Singles - Page 113

katsarecool · 01-01-2011, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by ZimmygLrL

Good Evening Everyone,

Wanted to come by and say good bye to all of my wonderful friends! I have found someone who really makes me smile.

Please keep in touch and sweet dreams to all of you!

Happy New Year!

Zimmy

But why are you leaving Zimmy? Do you mean you are leaving the singles thread? Or BFP entirely? Better not leave this site!!! OK?

I am single and you know I am perfectly ok with that. I would not mind dating as that can be a lot of fun. But I have trust issues that I cannot seem to work through. Though it is not entirely my bad; met quite a few wimmen that proved to be untrustworthy so I am disallusioned as well.

For example you meet someone, you find that you have a lot in common, have fun, go out on a few dates, start talking on the phone daily then all of a sudden you discover that she has been on the prowl all along with many others and suddenly a new person is her lover and has moved into the apartment. Like wtf? Why did she not have the courage to tell me she was seeing other people and actually was very involved? PEOPLE got to get honest with the ones who have put their trust in you and it is better if they hear the truth fron you than someone else.

So yes I have trust issues; rightfully so. But that does not mean I will not continue to work on me; to work on honing the skills I need to not trust someone right off the back and acquire the ability to see through the BS immediately. My life is precious to me and so is my time so I have to stop letting others waste it for me. So dating someone just for fun is fine with me. Letting it go further will need greater consideration. *sigh*

Strappie · 01-01-2011, 02:07 PM

Hello Singles.....

Happy New Year to you all... This year will bring us all new happenings and also will bring us much love. Hang in there things are looking brighter!

Leigh · 01-01-2011, 02:30 PM

Good things will happen to all of us this year, even if its not love ~ the greatest love of all is to love ourselves

morningstar55 · 01-02-2011, 07:38 AM

good morning singles
its another McDonalds....... oatmeal kinda morning....

what is everyone up too today on the last day of the holiday weekend??

cuddlyfemme · 01-02-2011, 08:17 AM

Good Morning Singles! I hope everyone is having a good day. Its gray and looks like its going to rain where I'm at. I'm also still staying in bed and taking my meds like a good girl Have a beautiful day everyone!!

asphaltcowboi · 01-02-2011, 08:37 AM

good morning singles!!! im home and i missed ya'll

cuddlyfemme · 01-02-2011, 08:46 AM

Welcome back Cody! You were missed. I hope you had a good time in SF

asphaltcowboi · 01-02-2011, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme

Welcome back Cody! You were missed. I hope you had a good time in SF

ty i had a great time but im exausted!

morningstar55 · 01-02-2011, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by cody

good morning singles!!! im home and i missed ya'll

heyy good morning Cody ...... welcome to the planet and the singles thread..... ya know there use to be someone else runnin around here that had that same member name... heh

cuddlyfemme · 01-02-2011, 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

heyy good morning Cody ...... welcome to the planet and the singles thread..... ya know there use to be someone else runnin around here that had that same member name... heh

Its the same Cody Hy just went away to visit family for the holidays

asphaltcowboi · 01-02-2011, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

heyy good morning Cody ...... welcome to the planet and the singles thread..... ya know there use to be someone else runnin around here that had that same member name... heh

nut ahhh theres only one cody!

morningstar55 · 01-02-2011, 10:12 AM

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Originally Posted by cody

nut ahhh theres only one cody!

** giggling here**
glad to see you survived the holidays for another yr and are home

DomnNC · 01-02-2011, 10:23 AM

Good morning everyone! I hope you all have a wonderful day!

Welcome home Cody, I'm happy to see you had a safe journey and an awesome visit!!

cuddlyfemme · 01-02-2011, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by cody

nut ahhh theres only one cody!

just in time Dr. Cody...i'm sick... i have bronchitis

lipstixgal · 01-02-2011, 10:31 AM

Good Morning singles how is everyone doing?? CF feeling better and welcome back Cody!! Did you have a good trip in SF?? Just settling down to some lunch its gonna be lunch and dinner because its too much. Tuna helper never made it before but seems good, tuna, noodles and butter my three favorite ingredients and some sort of cheese flavoring I don't know yet but it will suffice for now..and later..with a salad!!

asphaltcowboi · 01-02-2011, 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Good Morning singles how is everyone doing?? CF feeling better and welcome back Cody!! Did you have a good trip in SF?? Just settling down to some lunch its gonna be lunch and dinner because its too much. Tuna helper never made it before but seems good, tuna, noodles and butter my three favorite ingredients and some sort of cheese flavoring I don't know yet but it will suffice for now..and later..with a salad!!

had an awsome trip ty for asking..at the new years party we had ice cubes that lite up!! it was so cool.. right when i didnt think anything could top Christmass!

lipstixgal · 01-02-2011, 10:40 AM

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Originally Posted by cody

had an awsome trip ty for asking..at the new years party we had ice cubes that lite up!! it was so cool.. right when i didnt think anything could top Christmass!

