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			INFJ:   Author:   drive and enjoyment to help others. Complex personality. 1% of the total population. These are serious students and workers who really want to contribute. They are private and easily hurt. They make good spouses, but tend to be physically reserved. People often think they are psychic. They make good therapists, general practitioners, ministers, and so on.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			ENFJ: "Pedagogue". Outstanding leader of groups. Can be aggressive at helping others to be the best that they can be. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			And there's totally a typo in the description. I can't remember what I've come out on this before. Just know the "E" has never changed. And oh yeah, I swear, it seems as if every list has "journalist" on it. Guess anyone can be one. *grin* At least, that's what all the at-home bloggers think. 
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			 INFP INFP's feel internal turmoil when they find themselves in situations in which there is conflict between their inner code of ethics and their relationships with others. They feel caught between pleasing others and maintaining their own integrity. Their natural tendency to identify with others, compounded with their self-sacrificial dispositions, tends to leave them confused as to who they really are. Their quiet personalities further feeds their feelings of depersonalization. The INFP's quest for self-identity then seems even more alluring — but increasingly impossible to attain. A lot of the above does not fit- but I am introverted and require a lot of solitude. As with all NFs, the INFP will feel lost and perplexed at stressful times. As stress builds, INFP's become disconnected from their own personality and perceived place in life. They will lose sight of who they are in relation to time and place. They may not make basic observations, while instead they will focus on the more abstract and symbolic meanings of a particular interaction. This can sometimes baffle those who expect more direct communication and a fairly concrete relationship. Hummmmm... I am an abstract and analytical thinker. Careers information-graphics...designer college professor researcher legal mediator social worker holistic health...practitioner occupational therapist diversity manager human resource...development specialist employment development...specialist minister/priest/rabbi missionary psychologist writer/poet/novelist journalist editor/art director organizational development...specialist Well, I'm a retired professor, psychotherapist, trainer and social worker! And a poet and began career building as an art student and was interested in the performing arts (singer). AND, I did seriously consider becomming a minister at one time! I used bold for every occupation I have done on the list.  
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			Just wanted to toss something out here, maybe clear up a little confusion or whatever. A number of folks have commented on how their codes have changed at different times - that's not terribly unusual. I haven't taken the test from the link on this thread, so I'm not sure how it presents the results, but a myer's briggs given and scored by a clinician is going to report the four dimensions along dimensions. For instance, the first code is Extroversion/Introversion. On the results printout you'd get a line with 100% E on one end and 100% I on the other end. While I suppose statistically speaking are probably a few who end up on either end, most of us fall somewhere in between the two. It's often the case that one or more codes fall more towards the middle, and those are the ones that may change over time. Codes that fall more towards either end tend to be stable over time. So there is room for some change and it's actually quite common. In fact, if you know that you fall close to the middle on a dimension it'd be good to read over the description of both ends for that dimension as you're probably a combination of the two. Happy Myers-brigging! 
