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WOW, WOW, WOW seem to be the only words that come to my mind after reading June's post! It leaves me dumbfounded, that someone would have the NERVE to try & shame someone for making healthy choices for themselves! As for her betrayal of the "fat community"... I call bullshit! Whomever spewed such crap her way, has a lot to learn about "community".
Like Medusa, the dash site was a home that finally taught me to embrace & love every ounce of my being (heart, mind, body & soul). It was the first time, in my entire life, that I was finally able to be comfortable in my own skin. I thank the people that welcomed & loved me with open hearts & open minds... no matter what the scale said. But within the last couple of years, when the scale kept climbing, and I noticed every little ache & pain become a daily occurance, I knew I had to do something. Not only was my physical health failing, my self esteem had finally hit an all time low.... no matter how big the fake smile was on my face. We all started our personal healthy living journey at different times in our lives. Mostly, it was because we had a nice dose of reality (our failing health or a loved one's health) smack us in the face. Getting our bodies heathier, learning to move more & retraining our brain was what our focus was on... the losing weight part was just the added bonus. |
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I have read all the posts. I want to also state that I believe that we all have the right to lose weight for any reason we deem important to us!
Want to lose weigh for health? Terrific! Want to lose weight to be able to move and navigate more easily through this world of ours? Terrific! Want to lose weigh to help increase your own self-esteem? Terrific! Want to lose weight to get laid? Terrific! No one has the right but me, to tell me that any reason I so chose for losing weight is wrong! Why each of us chooses to go on this long and difficult journey is an individual and personal choice. Each of us has the right to select whichever reason best fits us. My choice may not be yours and vice versa but I do not need to hate anyone to do the very best for me.
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Like so many of you here, I share in the daily effort to feed my body in healthy ways. I can especially identify with your feelings about low self esteem, no matter how beautiful our smile is. You know, years ago before my heart condition was discovered, I think I tipped the scales somewhere around 375 lbs (between the age of 33 to 39) at the height of my body not functioning properly. Once my heart condition was finally diagnosed and an operation later, I began to lose weight as a natural consequence to my particular health issues. I've always been sort of a medium build - body wise. I'm about 5'9" now but at one time, I was about 2 inches taller (I have bone density problems now, I think). Anyway, I probably tip the scales now at about 190-200 lbs. This isn't an optimal weight I'm sure, but my goal is to become as lean as I can for my age. If I'm able to get down to 180 - I'll feel successful because at my age, we seem to have to work harder to stay healthy - diet and exercise wise. I really like that Medusa brought up sweet potatos because I usually keep a baked supply on hand in the fridge and like she was saying, they're pretty sweet all on their own. I like to sprinkle cinnamon on them too! They're rich in nutrients not readily found in other root vegetables and so dense in fiber - which is really important for me to keep my fiber intake up there.. it's just easier on my body to process foods I eat if I can eat lots of items rich in fiber. Kudos to all of us! ![]()
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Good evening y'all!!!
Home from the gym...today was chest and tricep day. I can barely move my arms.. Keep up the good work y'all!!!
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I do the same thing even theo I have lost over 50 pounds,gald I dont have it any more,but im working on loseing another 50 by the end of 2012.I was told at the wellness canter that I should work out 2 hours a day 5 days a week..well I tryed amd cratered my knee and back wich took three weeks to be close to normal after that,I no longer got there but use the equipment I have at home cause I can workout with out being badgered about it.I must say I have also looked into other weight loss ideas but they just seam to dramatic for me.
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20 minutes of hard lovin' with the elliptical! Twenty minutes! And I can breathe!
And did I mention I still haven't smoked? It's been 2 weeks tomorrow! I have to give huge props to Candace for being such an inspiration. I had been slacking for almost 3 months and seeing her photos and joy-filled posts made me want to begin again. <3
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One hour a day and more daily activity -- as in cooking, cleaning, etc. That's what i hear. |
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Thats what I think to,this was at a local hospital wellness center and they should know better.Today I did a work out that was ok being its been a while cause of my dam back,I have also been told to workout even tho im in pain cause it will stop with use(this came from my chiro)...a crock imho.I playd bb for 20 minits,then did 50 steps on my stair stepper,played ball with the pooch...I also dod 40 lifts on the weight bench with 30 pounds on the bar.I had dinner a bit ago so after it digest some Im planing on rideing the bike for 15 to 20 minits.I have some hand weights and a bowflex yet to use but tomorrow im going to give them a bit of my time.I could have played bb longer but my crapy left knee hurt every time I put my foot down to stride,I didnt stop when it started but after a while I had to...there is a pop snick thing going on under the knee cap when I stand or play bb...old minjuries are a bitch.I will do some kind of work out tomorrow for shure I am working out 30 to 45 minits as I get in better shape I can use more weights and intensity. |
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YAY!!! I prep ahead of time with my starches as well. I do 2-3 sweet potatoes and a bunch of rice so that I have plenty to split up into my little individual meals. When the hard stuff is already ready, it's much easier to convince yourself to cook that meal instead of going off plan. [/COLOR] You know I love it when you get fired up!!! hahaa.. [COLOR="rgb(255, 0, 255)"]Thank you for your support, June. It means the world to me. [/COLOR] Quote:
Additionally, I am a nurse as well. I have to say last week I did a dressing change on a diabetic stasis ulcer on someone's lower leg. I had to sit on the floor to do so and when I hopped back up without problem, it was one of the proudest moments of my life. KEEP GOING SISTER! THIS is yours to be had!!!![/COLOR] Quote:
Also, in case any of you hadn't figured it out, it was me who has been receiving hate mail. I haven't quite figured out who it was that sent it. Frankly, that doesn't even matter. I deleted that email out of anger, I wish I hadn't. Anyway, thank you all for your kind words of support! If you'd like to read my response, I posted it in a blog post. Click here to read the rant!... |
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I walked today; not 5 miles but I walked. That's all I have.
