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Old 04-30-2013, 04:09 AM   #1
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Default INFJ - The Counselor

Interestly enough, I have told people before that I am very shy, and they laugh. The truth is that I have to force myself to be outgoing and sociable. I'm generally not comfortable with it and prefer to be alone [thus, my name] or in the company of a few, trusted friends-- and I trust very few.

INFJ - The Counselor

Your type is best summed up by the word "counselor", which belongs to the larger group of idealists. Only 2% of the population share your type. Amusing! But growing up, friends did jokingly call me the "Dear Abby" of the group because it wasn't uncommon for me to go talk to a friend on the verge of a breakdown at 3am. I'm much better at sorting others' issues than my own. I'm also blunt, so expect me to tell you to get your head out of your ass when needed. If you want cute and fluffy lies, bunnies and flowers and the world's a wonderful place where you can do or be anything you want,... well, that's not often me.

You are so empathic that you often know what others need before they know themselves. I'm told this quite frequently actually. I've called a friend up and asked outright, even before "Hey"... "What's up because something is up-- I can feel it" and been right on. I did this to my ex-wife when she was in New England at her grandmother's funeral and I was in Texas. She cried, laughed, and joked that I'm a "creepy, creepy lil man" because of this... skill? I'll often text friends and have them reply, "Hey! I was just thinking about you."

You are a complex person who can deal with complicated issues and people, almost prefer to, as you love problem solving. This is accurate. I'm often the "Go To" guy amongst close friends and colleagues. I'm not unsympathetic; I'd say I am very sympathetic. But come to me for answers before sympathy because that's the way my brain functions best, mkay?

You can be something of an idealist or perfectionist, and should try to take yourself a little less seriously. Yes, I am a perfectionist. I even edited the capitalization and such for the results. I'm a goofball, but I take most things to heart. I do need to relax more and let things be as they may. I analyze everything.

You are a supportive and insightful romantic partner, encouraging your mate to have dreams and work hard to make those dreams come true. Because you are so creative, you have a wealth of ideas to help them toward those goals. And I'll bend over backwards, work tirelessly, to help her accomplish those dreams and goals.

You need harmony so much that you are driven to resolve conflict quickly, as long as the terms don't violate your ethics. True. I dislike drama. I expect adults to behave as adults when it comes to conflict resolution. As for ethics, they are crucial. This is why I was so unhappy at my last job and part of the reason I did not willingly return: I have to be able to respect the man in the mirror, and there, I couldn't.

You feel the most appreciated when your partner admires your creativity, trusts your inspirations, and respects your values. The first two are nice; the last is mandatory.

It is also vitally important that your partner be open and emotionally available - in other words, that they be willing to share themselves completely. My days of prying everything out of my partner with a crowbar are behind me. I don't expect to know her every thought. It would be ridiculous to expect that she tell me everything. But if she won't share the important things with me, then yeah, we have an issue. Things likely will not work there.

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Old 04-30-2013, 06:29 AM   #2
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Default ENFP - The Champion

Your type is known as the Champion type, which is part of the larger group called idealists.

Nothing occurs that does not have some deep and ethical significance in your eyes. You see life as an exciting drama. You are very charismatic, yet tend to be too harsh on yourself for not being as genuine as you think you should be. 3% of the population shares your type.

As a romantic partner, you need to talk about what is going on in your life. You are a strong supporter for your partner's efforts to grow and change and be happy. You need to feel that same support from your partner.

Expressive, optimistic, and curious, you are eager to enjoy new experiences with your partner, whom you wish to be your confidant and soul mate, as well as play mate. You are uncomfortable sharing negative emotion, though, and tend to withdraw from confrontation and process your feelings privately.

You feel most loved when your partner appreciates your creativity, accepts your uniqueness, and sees you as the compassionate person you are. You need to hear your partner tell you how much you mean to them and would love if they did thoughtful spontaneous things to demonstrate it.