Really that is so cool about the ice cubes that is great!! I'm happy for ya I bet you are glad to get back to Arizona though huh??

Zimmeh · 01-02-2011, 07:03 PM

I'm just leaving the thread as a single, would never leave my friends!

How are you feeling?

Zimmy

Quote:

Originally Posted by katsarecool

But why are you leaving Zimmy? Do you mean you are leaving the singles thread? Or BFP entirely? Better not leave this site!!! OK?

I am single and you know I am perfectly ok with that. I would not mind dating as that can be a lot of fun. But I have trust issues that I cannot seem to work through. Though it is not entirely my bad; met quite a few wimmen that proved to be untrustworthy so I am disallusioned as well.

For example you meet someone, you find that you have a lot in common, have fun, go out on a few dates, start talking on the phone daily then all of a sudden you discover that she has been on the prowl all along with many others and suddenly a new person is her lover and has moved into the apartment. Like wtf? Why did she not have the courage to tell me she was seeing other people and actually was very involved? PEOPLE got to get honest with the ones who have put their trust in you and it is better if they hear the truth fron you than someone else.

So yes I have trust issues; rightfully so. But that does not mean I will not continue to work on me; to work on honing the skills I need to not trust someone right off the back and acquire the ability to see through the BS immediately. My life is precious to me and so is my time so I have to stop letting others waste it for me. So dating someone just for fun is fine with me. Letting it go further will need greater consideration. *sigh*

lipstixgal · 01-02-2011, 07:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ZimmygLrL

I'm just leaving the thread as a single, would never leave my friends!

How are you feeling?

Zimmy

HI Zimmy good luck with the new beau I hope hy is good to you!!

Zimmeh · 01-02-2011, 07:30 PM

Welcome back!!

Zimmy

Quote:

Originally Posted by cody

good morning singles!!! im home and i missed ya'll

01-01-2011, 02:30 PM	#2243
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Good things will happen to all of us this year, even if its not love ~ the greatest love of all is to love ourselves __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

01-02-2011, 07:38 AM	#2244
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	good morning singles its another McDonalds....... oatmeal kinda morning.... what is everyone up too today on the last day of the holiday weekend?? __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

01-02-2011, 08:37 AM	#2246
asphaltcowboi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: HAPPY Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: ..... Posts: 1,509 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,367 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,042 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	good morning singles!!! im home and i missed ya'll __________________

01-02-2011, 10:31 AM	#2255
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	Good Morning singles how is everyone doing?? CF feeling better and welcome back Cody!! Did you have a good trip in SF?? Just settling down to some lunch its gonna be lunch and dinner because its too much. Tuna helper never made it before but seems good, tuna, noodles and butter my three favorite ingredients and some sort of cheese flavoring I don't know yet but it will suffice for now..and later..with a salad!! __________________ Gail

01-01-2011, 02:07 PM	#2242
Strappie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: I know who I am... Doesn't matter Relationship Status: It's a new day.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mpls, MN Posts: 3,283 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,813 Thanked 4,945 Times in 1,350 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Hello Singles..... Happy New Year to you all... This year will bring us all new happenings and also will bring us much love. Hang in there things are looking brighter!

01-02-2011, 08:17 AM	#2245
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Good Morning Singles! I hope everyone is having a good day. Its gray and looks like its going to rain where I'm at. I'm also still staying in bed and taking my meds like a good girl Have a beautiful day everyone!!

01-02-2011, 08:46 AM	#2247
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Welcome back Cody! You were missed. I hope you had a good time in SF

01-02-2011, 10:23 AM	#2253
DomnNC Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Male Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Widow Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Permanently Banned 11/15/2011 Posts: 1,223 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,618 Thanked 2,582 Times in 837 Posts Rep Power: 0	Good morning everyone! I hope you all have a wonderful day! Welcome home Cody, I'm happy to see you had a safe journey and an awesome visit!!