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For me.. my "one" is standing by myside. From the moment I first talked to her I knew she was different, something I couldnt let go. I remember telling my friends (and her) that I was going to marry her on the very first day I met her. I knew it wasn't going to be easy, and I knew we were going to fight (and sometimes we do), but we don't give up and throw in the towel. I'm her ass, and shes my pain in the ass, but I wouldnt have it any other way.
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never give up. it took us many many moons... past 50, both of us to find this. Life prepared us, taught us and now we can spend many golden years gazing into each others eyes and helping each other get up. lol kidding, we're pretty spry!
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lol- we can still hop on a gator! but seriously when we get to that point the farm is going and we'll get a beach house in costa rica with a ramp! lol
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Yes to all three, but never love at first sight.
I realize my picker is broken or defective or something. So now when I feel all of these things at once I back up and regroup and start looking for what is really wrong with a relationship if there is a YES to these in the early stages. Not saying it doesn't happen for others just saying that I've realized when it happens with me, usually it doesn't turn out to be real after all. Like red flag city. Thanks for the lesson. One of many in life I'm sure. |
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No I haven't. If I ever do have that feeling it won't mean a thing unless the relationship stands the test of time, which takes two willing parties to work through the thick and thin of things. So I don't believe in "knowing" anything at first sight. There's a lot more to relationships than work, but without it you won't have one. You don't know how much someone is willing to do what it takes, or perhaps also what you are willing to do to make things work, no matter what your butterflies may be telling you. Maybe total infatuation drives the willingness to see things through. I don't know. I actually hope that's not it.
Best wishes to all with those feelings. May your love live long and prosper.
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Yes...
Each time I pushed and sweated and my body went rigid and then next thing I knew there were these eyes, staring back at me, and I fell in love.. I fell in love five times...
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My orgasms well, them are not about love my friend... yet... heh
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We met on the dash site and flirted for a couple of months. On Christmas day we were chatting online and she mentioned a GLBT dance that was going to take place a couple of days later. So I went. We'd never even talked on the phone, but I knew I wanted to meet her. When the day came I got into the car to make the two hour trip to see her. The weather was NOT good. In fact, it was our first real snowstorm of the season. I didn't answer my cell phone the whole way there, because I was afraid she was going to call and tell me not to come because of the road conditions. When I got there she was waiting outside for me. I got out of the car and walked over to her, and she just held me for the longest time while I trembled, with the snow falling down around us. I knew right then.
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A friend of mine told me the story of her meeting her hubby. She also said that the highs were intense and the lows just as intense. Love is fueled with fire. Sometimes a warm glow, sometimes a raging inferno and then periods of smoldering. If I didnt feel a deep friendship then it would be infatuation.
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This is not a story about me...but its true.
My brother met his wife when he was 16...on a blind date. That night he came home and told us he'd met the girl he was going to marry. Of course, none of us believed him and I, being the mature, all-knowing 19 year old that I was, laughed at him. I told him he was crazy. Over 20 years later..they are still together. They both just knew.
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Only two more days!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so excited. I know, in my heart that everything will be fine. Thank you for your stories. They give me so much faith.
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I had always believed in love at first sight, but waivered on believing in soul mates. I felt that there always was more than one person in our lives we could fall in love with so the need for a soul mate was moot. However, one day I met, whom i will call, My Samarai. From the moment she pulled into the driveway, before she came out of her car, all of my energies began to swirl and I felt light headed and seasick. She had come to look at a horse I was buying. She felt it too...we talked later and she confirmed that the mixing of our presences up close had indeed rocked her energies. We became friends and when together, people around us would stop and stare, or be drawn very closely in. Our friends remarked that the energy in the room changed when we were together. Eventually we became a couple, even tho she was straight. Or she had always believed she was straight. Unfortunately she could not come to terms with being a lesbian. We departed...but years later, I met her brother...not her brother in this life, but in the life we all once shared....but thats a different story...
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I was young when I had my first, so when I first layed eyes and we connected, eye to eye, for me the bond came with the last moment of pain I felt when they decided to breathe in this life.. I knew.. Each day I wake up in a state of awareness that reminds me my heart is literally out there exposed, roaming this realm with each step they take.. One small incident, event and my heart can be torn to shreds by any harm coming to any of my pack..
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