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Old 08-23-2011, 01:03 PM   #2401
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Getting ready for the storm....and maybe a little quiet reflective time...

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For our East Coast Friends and Family



As I write this, Irene is a Category 3.
Please, please, PLEASE be safe!
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Asking humbly for candles for my safety and any others who may need them in escaping an abusive situation quietly, calmly and with no issue involved. Three dates does not a possession make.
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For Moonfemme. They just found out her butch has non alcoholic stage4 cirrhosis of the liver.
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For Moonfemme. They just found out her butch has non alcoholic stage4 cirrhosis of the liver.
candle lit. i am so sorry to read this very sad news. my heart goes out to them both,
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East Coast safety. My daughter lives on the Cape and is stuck there until tomorrow sometime before she can get further inland. She lives 4 miles from the ocean.

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For Mugsy even though I didn't know her well.

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I feel stupid doing this but I keep wanting to post for it, so here goes:

Interview at 4pm tomorrow for my dream job.
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Candles for the children...

Locally, in the past week:
~two sisters ages 8 and 4 were murdered with a hatchet by their mother (suffering postpartum depression after a miscarriage)
~two day old baby girl found dead in grocery store restroom trashcan ("discarded" by the mother)



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A bridge AND a light in the fog...

please - reach out - be a bridge, be the connection, be a light for someone who needs....a touch, a kind word, a smile, a phone number or ride to a shelter or a mental health clinic...please be the world we need when you can - if we all take turns, it'll work. Namaste.





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Old 09-01-2011, 01:20 AM   #2416
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I am lighting this candle
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She is a very private person but I feel special blessings and light needs to come her way now.

Many medical issues are happening and now have her flat down.
Some may be exremely bad. But I am hopeful will not be.

I am asking for a lil energy to go her way to be able to get up and fight this.

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So, bridges have been on my mind lately,


creating a bridge of support for the self...
to help be connected to healing agents...
people,
furfriends,
god,
the universe,
prayer...candles,
calling someone who really knows you,
nature,
the sounds of the wind, moving water, a whinny,
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talking with someone who will say it so you can hear it,
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sitting up in a tree,
going to a meeting,
learning how to ask....for a dinner, to take the kids for 3 hours, for someone to go to the store to pick up 10 things you need in the cupboard, but you can't stand the store today,
learning to sit a be still for 5 minutes day,
going for a ride...the choices are endless.

Set up a bridge of support or nourishment for yourself or help someone else figure out what they need, put the tools in place so they are there when you need them they are there, and hopefully the need will happen less if the care for the self is ongoing.

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Everyone.
Everything requested.

Please light some for my daughter. She is in a dangerous situation.
She is off and running again. She is the light of my life and I fear she
will die before she gets better. Thank you so much!






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