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I usually watch DWTS. I agree J. I don't get all the controversy either. That's just America for you. I don't think Chaz wanted controversy over this. The guy just wants to dance. Lots of sports figures, politicians, musicians, celebrities are a part of DWTS. It is something he wants to do. Let the dude dance and leave it at that! Cher said she would not be in the audience and not because she doesn't support him but because she didn't want to take away from his fame and time! I say go Chaz! Enjoy buddy!
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Found this online, which pretty much summed up what we thought might be the case for Chaz in terms of actual competition. I know with my size, I'd be hard pressed to do what he's doing. (I'm not even gonna mention my lack of rhythm. LOL)
This is from Lacey Schwimmer, his pro dancing partner (credit to Yahoo): How is Chaz doing in rehearsals so far? "He's picking up choreography very easily, but his stamina was very low. So we’ve been putting him through drills that will make him stronger in the competition. It’s all about him being able to breathe and get through a full dance."
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Some nice soul posted a link to this woman's blog on Chaz Bono's Facebook page because she wanted him to see it. I guess, otherwise, he might miss it altogether. I thought it was a fantastic letter about "traditional values" and I think it deserves a posting here. I have to admit, I did make an email out of it and I sent to to my folks. They have stood beside me, as one family, throughout my own transition. I wanted to them to know how much I appreciated their support.
Here's the letter: Dear Chaz Bono, I suppose my family is what you would call a “traditional” family. I am heterosexual, married, have a young child, one on the way, and two dogs. We have also altered our financial lifestyle so that I can stay home with our children while they are very young and my husband works. I am protective of my child, and careful of the people, things, and ideas I let into my home. I am starting to realize as I age, that I have very traditional values. I value honor. Integrity in one’s beliefs and actions is something I hope to teach my son. I value dignity. True dignity requires self respect, and people who respect themselves tend to respect others. I value truth. Lies diminish a person and the people being lied to. I value family. Having and creating a unit that loves and supports one another is the root system to living an honest, healthy life. I value standing up for your rights. That’s a tradition this country was founded on. I value change. This is one of the oldest traditions of all. It’s the only constant. It’s the path to evolution… to growth. I value courage. It takes great strength of character to stand up despite great opposition. I hear you are going to dance. I’ve never been a big fan of Dancing With The Stars – as a former dancer, I never quite caught on to the craze of watching people who aren’t quite so good at it. But I will say dancing is good for the soul. It also takes a lot of courage to do it in front of millions. I also hear that many are appalled at your appearance on the show. Some even quote bible verses, and cry “sin” and “abomination”. I’m not against the tradition of picking and choosing what’s useful from the bible. People have done that since the beginning. I guess the question is – what’s useful? I pick turning the other cheek. I pick treating others how I would want to be treated. I pick compassion. Through the years I’ve gathered that at the core of most religions, and those older than Christianity, is the goal of becoming a better person not a better judge. Like I said, I’m careful of the people, things, and ideas that I let into my home. Would you like to come to dinner? I’m guessing since my value system makes me pretty traditional… It makes you pretty traditional too. Jenny Chiu http://mommynanibooboo.com/life/dear...y-traditional/ I hope Chaz sees that and takes her up for dinner at her house!!!! ![]() ![]() ~Theo~ ![]()
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Here's a practice gallery shot of Chaz I found while looking for the start date, which is Sept. 19-20, btw.
I'll definitely be voting for someone for the first time. Usually I've just watched while I worked because it was what was on the tube. Now, I'm interested and will be following to see how people treat it. There have been a lot of trans issues I've seen in the paper lately, mostly having to do with young children (10 or younger). This has the potential to be a great thing for these children who are struggling with identity, particularly if DWTS and Chaz just take it in stride and go, if you know what I mean. Just let him be a guy that's trying to compete.
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I personally think it is great that Chaz in on DWTS, but am disappointed with America's reaction. "Gay" has only become mainstream in the past 10 years or so, which is fairly recent. When I say mainstream, I mean shows like Will and Grace, Queer Eye and other popular shows that make the straighties feel warm and fuzzy... and are often stereotypical. This is a whole new ballgame. An FTM is definitely not mainstream and definitely misunderstood. I think it is ground breaking and I am proud to be a part of the community during this time.. and I hope that this can help catapult our community to a deeper understanding with mainstream America. I know there is going to be a lot of backlash... but I think it will end up opening a few more minds. Even if it opens only one, I think we have won.
As far as the Lady Gaga thing? I think most people who know nothing about the trans community took it as her dressing in a costume and entertaining... nothing more. I really don't even think it has any more clout than that, for myself personally. I wasn't very impressed. That's my opinion. |
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I think Lady Gaga presented a nonthreatening gender bending platform. Curious and lighthearted. She clearly supports the queer community with intelligent and artistic statements.
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politely referred to her performance as her alter ego. I agree it was lighthearted. I just wifh she would have omitted that cigarette scene. (my .02) |
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Go Megan and Fox News! [nomedia="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-oToBkx-Bic&feature=player_embedded"]AblowChaz - YouTube[/nomedia]
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I only watched the show tonight to see Chaz dance.
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Well... I've seen worse!! He danced like no one was watching and had fun and his smile is contagious! I voted cause I could and cause it takes courage to take all those pot shots with the style he did.
Great going Chaz!
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I watched Chazz dance,he was haveing good time at it,I hope he stays on for a while I would like to see how he dose as he go's along.I voted as did several people I know....go Chazz.
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I watched it last night and Chaz did such a great job at dancing.
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![]() Cher reacts to Chaz Bono on 'Dancing with the Stars' September 20, 2011 12:20 PM EDT Chaz Bono took the stage on Monday night's Dancing with the Stars, but where was his mom, Cher? Everyone expected to see her sitting in the front row, cheering for her son, but she was nowhere to be found. Well, that's not entirely true. She was on Twitter. "WOW ! HOW GREAT WAS MY SON? 'THE GREATEST THING, GREATEST THING, GREATEST THING NO MATTER WHAT! WHAT! WHAT!' HES A WINNER ! I Was So Nervous (sic)," Cher tweeted after Chaz danced an impressive Cha-Cha. Chaz Bono wasn't alone by any means, as the audience looked on, thoroughly entertained by his dance with Lacey Schwimmer. His longtime girlfriend, Jennifer Elia, was in the crowd, cheering loudly and getting emotional as she watched her guy make a bit of TV history. He is, after all, the first transgender contestant on the popular ABC show. While there is no explanation for why Cher wasn't there rooting for her boy, she certainly was watching him. She tweeted her love and asked her followers to vote. Perhaps she will make it to the ballroom next week to watch because, despite the controversy, it seems many people fell in love with her son. And he deserves to have his mom cheering him on from the sidelines! http://celebs.gather.com/viewArticle...81474980347025 Now, Can't wait to see the outfits, male and female for the rest of the season. Positive comment so far today that I have seen. No straight people threw tomatoes, or booed , and the audience was very supportive and standing and clapping. Nobody on TV has said ABC should be shut down..and It looks like all that Crappy shit that was being said by the media and the outsiders is no longer flooding the airways. Last edited by Tommi; 09-20-2011 at 03:33 PM. |
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I thought it was really sweet of Harry Connick Jr to give Chaz some props like he did!
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