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			honor 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			integrity genuine respect compassion 
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			The smell of the holidays 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Trimming the tree with Red Watching Abby (my Australian Shepard) freak over the garden gnome. Working on our puzzle that is a picuture of stamps, sipping wine and listening to holiday music Lazy Sundays 
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			I'm alive. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I woke up. I'm breathing. The sun is shining. Another day, another chance.  | 
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			1.   Randomly throwing things into my neighbors yard. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	2. An egg toss. 3. Pretending to be a ninja in public. 4. Lafayette Ethnic Food Corridor. 5. Drawing on sleeping people.  | 
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			1. Banana bread baking  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			2. Thanksgiving weekend with loved ones 3. Clean laundry 4. Really good audiobooks 5. Brother being home for turkey day 
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			1. Long weekends with Red 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			2. All the great food we get to eat this weekend 3. Chilling in front of the fireplace 4. Decorating the tree 5. Did I mention all the great food! Happy Holidays to everyone! 
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			warm houses on cold nights 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			snoring dogs fuzzy slippers and robes the smell of holidays in my house lucking out and getting the purse I always wanted finally 
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	Organic veggies Jets and planes (I love aviation) England (I used to live there part of the year) Youtube Deborah  | 
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			We don't have a war on our soil. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			They have not instituted a draft. Medicare and Medicaid My family is not homeless and we have food on the table. Partner and cats Che and Calliope. 
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			Uranus will retrograde in Gemini Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			blueberries 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			warm fuzzy socks violets scented shampoo earl grey tea gentle rough hands 
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			Pomegranate green tea 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Knitting - soothes me My cat cuddling on my lap A good book Chocolate!  | 
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			The privilege of existing 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Sex Bomb Bath's with great books, lots of candles and good wine Walking on the beach that is 100 yards from my front door Decaf Latte's 10 yards from my front door Being open to people Having an awesome teenager 
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			1.  Getting home safely. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	2. Smell of a homecooked meal. 3. Friends and family. 4. Burberry. 5. A cozy bed to sleep in.  | 
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			Shoppping! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
	The holiday season! Candy! Soda! Good friends and loves!  | 
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			Handcuff's. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	The Lady Snow. Plato. Blindfolds. Me = Footstool.  | 
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			* Dunkin' Donuts Vanilla-flavored coffee (one of my best friends recommended it--and he was right about the yummy factor) 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			* A beautiful (though chilly) day outside * Plans for the evening with my Sweetie * A major writing project coming together * A large music library on my computer 
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			1. family 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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