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Congrats to each of you on your own journey to health.
Mine is going well. Control over my eating feels better than any baked good ever did. I have been back on track for three weeks now. I went away this weekend, ate delish healthy food and even one breakfast not ordinarily on my plan. I had two poached eggs, one chicken sausage and a slice of toast with one pat of butter. I had several cups over the weekend of non-fat cappuccino (always feels decadent to me but no fat!). Weighed this AM and I lost another 2 pounds, which is a total of 8 in three weeks. I have not once felt hungry or deprived. Off to make breakfast now, egg white omlette stuffed with fresh spinach and tomatoes. Hugs and never give up! Each minute (and each hour) is a fresh start for all of us.
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Here is my 2 cents about the people who hate on others for making a change..
I experienced the same thing. When I started losing weight, I had tremendous support from some, but not as much as my "bigger" friends. When I look back at my journey, now 52 lbs lighter... Will be 82 when I hit goal, it was a F***king struggle. I can't tell you how many times I fell on my face, gave up, got angry, hated myself, and all that jazz. Our bigger friends might be experiencing the same. They might have that "big and beautiful" attitude, but inside are dying for health. When they see someone becoming successful, they are jealous because they don't have the strength that we have to change our lives and our identity. I was all about BBW... If you don't love me because I am big.. Your loss.. Etc. Losing what you have held on to for SO long is scary!!! There are times now I still go straight for the XXL section, and am shocked when it hangs on me. I do not have a "skinny" attitude yet. No one can change unless they are ready... And when you are, it just clicks! It's very interesting. When you get that negative feedback from people, maybe try talking to them. Give them your perspective as to why you are changing and how much better you feel. Maybe you can plant a seed and get them on the right track as well. I have inspired at least 5 of my friends to join weight watchers, and they all have had amazing success. It feels good to help other people. Anyways. I am typing this out on my iPhone, and I tend to ramble when I do. Haha. Don't let anyone get you down. This is YOUR life and YOUR health!! Dont let anyone take that away from you, and make you feel any less because of that. Love you all!!! Here's to health!! :-D
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Wanting to lose weight because I have a 26 year old partner to keep up with? ![]() Actually, I decide that 2012 would see healthy changes for me. So, my sister and I are joining Weight Watchers and the local gym. We are going to use the buddy system to tackle what needs to be improved. I want to lose weight & get in shape b/c I can still fool people into thinking I am younger than I am. I won't be able to keep that up forever and I do not want to be the girl who "would be sexy except..." I am glad I found this thread; I plan to be a more regular visitor. ![]()
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Today is shopping day!!!!!
Thanks to those who put up wonderful ideas for low cal meals and tips to make this way easier. We are planning on getting a few sweet potatoes and making some up for the week so they will be easy to fix at dinner. A couple of great recipes acquired including tonight's menu of baked salmon, asparagus and corn on the cob. Yummmmm...can't wait to try it!!!!!! Keep up the good work everyone!!! You are all such an inspiration!!!!!
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Good morning healthy folks!
You know what I love about our group here.... no matter what hurdles may present themselves (emotionally or physically), each & every day we tackle them head on and MOVE FORWARD! There is nothing or no one that can keep us from our goals! We give eachother courage, strength, motivation, encouragement and support... and I thank y'all for that! Today, D comes home for a few days, and of course she wants to celebrate out at her favorite mexican food place with friends... for $1 Tecate beers. I will not deny her treat... but I have already made a mental note of what I can and cannot eat or drink. I have limited my choices to either 2 chicken fajita tacos (no beans or rice) or a chicken fajita taco salad with no shell. I will toast her with ONE light beer and drink water or unsweet iced tea afterward. Meals planned for today were: Breakfast: a toasted light english muffin with a lil' butter a banana and an iced sugar free vanilla coffee Lunch: a big ol' salad with turkey from Subway... loaded with veggies & a splash of oil, vinegar & pepper for the dressing. Snacks: yogurt and/or an apple Make it a great day y'all ![]() |
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Breakfast: skinny Iced cinnamon dolce latte (2pp)
Spinach feta wrap (7pp) Ok... I need to stop going to Starbucks so much, but it's hard. And, I am 5 drinks away from hitting my gold member status!!! My favorite drink is only 2pp, so it isn't that bad! Lunch- Ahi tuna steak and sautéed eggplant and zucchini! Dinner- ground turkey and vegetables. I don't stray away from my menus and tend to eat the same thing over and over. This helps me not crave other things. I did, however, buy some weight watchers carrot cakes at the store yesterday to send to someone.. But wanted to try one. One turned into two... And so I know I can't have those around. Same thing happened with the smart ones cookie sundae. I ate all 4 in one week. I do stay within my point allowance and exersice (I lost 3 lbs regardless of the sundae indulgence) but I know I am not there yet and ready to have them in my freezer. Maybe someday! :-D
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Curiously enough, Jack has had a package of opened Thin Mint cookies on the counter along with 3 opened candy bars that she has been snacking on that haven't tempted me a bit.
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