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Principled and morals, compassion and passionate and having an opened mind and heart. for me its just not about being ready.
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Honesty, open-mindedness and willingness.
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01-11-2014, 04:24 AM | #224 |
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I'm trying to decide which of my non negotiables are most important here...
... 1. have your shit together (be employed or otherwise able to support yourself) 2. don't be an abusive jerk (this includes no headgames or drama for the sake of it) 3. be committed, loyal and honest |
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01-11-2014, 08:19 AM | #225 |
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yup...
be real
be kind be giving
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No fear or defensiveness in hearing the authentic feelings of another.
In turn, talking from the heart, with depth, emotion and vulnerability; regarding how you are feeling. Both, without false selves, keeping each others' sharing as gifts and trusting that it was safe to open up.
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For me, the non-negotiables are:
1. Honesty - no secrets, ever. 2. A sense of humor. 3. Communication. Kinda simple, but at the same time if they're so damn simple why are they so hard to do? |
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01-12-2014, 03:52 PM | #229 |
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1 -Healthy in body and mind =
In body: No self-inflicted diseases ( ex: lung cancer from smoking, obesity from overeating, lack of mobility from said obesity and lack of exercise, etc = I'm an ex-obese before you flame me!) Zero addictions: including porn, videogames, internet, prescription drugs such as antidepressant (someone unable to function without their pills). Alcohol socially o.k. Occasional marijuana negotiable. Preferably non-smoker. In mind: Psychologically- sound:with no unrecognized unhealthy patterns. Negotiable: Someone working on themselves actively through therapy, meditation, whatever form of self-development is fine with me as long as there is action taken. 2- Not hurting animals or human beings. No hunting or fishing, no working in the meat industry or any industry hurting animals, no restraining orders from abused spouses or family members in their past 3- Loyalty, faithfulness |
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for Dirty folks.... hee hee
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01-17-2014, 08:29 AM | #233 |
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An IQ over 130 A wide vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish Willingness to get downright filthy! Well, everyone is smart in their own way so I wouldn't place a limit on someone's ability. Having a wide range of vocabulary and the ability to use it with relish is nice but willingness to use it in a down right filthy way. I guess it would be great but anyone can use vocabulary well in that way but wouldn't that after a while getting a little redundant like reading fifty shades of grey eh? I mean that's just mhop, besides I prefer the real deal.
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50 Shades of Mud...real filth!
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Hey now, some folks pay good money for mud.....
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2. Fidelity. 3. Devotion. These are reciprocal. Ask for nothing you arent willing to give. |
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