You Knew You Were a Femme When... - Page 2

1QuirkyKiwi · 09-23-2011, 04:36 PM

As a teen, my first girlfriend had a more masculine energy than I did/have - it was the 80s and the various 'labels' weren't around in small town NZ. She was always more into the activities that boys did, where as I preferred doing the girly things, although, I do have a love for DIY, lol!

deb_U_taunt · 09-24-2011, 10:06 AM

I can relate. I have never referred to myself as a femme. BUT from my first crush to my first relationship to my last, all butches. Not even a soft butch in there.
I came out at 14 and in the 70s, so butch wasn't the flavor of the day and no internet to find each other. I did always manage to find some mechanic, plumber or the like though. Still nothing like a thick motorcycle riding, independent, boot wearing, blue collar butch. Just sexy.

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Originally Posted by SugarLips

but I don't think there was a moment that I said, "Oh I'm a femme"... I've just always been me... lol

funkyfemme · 09-24-2011, 10:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Debby

Still nothing like a thick motorcycle riding, independent, boot wearing, blue collar butch. Just sexy.

**SWOON** You got that right sister!!

09-23-2011, 04:36 PM	#1
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