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			Estoy recibiendo cómodo con él Join Date: Apr 2010 
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			***AMEN!!!  thank you bigbutchmistie
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			I don't know about feeling too old for something but I do see people I think look too young for what they are doing.....like driving....lol!!!!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: 
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			nonsense 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	watching a magnified view of someone I love very much do the same pattern over and over again and know they sincerely believe the outcome will be different this time around - breaks my heart into a bazillion pieces knowing the reality will eventually catch up with them again and again (yes, talking about mind altering substance addiction) It is too painful for me to see the up/down extreme personality changes. Rags to riches ... back to rags.  
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			Absolutely nothing at all. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Too old not to love again when the time is right and the Femme is right. How will I know? We will both Know. Greco  | 
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			I absolutely agree with Greco.  I truly believe I was not meant to be alone on this earth.  However, I was meant to learn a lot of life lessons before meeting the "One".  After years of life lessons, I am patiently waiting for Hym.  I will never settle again, nor be with someone just so I am not alone.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Rocky, best of luck with your journey back to the US. Let's stay in touch. Hard to believe it has been over 10 yrs since we first met. Oh, and I totally relate to the comment about clubbing and then heading off to Denny's or somewhere like that before heading home. I think they call that "the good old days". lol ciao for now, Candice  | 
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			Too old to sit Indian style on the floor..lol
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			ok that made me laugh ..........  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			but what is indian style really??? i have indian family members and they sit like every one else..... i remember when my daughter when she was in K or 1st grade.. forget which .. she came home to tell me her teacher showed them how to sit like a indian sits... and im like oh yah??? so she showed me.... well ok maybe they did .. no chairs i guess?? i cant sit like that.. ever either. heh *wink* 
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			Uranus will retrograde in Gemini Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			as reminded by a dear friend tonight 
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			To old to for my primary wardrobe to be T shirts with logos and baseball caps.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Ummm...... I forgot.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			I'm too old to have patience for stupidity..... and I'm too old not to know when I'm being bullshitted....this is NOT my first rodeo....but my girls seem to think otherwise  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I am too old to wait for something to happen.  That old "I will do X when I Y" 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			just isn't gonna cut it any more. I need to do things that are important now, if not now then when? 
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