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Old 09-26-2011, 11:50 AM   #1
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OK so back on topic.

I like BC, but since my hysterectomy am afraid of it.

In my last relationship I was the more likely of us to strap on and I love that. Penetration leading up to and after my hysto has mostly been painful and I am really hesitant to see if my penetration with BC days are over. Kind of tortured about it to be honest.

I have slept with one person since then where penetration was comfortable and very pleasurable, but no BC was involved, except for orally which I quite enjoyed. I thought I was dead as a woman before this, and will always be eternally grateful to this person for making me feel whole again.

When the time is right, I hope to take it really slow with a kind and patient lover and see what happens. It messes with my head to have painful sex.

So yes, I like BC, but am not sure what place it will play in my life in the future.
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Old 09-26-2011, 12:13 PM   #2
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I find the idea of starting a thread for others to be a strange concept- especially a spin-off from another thread and if it is on a topic that doesn't pertain to the person starting it. In my opinion people should just start threads that are of interest to them and not presume to know what others need or want to talk about.
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Is there a better place for me to move my very emotional post on the actual subject?

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OK so back on topic.

I like BC, but since my hysterectomy am afraid of it.

In my last relationship I was the more likely of us to strap on and I love that. Penetration leading up to and after my hysto has mostly been painful and I am really hesitant to see if my penetration with BC days are over. Kind of tortured about it to be honest.

I have slept with one person since then where penetration was comfortable and very pleasurable, but no BC was involved, except for orally which I quite enjoyed. I thought I was dead as a woman before this, and will always be eternally grateful to this person for making me feel whole again.

When the time is right, I hope to take it really slow with a kind and patient lover and see what happens. It messes with my head to have painful sex.

So yes, I like BC, but am not sure what place it will play in my life in the future.
Thank you for being so open to discuss this. Nothing wrong with taking things slow to see what happens...that, in itself, could be quite sexy and fun.

I am quite the opposite, penetration was painful prior to my hysto, but now...whoa! I had to go 38 years without THAT?! Now I have lost time to make up for! Though I don't prefer butch cock; it's just not for me....femme cock is from time to time.
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Thank you for being so open to discuss this. Nothing wrong with taking things slow to see what happens...that, in itself, could be quite sexy and fun.

I am quite the opposite, penetration was painful prior to my hysto, but now...whoa! I had to go 38 years without THAT?! Now I have lost time to make up for! Though I don't prefer butch cock; it's just not for me....femme cock is from time to time.
Thank you so much for being a Gentleman and hearing what I had to say!
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OK so back on topic.

I like BC, but since my hysterectomy am afraid of it.

In my last relationship I was the more likely of us to strap on and I love that. Penetration leading up to and after my hysto has mostly been painful and I am really hesitant to see if my penetration with BC days are over. Kind of tortured about it to be honest.

I have slept with one person since then where penetration was comfortable and very pleasurable, but no BC was involved, except for orally which I quite enjoyed. I thought I was dead as a woman before this, and will always be eternally grateful to this person for making me feel whole again.

When the time is right, I hope to take it really slow with a kind and patient lover and see what happens. It messes with my head to have painful sex.

So yes, I like BC, but am not sure what place it will play in my life in the future.
I had a hysterectomy last October, months after I still found that BC would hurt and make me bleed. It freaked out my ex, she did not know how to handle this. I too look forward to a patient lover, and one who is willing to bring many options to the bedroom.
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