03-29-2012, 09:16 PM | #21 |
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For me, all it takes is some good eye contact and a smile! If I see that, I will come up and talk to you in a heartbeat, ask you to dance if we are in a club, or just continue flirting across the room....all because you sent me a good signal.
I get that people are shy...I know I sure can be, depending on where I am. (shocking, I know!) You don't need to change the way you dress, or even tote around a rainbow flag...if you see a butch that interests you, flirt. Smile. Say hi. The simplest of gestures to a butch makes all the difference in the world...at least to this butch! (not all of us like to be hit with lumber...we can take subtle hints and flirt back from there...lol)
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03-30-2012, 12:37 PM | #22 |
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I pulled all of my partners in seedy bars. Even my current partner was someone I kissed while mashed into an all dyke group in a dark and smoky venue.
The easiest way to pull someone is indeed, 'Hi'. It is also incredibly scary and don't let anyone tell you otherwise! I used to run on the premise that once she(or he) noticed that I'd opened my mouth to speak to him/her, then I had to continue or risk looking the fool. Most people were polite. One person rolled her eyes and turned her back on me. Quite a few people were charmed If nothing else it teaches you humility. When someone starts flirting with me now I always give them a moment, even if I'm not interested in them. Partly because I like the attention and partly because I know how much it stings to be instantly rejected.
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03-30-2012, 02:11 PM | #23 |
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I always have the same problem, or the only time i get approached is when someone has drinken enough to give them guts, and then they are usually alittle too drunk and it weirds me out it sucks.
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