The House of Stone...

[SilverStoneFemme]

This is a thread for all stones, butches and femmes, who would like a place to gather and chat. It's also a place for those who consider themselves to be friends and family of stones, and a place for those who would like to chat with and/or learn more information about the stone identity.

Let me be clear on the definition of stones:

*1. A stone butch is a person who is masculine in thoughts and actions, whose personal style is masculine, whose only partner is a stonefemme (or a femme who can accept stone butches for who and what they are), who does not wish to be touched in a feminizing manner, who considers the sexual satisfaction of hys partner first, and who does not wish hys genitals to be touched and hy is cock-centric, in that hys sexual style is expressed mainly through hys butchcock in a masculine manner.

*2. A stone femme is a person who is feminine in thoughts and action, whose personal style is feminine, whose only partner is a stone butch, whose sexual style accepts the sexual boundaries and limitations of any stonebutch with grace and understanding, who never pushes the limits and boundaries of any stone butch and who loves butchcock and the masculinity of stone butches it represents.

If your definition of stone butch and stone femme is #1 and #2 above you encouraged to join our group.

There may be people who define stone butch and stone femme in other ways and they have the right to do so. However, they also have an an opportunity here at BFP to start another group according to their own definitions.

[cuddlyfemme]

Count me in! I'm totally a Stone Femme and proud of it!

[Electrocell]

Stone butch here.

[SilverStoneFemme]

Hello, cuddlyfemme and ElectroCell, nice to have you here and i hope to hear from lots more stones.

[SilverStoneFemme]

I joined BFP back in 2010 and had lots of posts and reps, but I guess my inactivity has brought those figures down to 0.

But that's alright, they'll come back up once I get rolling on the website once again.

[Electrocell]

Originally Posted by SilverStoneFemme

I joined BFP back in 2010 and had lots of posts and reps, but I guess my inactivity has brought those figures down to 0.

But that's alright, they'll come back up once I get rolling on the website once again.

Welcome back .

[SilverStoneFemme]

Thanx, i hope to be around a bit longer this trip....lol........

[diamondrose]

thank you for starting this thread. I am a stone femme

[aishah]

welcome back our definitions aren't exactly the same, but i'm a stone femme who is partnered with a stone butch. thank you for starting this thread

[SilverStoneFemme]

Originally Posted by aishah

welcome back our definitions aren't exactly the same, but i'm a stone femme who is partnered with a stone butch. thank you for starting this thread

I was on a website somewhere on the net and a butch came along who thought the meaning of stone butch meant hy didn't have a girlfriend.

As long as your definitions are along the lines of the original post, and not something as weird as the one in the above paragraph....lol....it's all good.........welcome.....

[SweetJane]

Hi, I'm glad you started this threat. Mingling out in the wider lesbian community lately has made me feel a need to be among my own kind. Thank you.

[SilverStoneFemme]

Originally Posted by SweetJane

Hi, I'm glad you started this threat. Mingling out in the wider lesbian community lately has made me feel a need to be among my own kind. Thank you.

That's exactly why i started this thread. It's so difficult to find stones out and about in the queer community, especially here in the midwest. i was starved for stone contacts, and here At BFP we have a place to come together..........

Edited for typoitis

[tiggs]

Hi SSF, thanks for starting this thread both my Daddy and I are stone and as it seems we have the same way of defining O/our stone as you do. Hopefully this thread will take off.

[mustangjeano]

Originally Posted by aishah

welcome back our definitions aren't exactly the same, but i'm a stone femme who is partnered with a stone butch. thank you for starting this thread

Great to see this thread, thanks.

[skeeter_01]

when i heard the definition of "stone butch"...it was like finding a missing puzzle piece...all of the sudden...things made sence...

unfortunately...i have yet to meet a stone femme in person...met plenty of them on here and other sites...but it seems that the femmes that i date all want to "change" me...

"do you think someday i can do x,y and z to you"?

"uhhhhhhhhhh....NO"....

i would LOVE to meet a stone femme...!!! i would especially love to DATE a stone femme!!

thanks so much for this thread!!

skeet

[Silverseastar]

I'm not exclusively a stone femme...not sure if I fit in at all here. But the defining thing for me is respecting my partner's identity and sexual desires. I don't feel a need to change anyone and have successfully dated stone butches.

People are a package deal imho. Trying to change anyone is a bad idea.

I do think it's awesome to create a space where those who are clear on what they like can congregate though

[Electrocell]

Have to say your meaning of a stone butch pretty well sums it up for me. I don't like being touched in a feminizing way and I always make sure my partner is satisfied sexually before I consider my own needs. It gives me pleasure to give her pleasure.

[SilverStoneFemme]

Originally Posted by tiggs

Hi SSF, thanks for starting this thread both my Daddy and I are stone and as it seems we have the same way of defining O/our stone as you do. Hopefully this thread will take off.

Thanks for coming by, tiggs. i'm glad you've come into the thread. Hope you and your Daddy meet lots of other stones here..........

[SilverStoneFemme]

Originally Posted by skeeter_01

when i heard the definition of "stone butch"...it was like finding a missing puzzle piece...all of the sudden...things made sence...

unfortunately...i have yet to meet a stone femme in person...met plenty of them on here and other sites...but it seems that the femmes that i date all want to "change" me...

"do you think someday i can do x,y and z to you"?

"uhhhhhhhhhh....NO"....

i would LOVE to meet a stone femme...!!! i would especially love to DATE a stone femme!!

thanks so much for this thread!!

skeet

Hi skeet.....sorry for the bad experiences but those femmes who want to change you really don't understand the whys and wherefores of a stonebutch.

Don't ever let anyone change who you are unless YOU want to. Boundaries are boundaries and limitations are just that......lines that don't get crossed ever unless YOU want it.

You hang around this place long enough and a sweet thang will come along who will GET you. Don't you worry. We're out here we just need to be "found."....lol......

[SilverStoneFemme]

Originally Posted by Silverseastar

I'm not exclusively a stone femme...not sure if I fit in at all here. But the defining thing for me is respecting my partner's identity and sexual desires. I don't feel a need to change anyone and have successfully dated stone butches.

People are a package deal imho. Trying to change anyone is a bad idea.

I do think it's awesome to create a space where those who are clear on what they like can congregate though

Hi, Silverseastar, nice to have you join us here.

As far as being a stonefemme, as long as you have respect for a butch's sexual boundaries and limitations that's all that matters. You have the heart of a stonefemme even if you're also able to do that lesbian thing......lol.....*shutter*.....sorry, even thinking of that makes me shiver.....can't help it, i'm a hard core stonefemme............