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			A dirty bathroom and\or kitchen  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	A restaurant that has the restrooms next to the kitchen ( who the hell came up with that design flaw) I don't eat there if I see that A cat owner who puts the litter box in the kitchen, I started to date a girl who did that, yes that was the last date Hair in food or beverage Smelly ice in my drink Not bathing everyday Bad breath  | 
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			racial bias 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			My own refection in mirror and the what I have become- a faded shell of the woman I used to be...  ;(
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Dirty sponges... dirty strainers... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			How clean can your dishes possibly be if these things are not??? 
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			I don't get grossed out real easy.  I am a pretty much go with the flow kinda person when it comes to stuff. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			BUT..... A dirty kitchen grosses me out and I won't eat if the kitchen is dirty... I am not talking about dishes in the sink. I am talking about gross, dirty kitchens. Same with the bathroom Ants Someone else throwing up (can't really be helped but...) Other than that, to each their own. I don't care what people do or how they look... I don't have to be around them. 
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			I deal with the public, and they use our bathroom. Just use it. Don't tell me why you have to use it as your thanking me for walking you to the back. I really don't need to know you just had 32oz of tea, or the meds your on, or please ...what you ate! 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			people who say a ton, but you've heard it all before
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			In have a pretty strong stomach...my mother calls it cast iron...I've seen a lot in my days...but... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			The smell of the formula used in tube feedings makes me want to yack. I don't know what it is. I'd rather smell something dead...truly...its just the ickiest smell and I randomly smelled it somewhere today....no where near a tube fed individual....but then I also swore I smelled formaldehyde today too....which is STILL preferential to tube feeding formula....blech I better never need that stuff...I will literally starve first... I know I'm odd...I embrace it... 
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			When people stroke my arm... It actually makes my skin crawl. It feels like a creepy uncle/dude in a car move and I just want people to stop touching me. I have a class mate who does this and she makes me nuts. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	When I'm on a lesbian or Butch-femme fb discussion group and someone posts a pic of a straight girl in underwear and everyone posts cat calls. Oogies me right out. I make a mental note of who that is so I never, ever agree to a date with any of them.  | 
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			funny, I hate when people stroke my arm as well. I just jerk away, particularly as if it is a light stroke. Sends me hair standing at attention, and not with good Arrector pili (goose bumps)
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			filthy coffee cups/travel mugs.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Day old coffee...don't even try that sh$t on me,I notice a huge difference between fresh coffee and that 24hr stale old a$$ coffee.Don't make me spit it back in the cup..now thats gross. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Bad rotten teeth breath...wanna see me lose my lunch? Dirty hands...go wash your fuckin'hands..plz People who smell like sh%t!..you want to smell like sh@t,go ahead..but not around me,thanks!! Rude people...touch me..and you die!! That's not all but i'm moving on.  | 
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			Dirty bathroom, and nasty kitchen sinks/implements. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Animal urine smells in the house. Spoiled food in the pantry or refrigerator. Cigarette smoke. The way cantaloupe smells, it tastes fine, it just smells like dirty, stinky socks. Racism. Fake scented air fresheners, especially the ones for vehicles. Fakery of all kinds. 
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			Cigarette, weed, cigar, ecigs or vape smells gross me out!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Long ass dirty nails, hands or toes. Nasty!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Me,eating too many Christmas cookies...I love'em but gotdamnit 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			homoe just reminded us about this thread, so naturally, I had to go find it. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			*Bumping it* While looking for it, I found the Armpit thread: http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...30&postcount=1 
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