether you have a hetero or queer mindset.

Ok so if you wear lingerie to also just please yourself, then you may indeed wear it while watching television or cooking or cleaning or whatever you choose simply because it is to please you, yes?

And you are talking about removing political correctness from your own bedroom for the benefit of yourself and your partner. This makes sense to me. So, the need to post provocative come hither photos of unknown women in lingerie in this thread fits in to what happens in your own bedroom in what way?

[A. Spectre]

Originally Posted by Kobi

Ok so if you wear lingerie to also just please yourself, then you may indeed wear it while watching television or cooking or cleaning or whatever you choose simply because it is to please you, yes?

And you are talking about removing political correctness from your own bedroom for the benefit of yourself and your partner. This makes sense to me. So, the need to post provocative come hither photos of unknown women in lingerie in this thread fits in to what happens in your own bedroom in what way?

Respectfully Kobi, many of us enjoy this thread without politicizing it.

[Kobi]

Originally Posted by A. Spectre

Respectfully Kobi, many of us enjoy this thread without politicizing it.

Showing the vast variety of lingerie available is enjoyable.

Specifically using photos that objectify women for the sake of objectifying women under the guise of "lingerie" is not respectful to women. It is the exploitation of women as sex objects.

It is very political. Because seeing and using women as sex objects is what is behind women being raped, sold into sexual slavery, and otherwise used and abused for the pleasure of others.

It makes me sad to think people find this "enjoyable".

Carry on.

[Candelion]

Originally Posted by Kobi

Ok so if you wear lingerie to also just please yourself, then you may indeed wear it while watching television or cooking or cleaning or whatever you choose simply because it is to please you, yes?

And you are talking about removing political correctness from your own bedroom for the benefit of yourself and your partner. This makes sense to me. So, the need to post provocative come hither photos of unknown women in lingerie in this thread fits in to what happens in your own bedroom in what way?

Personally, I wouldn't wear lingerie for cooking or cleaning. It costs too damned much to have it ruined that way. There are better ways to ruin lingerie. But if it pleases a woman to wear lingerie for cooking and cleaning, the more power to her. And once again, we come back to the "come hither" look. That "come hither" look does not make me an object, it makes me a very happy participant.

Now, this is very pretty.

[JustLovelyJenn]

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by Candelion

If I put on beautiful lingerie like that and found myself watching cartoons, I'd say my evening had gone tragically wrong.

Depends on what cartoon you were watching, I'd say. There are some pretty damn hot anime series around.

I get everyone's points but, for the record, this site isn't anyone's bedroom and what we post here is available for all to see. It's a public forum. We choose what images to project and thus, promote.

I leave here periodically because I do get tired of the 'I can't be sexy unless someone is looking at me' schtick but I usually find my way back because there are a lot of pretty things posted here. I guess it evens out. I am really glad that there has been significantly less panting and tongue lolling from the guys and butches lately. That didn't feel good.

For me, sexy starts with me. Not anyone else. If I'm not feeling sexy, no one else is going to make me feel sexy. That's the POV I'm coming from. Take it or leave it. Everyone's POV is valid and equally important, even if it makes others feel uncomfortable.

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn

These cracked me up. Love them!