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09-19-2011, 04:47 PM
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09-20-2011, 06:04 AM
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Get Well
 Lights, butterflies, prayers, best wishes and sunshine for Peggie who was admitted to hospital Sunday. Doc said a few more days. For Freedom her two year old kitty kat who has never been alone...and wants to know why I have been on her couch the last two nights. 
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09-20-2011, 06:22 PM
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Houstonian Killed In Reno Air Race Crash
RIP Craig Salerno. Salerno was a lieutenant with the Friendswood Volunteer Fire Department. He also served as its treasurer. He previously volunteered with the La Marque and League City volunteer fire departments and was a career firefighter with the Galveston Fire Department. He also once worked as an aircraft dispatcher for Continental Airlines. Salerno was married with two children. You will be missed ~  |
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09-20-2011, 07:53 PM
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Lighting another candle for clay... for a smooth surgery. We hold your hand beside your hospital bed in spirit
 
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09-21-2011, 07:20 AM
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candle lit: For Clay as well. Surgery is today if not right now.
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09-21-2011, 02:52 PM
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A candle lit for Clay, with the hope that Clay is recuperating well from today's surgery.
Check in and let us know how you are feeling but only when you are up to it, my friend. 
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09-22-2011, 03:49 PM
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For Peggy
A rosary and candle for Peggy
for better day and much healing. 
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09-22-2011, 03:51 PM
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Tommi for the caregiver and fighter in you
remember to breathe too. 
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09-22-2011, 11:21 PM
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 For me, the World is feeling off-kilter these days... I am praying for the healing of bodies and souls, I am praying for peace, I am praying for wholeness, I am praying for caring, love, and compassion...for All |
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09-23-2011, 05:36 AM
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09-23-2011, 07:36 PM
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I have only been in here to read and haven't really posted anything in quite some time.
Today I come here with a heavy heart and tears for one of my brothers. First let me explain, I have a brother, who I've always called my special needs brother. His first 13 years of life, he had 13 operations. He has also survived 3 heart attacks. He has lived with a Urostomy for as long as I can remember. Doc said if he lived to 21, he'd be lucky and he'd never be able to have kids. Well, he's 46 and has 3 beautiful girls that came along late in his life as they are all under 8. Anyhow, a couple of hours ago as I traveled back home from a vet visit that takes 3 hours now, he called me. He's been in the hospital a few days for the second time this month. Today he was diagnosed with Metastatic Colon Cancer (he'll have another operation for a Colostomy) I didn't know what it was until I looked it up. What I found out, was that the survival rate is not good even with treatment. I have 5 brothers and only 2 I really love and care about. My brother Peter happens to be one of them. All I can do is pray that he gets better instead of worse. I have no idea what stage his cancer is even in. Never once in all his years on this earth, did I ever think about him not being a part of my life or my family. Please pray with me for Peter. That his pain and suffering will be as gentle as possible on him. Also, for his upcoming operation to go smoothly.
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09-23-2011, 07:46 PM
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 For Wolfy..... For Peggy...... For SD & ES For the travelers..... & For calm for me this weekend. |
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09-23-2011, 09:18 PM
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For the Soldier in Iraq that was booed by the Republicans
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09-23-2011, 09:29 PM
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 For Peggy For Wolfy For Clay For Craig Salerno For all those who may be facing darkness
let these candles light your way to healing and light.
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09-24-2011, 11:33 AM
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JustKim & Mom
May your aches and pains, and other flu symptoms abate very soon. Sending you white light energy and healing energy...for yourself, and for your mom. May the surgery restore her health quickly! To all who are facing health issues, or any kind of a dilemma...please take energy from the flame..you are all loved...from my spirit to yours, JK & Mom....healing hugs..Clay
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09-24-2011, 12:01 PM
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09-25-2011, 03:52 AM
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Love changes but remains
Today I go a Charger's game. Today she is on oxygen and lasix. Today, tell someone you love them.
She is so much better. I spent the day looking at pictures of our family, our relationship of 20 years, our first car, our first home. She laughed at my hippy look and hair. I laughed about her first Thanksgiving turkey that was raw when I cut it. We went out for dinner that year. We reminisced and smiled about a once beautiful love, that brought us together. In the twilight of the day, Peg made me vanilla tea, and we dunked spice cookies. We didn't speak of our breakup, or where we went wrong. She stroked my leg and I her hair. We talked about the crypts we bought so long ago, and laughed when the kids said that was weird. Last night, we both decided a ceremony at sea is where we both want to be. We talked about her last wishes, looked at the Living Will and Advanced Directive.. Last night we couldn't fill it out. Maybe on my next visit, maybe Nancy, RN, the Home Health Nurse that will visit her today can do it. We just couldn't. Maybe never. I drove home with tears, and an ache deep inside . She may get better, but never well. 
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09-25-2011, 07:51 AM
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candles lit: Tommi, I sit here with tears running down my face after reading your last heartfelt candle posting. I feel the love the two of you had and still do, only in a different way than before. I praise you to the Universe and far and wide for being the person that you are. A love like that is so very rare. I know you two moved on, but you are a very special individual and so is she. Just because people separate does not mean the love they shared was not real, did not exist and cannot exist in another form. You two are proof. Universe, send healing, light, love and protection to Peggy and Tommi. Send miraculous healing whether it be literal or figurative. I ask that You let them know they are loved and safe. candles lit: clay's continued healing. My daughter. For any and all who just need some love and kindness. For any and every request, reason, need or design. Just because.  Namaste!
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09-25-2011, 10:12 AM
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For my friends Clay and Wolfy, may the heavens bring you healing and peace. To Tommi, may those same heavens bring you strength.
For myself, and my family. To the son who is incarcerated, I pray for strength for him. To my daughter who struggles with addictions and all of the humiliation and life chaos that addictions foster, I pray fervently for the willingness to change. To my grandson who has begun cutting as a way of trying to control SOMETHING in that chaotic life, I pray for help . May the Higher Power who has come back into my life guide me and give me strength, direct my thoughts, my words, and my actions. (and thank you to the angel who started this thread, and all who have shared from their hearts to keep it going. I am so grateful that this is here) |
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09-25-2011, 10:21 AM
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For ArkansasPiscesGrlll & Family
I am lighting a candle, one for each of you... YOU, my friend....  .....warm hugs...and my friendship and ear..anytime......and my heart goes out to you...one dilemma alone is very hard to face, let alone ALL three! Peace, my friend!!!for son...incarcerated for grandson..who is hurting inside and my he find peace and a sense of self to heal within..I just can NOT imagine the heartache... for daughter...courage & wisdom to choose a better path and strength to fight your demons....peace
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