Important things I learned from past relationships

~ocean · 03-04-2013, 09:09 AM

Listen to friends
Don't put so much of urself out there
Try to be understanding
Don't forget that your are important too
Don't count on promises
Stay independant
Remember there were good times
Focus on new beginnings
Forgive~

kittygrrl · 03-04-2013, 04:04 PM

love what you have, learn to look at things you consider negative in a different way..love doesn't necessarily mean you are bookends..the universe gives each of us what we need..find your destiny

TheMerryFairy · 03-04-2013, 04:07 PM

I have learned that sometimes becoming isolated is what you need to really understand who you are and what is important to you in your life.

I have learned to always always embrace who you are completely and find time for the little things to indulge in.

I have learned that you simply cannot please somebody and giving them contol will only result in losing yourself.

I have learned to be free and to trust in my confidence and ability to follow my dreams, to float above my path.

I have learned that life and love goes on.

KCBUTCH · 03-04-2013, 04:47 PM

My most recent epiphany is that one reason being apart a better part of the last 3 yrs of our relationship before it ended was that I could have Love without compromising my time...I was able to keep my life intact.undisturbed
I recognize this because when anyone upsets the current delicate balance I am used to I tend to become easily irritated and feel like their being invasive.

Its honest...Oh course part of that may be taking 6 six classes and working and any distraction takes me from what I need to do then I get anxious...
Hmmmm dilemma's

OH and Its ok to block or restrict access to her and her family until I am ready to not..

FeminineAllure · 03-04-2013, 10:35 PM

When you stop trying to control, change, or fix people, and simply love them right where they're at miracles happen.

FeminineAllure · 03-04-2013, 10:40 PM

There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go...

03-04-2013, 09:09 AM	#1
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,012 Times in 4,723 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Listen to friends Don't put so much of urself out there Try to be understanding Don't forget that your are important too Don't count on promises Stay independant Remember there were good times Focus on new beginnings Forgive~ __________________ ~ Always, ocean

03-04-2013, 04:04 PM	#2
kittygrrl Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: witchy Preferred Pronoun?: gf Relationship Status: Til you believe Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: wrapped in a shawl Posts: 9,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 21,732 Thanked 22,162 Times in 7,228 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	love what you have, learn to look at things you consider negative in a different way..love doesn't necessarily mean you are bookends..the universe gives each of us what we need..find your destiny __________________ "We're nine meals from anarchy"" Lewis

03-04-2013, 04:47 PM	#4
KCBUTCH Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Undaunted QUEER Dom, Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: MYSELF, Syr, Hy, or friend prefered Relationship Status: Cautious, indifferent... Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Below the foothills above the beach Posts: 1,848 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,240 Thanked 3,305 Times in 884 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	My most recent epiphany is that one reason being apart a better part of the last 3 yrs of our relationship before it ended was that I could have Love without compromising my time...I was able to keep my life intact.undisturbed I recognize this because when anyone upsets the current delicate balance I am used to I tend to become easily irritated and feel like their being invasive. Its honest...Oh course part of that may be taking 6 six classes and working and any distraction takes me from what I need to do then I get anxious... Hmmmm dilemma's OH and Its ok to block or restrict access to her and her family until I am ready to not.. __________________ "If you want to know the secrets of the Universe, think in terms of energy, frequency and vibration"-Nikola Tesla

03-04-2013, 10:35 PM	#5
FeminineAllure Member How Do You Identify?: Female Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: My rainbow is way overdue Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: PA Posts: 1,145 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,659 Thanked 2,026 Times in 555 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	When you stop trying to control, change, or fix people, and simply love them right where they're at miracles happen. __________________ Remember anyone can love you when the sun is shining...In the storm is where you learn who truly cares for you

03-04-2013, 10:40 PM	#6
FeminineAllure Member How Do You Identify?: Female Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: My rainbow is way overdue Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: PA Posts: 1,145 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,659 Thanked 2,026 Times in 555 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	and... There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go... __________________ Remember anyone can love you when the sun is shining...In the storm is where you learn who truly cares for you

03-04-2013, 04:07 PM	#3
TheMerryFairy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pansexual/Sapiosexual femmey dyke who likes to crossdress now and then Preferred Pronoun?: She/her OR ze if I'm crossdressing Relationship Status: Floating and walking My path, happy in life. Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: On my Merry Fairy way! , Canada Posts: 3,630 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,727 Thanked 8,694 Times in 2,987 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I have learned that sometimes becoming isolated is what you need to really understand who you are and what is important to you in your life. I have learned to always always embrace who you are completely and find time for the little things to indulge in. I have learned that you simply cannot please somebody and giving them contol will only result in losing yourself. I have learned to be free and to trust in my confidence and ability to follow my dreams, to float above my path. I have learned that life and love goes on.