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			INTP: "Architect". Greatest precision in thought and language. Can readily discern contradictions and inconsistencies. They are good at logic and math and make good philosophers and theoretical scientists, but not writers or salespeople. 1% of the total population. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Though I think I came up INFP... when I took the Myers Briggs full test... *S* *shrugs* Metro 
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			ESTJ: "Administrator". Much in touch with the external environment. These are responsible mates and parents and are loyal to the workplace. They are realistic, down-to-earth, orderly, and love tradition. They often find themselves joining civic clubs! 13% of the total population 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I'm an INFP.  My job's not a dreamer-job,  but that's alright.  I need the structure of my 8-5 cubicle life to  keep me going.  It's so hard to create my own structure. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			INFP's feel internal turmoil when they find themselves in situations in which there is conflict between their inner code of ethics and their relationships with others. They feel caught between pleasing others and maintaining their own integrity. Their natural tendency to identify with others, compounded with their self-sacrificial dispositions, tends to leave them confused as to who they really are. Their quiet personalities further feeds their feelings of depersonalization. The INFP's quest for self-identity then seems even more alluring — but increasingly impossible to attain. yep As with all NFs, the INFP will feel lost and perplexed at stressful times. As stress builds, INFP's become disconnected from their own personality and perceived place in life. They will lose sight of who they are in relation to time and place. They may not make basic observations, while instead they will focus on the more abstract and symbolic meanings of a particular interaction. This can sometimes baffle those who expect more direct communication and a fairly concrete relationship. yep 
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	i am pretty sure the first 3 are constants for me... tho i do tend to flip on the P/J... i thought it was interesting that the vast majority that tested in this group came as I... but... that seemed to me to feel wakked because a lot of the folks that tested as I are folks that share a lot here... i assume that could mean nothing... i mean... this is almost anonymous... well... sorta... you dont have to come out in front of anyone to speak out here... and... you can keep what you want to yourself... yeah... its prolly not as interesting as i thought it was... sigh...  | 
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			ENFJ: "Pedagogue". Outstanding leader of groups. Can be aggressive at helping others to be the best that they can be. 5% of the total population.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			INTP:"Architect" - Greatest precision in thought and language. Can readily discern contradictions and inconsistencies. They are good at logic and math and make good philosophers and theoretical scientists, but not writers or salespeople. 1% of the total population. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Always the same and always describes me fairly well. Pretty much the only personality test that's ever really gotten much right. As far as the career part, it's consistant with what I studied in university/will continue to study in uni, and hopefully eventually go on to do at a higher level. I really enjoy philosophy and critical theory. Doesn't mention my current job, though I think that's because of the reputation it tends to have, unfortunately. Actually, part of the reason why I'm unhappy at my current job is because it does involve sales lol  | 
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			ISFJ: "Conservator". These people are service and work oriented  - very loyal. They may suffer from fatigue and tend to be attracted to troublemakers. They are good nurses, teachers, secretaries, general practitioners, librarians, middle managers, and housekeepers. 6% of the total population. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I don't know about being attracted to troublemakers... but I was a damn good nurse! Too bad I got burnt out on it and PTSD makes it so that I can't think or concentrate well enough to do it anymore. Kinda interesting though, I was thinking about going back to school and becoming a kindergarten teacher   
		
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			ISTJ "Trustee" These are dependable pillars of strength. They often try to reform their mates and other people. They make good bank examiners, auditors, accountants, and phys. ed. teachers, and boy or girl scouts! 6% of the total population 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			The jobs listed for this type would all suck for me....I like being a scrub tech. I can't imagine doing anything else. 
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			This lists represent careers and jobs people of your type tend to enjoy doing. The job requirements are similar to the personality tendencies of your personality type. It is important to remember that this is not a list of all the jobs possible. And it is very important to remember that people can, and frequently do, fill jobs that are dissimilar to their personality... this happens all the time...and sometimes works out quite well. conference planner speech pathologist HR development trainer ombudsman clergy journalist newscaster career counselor housing director character actor marketing consultant musician/composer artist information-graphics...designer human resource manager merchandise planner advertising account manager dietitian/nutritionist speech pathologist massage therapist editor/art director 
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			No matter what the subject or the purpose of that test, it always come up with INFP.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I didn't read the careers it recommended for me, but I know my job is a good fit. I get to spend the day on the phone encouraging and reprimanding people. And as a lower middle supervisor I have enough responsibility to keep me busy but not so much that I have to take the stress of my job home with me.  | 
