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Old 10-03-2011, 05:38 PM   #281
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sitting at the beach, or on the beach...seeing the dolphins frolic in multiples....smiles
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Old 10-03-2011, 06:33 PM   #283
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The beach.
Flying a kite.
The woods.
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Old 10-03-2011, 06:39 PM   #284
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something i dont do nearly enough---going to the beach.....just walking up the path to the beach,the sound of the waves i can actually start to feel all the negative crap starting to slip away....sometimes if i let things build up,and dont go for a long time,then usually i have to spend some time there for it to work its magic,but it always works!

also-sometimes-just driving in the car,windows down,music blaring!
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Walking on a dirt trail in the woods along side a creek with dog in tow. Or biking on a dirt trail in the woods.

Driving with the top down.

Sitting on the beach watching the waves.
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Flying a kite.
The woods.
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A few months ago, I began meditating every morning........I love it!

I meditate with special, quiet and soothing music (no lyrics).
That gives me peace for the rest of my day.

I paint. That gives me massive amounts of peace.

Third, while it has been a difficult task at times, I found that toxic people took away my peace, so I got rid of those who brought toxicity to my life. Easier said than done. But well worth it.

I am peace~filled and happy. LIFE. IS. GOOD!

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The quietness and peace one can sense in my church sanctuary on a weekday afternoon when the outside world is way too stressed.

Postage stamps that are unique and support something dear to me.

My mother spending the night at my house...those late night conversations and fabulous snacks.

My daughter texting me when it gets late just to make sure I am home and safe.

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Order in my home.

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The deep forest.

Understanding pain so I can recognize and dwell in happiness and joy.
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Ruby, who cracks me the hell up almost every day
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Old 10-03-2011, 11:20 PM   #290
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Staying out of confrontations
Smelling freshly cut grass
Birds chirping in the spring
The right song coming on just at the right time
Being in her arms, looking into those beautiful green eyes
Enjoying "me" time in silence
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Feeling my family members are safe and content.
Recalling all the wonderful times I shared with Gramma D.
Feeding a sweet baby squirrel last night and watching him play and climb till he was tuckered out.
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Sitting out on my balcony drinking good coffee and hearing the chimes and feeling the morning breeze.
Morning prayers, chanting my mantras and ringing the bells.
Reading from my Living Buddhism magazines inspirational.
Hot shower.

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Standing near the ocean at night.
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Singing. Rocking a baby. Being held by strong arms.
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Drumming
Singing
Laughing
Trance work
Soul Retreivals
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Boxing.....it's the only time that my mind is free of clutter and totally focused.
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Wakeing up is the start of a good day.
Hearing my sons voice and knowing he has grown into a really good person and is happy with his life.
My fur kids never ending crazy stunts,then them falling asleep in my lap or under my feet.
A good hard work out I just finished,the feeling of sweat pouring off me,knowing thats a fue ounces of chub gone for good.
Makeing plands for future events,then knowing im actually going to get there.
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