I am getting married and I am clueless......HELP!!!

Ginger · 01-14-2015, 07:44 PM

I'm hearing all your anxiety about what to wear.

It's hard enough to plan a wedding when a person fits into the male/female dichotomy set up for weddings. I mean, if you were butch or femme identified, you'd have plenty of templates to fit into that you could then tweak to make your own. You could be butch/femme, butch/butch, femme/femme—whatever matched.

But you're "just yourselves." You're not really into dresses, not really into tuxes—

So just follow your gut! Explore and play with the options. I think it will be fun.

01-14-2015, 07:44 PM	#12
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,296 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I'm hearing all your anxiety about what to wear. It's hard enough to plan a wedding when a person fits into the male/female dichotomy set up for weddings. I mean, if you were butch or femme identified, you'd have plenty of templates to fit into that you could then tweak to make your own. You could be butch/femme, butch/butch, femme/femme—whatever matched. But you're "just yourselves." You're not really into dresses, not really into tuxes— So just follow your gut! Explore and play with the options. I think it will be fun. __________________ Reach out.

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