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			I cringe at some of this, but all true  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			![]() And I'm a project manager....so it fits. INTJs’ precision thinking and need for accuracy causes them to be inflexible at times. Having thought out a strategy, the INTJ may stubbornly disregard those who they think have not spent as much time reflecting on an idea as they have. This, along with their drive to produce something significant, can make them demanding and difficult. If their plans and solutions fall short of their high standards, INTJ's feel pressured — as if everything is on the line. "Everything," for an INTJ, is the competence and ability to produce something significant. Fear of not living up to this expectation will increase their stress and possibly dissuade them from risking or trying out their ideas. They may then find themselves thinking about ideas that do not have a meaningful or productive end. When stress increases, the INTJ can become argumentative and disagreeable. Social interaction, which is not their strength, becomes increasingly difficult for them. Not trusting their own abilities, they become preoccupied with obsessive notions. The INTJ may then find themselves spending an inordinate amount of time fighting horrible thoughts, tempting absurdities, and feelings of worthlessness. Fearful of others recognizing their perceived failure, the INTJ incessantly ruminates about mistakes, inadequacies, weaknesses, ineptness, and incompetence. Because this distracts them from risking what little confidence they may have left in themselves, it therefore keeps them from obtaining the success and achievement they so desperately need. Careers This lists represent careers and jobs people of your type tend to enjoy doing. The job requirements are similar to the personality tendencies of your personality type. It is important to remember that this is not a list of all the jobs possible. And it is very important to remember that people can, and frequently do, fill jobs that are dissimilar to their personality... this happens all the time...and sometimes works out quite well. management consultant economist scientist computer programmer environmental planner new business developer curriculum designer administrator mathematician psychologist neurologist biomedical researcher strategic planner civil engineer intellectual properties attorney designer editor/art director inventor informational-graphics...designer financial planner judge 
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	EI (extrovert, introvert) (7-17) - 41%SN (sensation, iNtuition) (11-17) - 64%TF (thinking, feeling) (10-17) - 58%JP (judging, perceiving) (8-17) - 47%ENFJ's are outstanding group leaders. They try hard to help others be the best that they can be. 5% of the total population. The ENFJ's optimistic outlook toward social relationships is a burden to them at times. When external conflicts affect a group, the ENFJ is likely to assume responsibility. Their ability to empathize then turns into a liability. ENFJ's, when over-identifying with the pain of others, will loose sight of their own concerns and interests. Their idealism can also be the cause of some distress when their assumptions are unable to weather the winds of reality. Fantasized relationships rarely translate into reality and even the best charismatic leader encounters unexpected resistance. Like all NFs, ENFJ's will disassociate themselves from stressful situations in an effort to protect their sense of well-being and togetherness. The ENFJ, however, will repress the unpleasant side of life only to have to face it later in an intensified form when it explodes from its hiding place. It can manifest itself as fits of anger, sudden outbursts, or emotional explosions. Often the ENFJ's body will reflect pent-up stress by manifesting various physical symptoms that will erupt unexpectedly. Careers This lists represent careers and jobs people of your type tend to enjoy doing. The job requirements are similar to the personality tendencies of your personality type. It is important to remember that this is not a list of all the jobs possible. And it is very important to remember that people can, and frequently do, fill jobs that are dissimilar to their personality... this happens all the time...and sometimes works out quite well. entertainer recruiter artist newscaster writer/journalist recreation director librarian facilitator politician psychologist housing director career counselor sales trainer travel agent program designer corporate/team trainer child welfare worker social worker (elderly...services) interpreter/translator occupational therapist executive: small business alcohol/drug counselor sales manager  | 
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	The ISFJ feels a strong sense of responsibility and duty. They take their responsibilities very seriously, and can be counted on to follow through. For this reason, people naturally tend to rely on them. The ISFJ has a difficult time saying "no" when asked to do something, and may become over-burdened. In such cases, the ISFJ does not usually express their difficulties to others, because they intensely dislike conflict, and because they tend to place other people's needs over their own. The ISFJ needs to learn to identify, value, and express their own needs, if they wish to avoid becoming over-worked and taken for granted. ISFJs need positive feedback from others. In the absence of positive feedback, or in the face of criticism, the ISFJ gets discouraged, and may even become depressed. When down on themselves or under great stress, the ISFJ begins to imagine all of the things that might go critically wrong in their life. They have strong feelings of inadequacy, and become convinced that "everything is all wrong", or "I can't do anything right". The ISFJ is warm, generous, and dependable. They have many special gifts to offer, in their sensitivity to others, and their strong ability to keep things running smoothly. They need to remember to not be overly critical of themselves, and to give themselves some of the warmth and love which they freely dispense to others.  | 
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