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my three and this comes from experience . complete honesty. a job stable job. mentally and emotionally stable not addicted to anything ...ok it was four. |
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Everything that I wrote when this thread was started in December, 2011, still holds true for me.
I left out one thing. I can write one item as a very, very, big part of a healthy relationship and very non-negotionable: 1. Laughter 2. Laughter 3. More laughter My GF makes me laugh all of the time. She can give me a look, when she can tell I am a tad peeved about something, that will cause me to burst out laughing. My laughter can make me melt into a ball of romantic vulnerability. I can take pretty much everything too seriously. She helps me to separate out which ones that I should take seriously and which ones require laughter. I think laughter is as much the glue for a good relationship, as is great sex, excellent communication, fidelity and honesty.
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First, thanks for this thread. I've read most of the other posts and totally agree that 1)Honesty; 2) Integrity; 3) Fidelity
I would have to add Understanding (If you expect me to forgive your shortcomings, be prepared to forgive mine-we are afterall, both human); No drama--if I want drama, I'll watch it on television. I expect some drama from a femme (Ok, OK, now don't take offense at that, it's just been my experience is all), but let's sit down and talk like the two adults we claim to be and do it without drama; Loving, compassionate, able to accept all the love and tenderness I want to shower you with; My strength, my heart, my love is yours--take it but handle it with CARE. OK, so I guess that's a few more than three, but they would be my deal breakers. I'd like to point out that none of my deal breakers have anything to do with any physical characterstics or flaws. They are all nontangible---the things that really matter in life. |
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