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INFJ - the counselor
You scored 45% I to E, 50% N to S, 24% F to T, and 37% J to P!
Your type is best summed up by the word "counselor", which belongs to the larger group of idealists. Only 2% of the population share your type. You are so empathic that you often know what others need before they know themselves. You are a complex person who can deal with complicated issues and people, almost prefer to, as you love problem solving. You can be something of an idealist or perfectionist, and should try to take yourself a little less seriously.
You are a supportive and insightful romantic partner, encouraging your mate to have dreams and work hard to make those dreams come true. Because you are so creative, you have a wealth of ideas to help them toward those goals. You need harmony so much that you are driven to resolve conflict quickly, as long as the terms don't violate your ethics. You feel the most appreciated when your partner admires your creativity, trusts your inspirations, and respects your values. It is also vitally important that your partner be open and emotionally available - in other words, that they be willing to share themselves completely.
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Old 05-12-2013, 12:31 PM   #4
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You scored 27% I to E, 16% N to S, 10% F to T, and 74% J to P!

I've taken this thing several time since I was 18 and always get the same thing
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Old 05-13-2013, 06:12 PM   #5
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ENTP - The Inventor
You scored 100% I to E, 47% N to S, 57% F to T, and 68% J to P!
The single word that describes your type is "inventor", and you belong to the larger group called rationals. You love to tinker with things and come up with new ideas. You are outgoing and curious with an insatiable appetite for knowledge. You have no real desire to lead, only doing so if there is no other way. 2% of the population share your personality type.
You are a flirtateous and energetic romantic partner, fun and engaging, always looking for something unusual to try. In your enthusiam, you may make promises you can't keep. Your competitive nature and need to be perceived as an expert can be daunting to a romantic partner at times. You so enjoy the tug of a good debate that sometimes you act as if you don't take anything seriously. You are usually very supportive and helpful to your mate, but somewhat scattered and unable to devote your full attention there. You feel most appreciated for your great ideas, unusual perceptiveness, and ability to understand and communicate with people. You feel most appreciated when your partner understands your need for lots of social contact and your need to live life as spontaneously as possible.
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Explains why last relationship sucked the big green weinie

Okay, according to the companion test, I am compatible to a

ENTJ - Commandant
You scored 75 I versus E, 40 N versus S, 60 F versus T, and 80 J versus P!

Okay, all single Commandants raise your freak flags

Okay Guys. Now I'm REALLY upset. I scrolled through all 5 pages and not ONE, that's right, NOT ONE COMMANDANT.

WtH??!! Not ONE??!! I would like to put out a request that more single Butches take the test and post their results. If you are a Commandant, pm me so we can chat.
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I rarely agree with most quizzes but this is pretty much spot on

INFJ - the counselor

You scored 36% I to E, 37% N to S, 29% F to T, and 16% J to P!
Your type is best summed up by the word "counselor", which belongs to the larger group of idealists. Only 2% of the population share your type. You are so empathic that you often know what others need before they know themselves. You are a complex person who can deal with complicated issues and people, almost prefer to, as you love problem solving. You can be something of an idealist or perfectionist, and should try to take yourself a little less seriously.
You are a supportive and insightful romantic partner, encouraging your mate to have dreams and work hard to make those dreams come true. Because you are so creative, you have a wealth of ideas to help them toward those goals. You need harmony so much that you are driven to resolve conflict quickly, as long as the terms don't violate your ethics. You feel the most appreciated when your partner admires your creativity, trusts your inspirations, and respects your values. It is also vitally important that your partner be open and emotionally available - in other words, that they be willing to share themselves completely.
Your group summary: idealists (NF)
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I rarely agree with most quizzes but this is pretty much spot on

INFJ - the counselor

You scored 36% I to E, 37% N to S, 29% F to T, and 16% J to P!
Your type is best summed up by the word "counselor", which belongs to the larger group of idealists. Only 2% of the population share your type. You are so empathic that you often know what others need before they know themselves. You are a complex person who can deal with complicated issues and people, almost prefer to, as you love problem solving. You can be something of an idealist or perfectionist, and should try to take yourself a little less seriously.
You are a supportive and insightful romantic partner, encouraging your mate to have dreams and work hard to make those dreams come true. Because you are so creative, you have a wealth of ideas to help them toward those goals. You need harmony so much that you are driven to resolve conflict quickly, as long as the terms don't violate your ethics. You feel the most appreciated when your partner admires your creativity, trusts your inspirations, and respects your values. It is also vitally important that your partner be open and emotionally available - in other words, that they be willing to share themselves completely.
Your group summary: idealists (NF)
Your type summary: INFJ
I am the ENFJ
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