What TO DO in a relationship.....

bigbutchmistie · 11-21-2011, 05:48 PM

Honesty and Communication.

Honesty even if the truth hurts the truth is still the truth and both parties deserve it... ALWAYS

Communication.. Talk about it all! Even if it is insignificant to you it may not be insignificant to your partner.

Sachita · 11-21-2011, 05:53 PM

fuck long and hard. Decide who does what- assign roles.

girl_dee · 11-21-2011, 06:16 PM

Have goals as a couple!

Elijah · 11-21-2011, 06:20 PM

Know when to say when, for both your sakes.

Leigh · 11-21-2011, 07:12 PM

Communication is definately key, so DO communicate at ALL times

girl_dee · 11-21-2011, 07:37 PM

Yes, talk and be present during the talk!

ONLY · 11-21-2011, 08:30 PM

Remember her favorite snacks and .......and have it in the house at all times for those days that she just needs to unwind, put her feet up and have "her" time ....... when she is done with them, put them away (secret place) for the next time she needs it cause we know....that to leave it in the open is just gonna get you in trouble
I am teasin' Oh have I ever mentioned teasin' each other as in being silly/ funny
Also leave her phone message at home (when she is at work) that you miss her and play a a few lines of both your favorite song

SoulShineFemme · 11-22-2011, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by ONLY

Remember her favorite snacks and .......and have it in the house at all times for those days that she just needs to unwind, put her feet up and have "her" time ....... when she is done with them, put them away (secret place) for the next time she needs it cause we know....that to leave it in the open is just gonna get you in trouble
I am teasin' Oh have I ever mentioned teasin' each other as in being silly/ funny
Also leave her phone message at home (when she is at work) that you miss her and play a a few lines of both your favorite song

I love it when you do these things for me. I am so lucky. XO.

VintageFemme · 11-21-2011, 08:40 PM

do.... all the little things. they add up to way more than even one big thing.

girl_dee · 11-21-2011, 08:57 PM

Go on trips together, get out of the house and enjoy each other!

Hot monkey sex is a bonus!

bright_arrow · 11-21-2011, 11:29 PM

Remind each other that you are a partnership, not a competition.. and so therefore, it's "One for all and all for one!"

11-21-2011, 05:53 PM	#2
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,992 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	fuck long and hard. Decide who does what- assign roles. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

11-21-2011, 06:20 PM	#4
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11-21-2011, 07:12 PM	#5
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11-21-2011, 08:30 PM	#7
ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139964	Remember her favorite snacks and .......and have it in the house at all times for those days that she just needs to unwind, put her feet up and have "her" time ....... when she is done with them, put them away (secret place) for the next time she needs it cause we know....that to leave it in the open is just gonna get you in trouble I am teasin' *Oh have I ever mentioned teasin' each other as in being silly/ funny* *Also leave her phone message at home (when she is at work) that you miss her and play a a few lines of both your favorite song* __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*

11-21-2011, 08:40 PM	#9
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11-21-2011, 05:48 PM	#1
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11-21-2011, 06:16 PM	#3
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11-21-2011, 07:37 PM	#6
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11-21-2011, 08:57 PM	#10
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11-21-2011, 11:29 PM	#11
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