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12-30-2011, 11:07 AM
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Would I move for a love relationship? I think I would if the circumstances were just right for me and her. Especially the job front. I think it would put undue burdens on the relationship if one of the couple has no job prospects. Am I being too realistic not a romantic? The question is how do we know when the circumstances are right? A lot of honest communication and visits. A bit of a reality check along with the romance of the relationship, that is where honesty comes in. I can dream can't I?
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12-30-2011, 11:39 AM
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I think the job aspect is extremely important. I was lucky when I moved for someone I got an awesome job and that is what has kept me where I am, if not for the job I know for sure I would have moved back to be closer to my family. I guess the move question is the hardest of them all.
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12-30-2011, 11:53 AM
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I think the much bigger question is "What would it take for you to move?" The moving itself seems inconsequential if you have a great job lined up, you've spent every other weekend together for a year, and a continuous week twice in the last six months, and you're compatible, in love and the planets are aligned.
However, that rarely seems to be the case, and I'm continuously astonished at how quickly people move out of state for someone they've only spent a few days with real time. Yes, there are phone calls every day and tons of time online, but it boils down to a few days in real time, and that just isn't long enough to get to know someone, in my opinion. I think there are definitely success stories, but I also believe there was a lot of luck involved there, because again, how can you really make a truly informed and intelligent decision on whether to live with someone if you've only spent 10 or 20 or even 30 days of face-to-face time with them? I'm definitely not old fashioned - I'm just cautious. I'm also not someone who needs to be with someone; I'm perfectly happy being single, or just dating, so there is no driving force for me to want to live with someone, and the older I get, the more I appreciate my own space and don't want to live with anyone. Less fuss that way 
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12-30-2011, 11:55 AM
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Just wanted to come in & say hello to everyone
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12-30-2011, 12:11 PM
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01-01-2012, 07:42 PM
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Happy New Year to all!
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01-02-2012, 08:32 AM
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Just popping in to say "Hello" to all and wish everyone the happiest and healthiest of New Years!
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01-02-2012, 10:38 AM
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Happy New Year everyone!
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01-02-2012, 10:59 AM
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Happy New Year Everyone ♥ !!!
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01-05-2012, 10:01 AM
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HAPPY NEW YEAR!!! Let's get with the excellent newness!
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01-09-2012, 12:40 PM
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Hey everyone, just came in to wish all of My friends and fellow singles a fantastic 2012 :-)
**waves hello to veryfemme** 
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05-02-2012, 12:57 PM
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Hello, all
I have been away from this site for well over a year now, but thought I would swing on by and see what was happening.. Some may remember me and some may not, lol I will refrain from posting a full out personal ad, but I am looking to date some folks.. Not really looking to move in with someone or move across country, lol.. But if you and I happen to be in the same area at the same time, coffee and conversation never hurt anyone, has it? I see this thread has been a lil slow lately, but i will keep my eyes open -Tony
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05-07-2012, 07:58 AM
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Not exactly in your area Tender, but figured I'd say hi anyways as well as to everyone else in the group
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05-08-2012, 11:04 AM
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Thanks for the "hi".. Where in Canada are you? I visited the East Coast of Canada a few years back, never been to the West Coast..
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I'm actually in the middle of the country, in Manitoba, where we are getting absolutely gorgeous weather! I had a nice walk this afternoon, the sun was shining and while it was warm I enjoyed just getting out of the house ~ hopefully your getting nice weather in your neck of the woods too
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05-13-2012, 11:35 PM
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Leigh, it was actually very nice weather today.. Even got to go for a swim in the ocean for a bit, first time this year.. Have to admit, the water was COLD, lol. Glad you got to get out and enjoy your day
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It'll be nice to be near the water this summer, though I burn easily so I'd better make sure I keep alot of sunscreen around or I'll be a lobster lol ~ I did very much enjoy my day thank you, I'm glad you enjoyed yours too
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Just a little Bump...
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06-12-2012, 06:53 PM
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*giving a curvy nudge to bump*
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06-13-2012, 08:27 PM
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Hmmm.. should I specify what I am looking for? Friends first, dating if we are sympatico, down the road if it is right, much more. Butch over 45, smart, compassionate, cuddly. Partially disabled or health issue a plus, we would both be moving a bit slower... but together. Must like femmes.
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