What pissed you off today?

[Gemme]

Originally Posted by Orema

I don’t know if your organization would be open to this, but at my job we took some assessments that helped us communicate better. Didn’t solve all the problems, but it made working with each other easier. We have the exact problem you describe: we sometimes feel like we're speaking with aliens when communicating with teammates. And these are people who thoroughly understand the English language—written and spoken.

Every member on our team at work took a DiSC Profile assessment to understand each other’s style of communication. This assessment is usually used in leadership development, but we took the test to be able to better communicate with each other.

Our team took the assessment and put the results of each person on a large board, posted it where everyone has access to it, and we consult it when necessary. We ask that new members take the test, too.

I think it’s only used as a last resort after you’re frustrated with someone (and we sometimes chuckle when we see someone consulting the chart because we know they’re probably frustrated or maybe even pissed off). But, on the whole it helps. For instance, I know who appreciates my direct way of communicating and I know when I need to have my filters in high gear. I also know and understand that someone who’s analytical may communicate differently than me.

It, or something similar, may be worth checking out if your company has a budget for training. It won’t solve everything and not even most things, but it could be helpful.

Good luck, CherryWine.

I took that at my job too. It didn't tell me anything new about myself but it did give me insight into my coworker, which helped smooth any rough edges that popped up from time to time.

[Barb42]

The nerve of a few family members thinking they know how to take care of my mom better then I do.. They dont take care of their kids why do they think they can take care of my mom.. If it wasnt for my mom & myself their kids wouldnt eat most of the time.. They have money to go to the bar or sit out back & drink but cant feed their kids... Ill stay quiete for only so long... Not a happy camper right now...