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			It could be a smile, a certain type of clothing, a scent of cologne/perfume, etc. that just takes you from ordinary, everyday thoughts to naughty ones.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			What are your "instant turn-ons"? 
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			Am so not telling  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Ha ha! Why? Afraid someone might learn your weakness and use it on you?  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			Well, I'm thinking the thread will blow up ... tee,hee,hee
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Girl should start since it is her thread
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			A good sense of humor will get my attention, but I have a "thing" about hands - some women's hands can make me go from nice to naughty in an instant.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Oh no, I rarely go first when I start a thread. I think it makes it look like I'm making it "all about me".  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			My instant turn-ons: On a butch or transguy: 
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			**taking notes     
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	![]() My instant turn on, come with coffee and food!  | 
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			 Blood that runs thru his veins 
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			There are so many.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			![]() A pretty smile Sweet personality Articulate Good dresser Fit Smells good Heels and jeans Very affectionate Happy 
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			a sense o' humour, and swag 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			sense o' adventure a snappy dresser 
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	be true, be you, be brave. 
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			a good dresser. casual dapper.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	a cheeky grin and banter a sense of grace hands a filthy dark grin and dirty ideas  | 
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			A well worded turn of phrase at the right time. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Oh and a woman in a hockey jersey and NOTHING else.  
		
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			Skilled, clever flirting. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Directness. Rubbing the small of my back.  | 
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			hmmmm lets see: 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			~ strong hands and arms ~ that cologne that reminds me of Hym ~ swagger; that walk and the way they carry themselves ~ a wink, or that smirk that melts me everytime  
		
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			Kindness 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Sweetness Tenderness Strength That calm and unrufflable quality Being a bit Masterful Thighs in jeans or trousers Strong arms 
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			Attitude.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Confidence. Unwavering eye contact. A well tailored suit. An easy laugh. Butch specific - Strong arms. Packing. Boots and a leather jacket. Manners. Hairy armpits.  | 
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			A subtle unmistakable strength 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Independence Shiny lips Nice chest Nice butt 
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			a good sense of humor, intelligence, easy to talk to, good listener.... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			And I recently discovered a desire to bite belly buttons  
		
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