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3 types of turn offs…
1) Not sure how to articulate this particular type of a huge turn-off, but it turns me off when I hear veiled threats, the type of talking to others that seems like one-up-manship, or the type of verbiage that is insulting to me or others.
I quit my Facebook acct years ago because of noticing this type of verbal behavior by others in their f.b. Posts. 2) Another thing that turns me off is manipulation tactics. Just don’t do it. 3) Another thing that turns me off is perceived superiority. Superiority complex issues is a huge turn off.
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01-16-2024, 11:19 PM | #283 |
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Maybe it's just me, and these weren't even in a dating situation. If I spot these upon meeting, there wouldn't be a date! I have too much football to watch.
1. "Then she was like…And then I was like…So He was like….and then I was like…". I'm sure there are 15 year old's who speak without using "like". I'm talking people my age! 2. "Oh, I'm too old to learn ______". I know people younger than I am who are old, and people many years older than I am who are up for anything. Guess who I'd rather hang out with? 3. A cousin to #2 is: "I'm just not good with math/not a computer nerd/athletic/ artistic/smart enough for *whatever*/insert denigrating statement here. We're all not good at everything, obviously, but I respect people who try something new. How do you know you're "not good"? 4. Any excuses, though I have to work on this myself. That's why I want someone dedicated to owning themselves, not excusing themselves.
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A woman that has no idea what is going on in our country or internationally for that matter. I prefer someone knowledgeable and with an opinion.
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know what you want enough so that you aren't tempted to change it...displaying such weakness with a femme is a catastrophe ...
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Big things …., Possessiveness makes me cringe. Its twin is jealousy. If I sense someone carries these swords into a relationship, past or present, I am uninterested.
I know my worth. I am a good woman. If I wasn’t being treated as such, that would be very distasteful. Little things…. Not brushing teeth or any poor hygiene, rolling their eyes, and poor manners
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Being judged by a few words on paper after having never met that person.
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co dependent....inotherwords she may be into you but it's not because you're f**king amazing but available to fill her void...clue ..
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