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Old 12-14-2012, 11:15 PM   #3301
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For all the first responders in CT today. I cannot imagine the images they will forever carry with them.
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I bought a candle yesterday and it will stay lit....for the families in CT and the families in China....the babies here that were killed, the babies in china that were stabbed ....

too much in one day attacking our babies.

I cannot even imagine the horror these families are enduring
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lighting a candle today for anyone in need. I'm sure many of us know someone in need of light energy and/or prayer.

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Keeping their flames going.....God bless each and every one of these precious angels. Healing and comfort for the families torn aprt by this tragedy...
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Asking that energy be sent with these people to help keep them safe and assit them.

Also the colors to wear are green and white for the school colors tomorrow and tues during the flag being half stalfed.

May the families be comforted at this time.



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Im lighting a candle this evening for a vigil to be held at our local police station...two of our officers were shot and killed at a super market, for no apparent reason. My candle will be lit in their honor, and to hopefully bring some positive light to thier family during this tough time.

I am also lighting a candle for the shooter, who was killed this morning in a standoff.

Tragedy all around.
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Today I light candles for any and all that are having difficulties this Holiday season no matter which holiday it is for you.

I send out Peace, Faith, Love, and Hope to each of you...may you experience each today and every day of the upcoming New Year...

I do so freely may they help those that need it.
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Light a candle from this one, and pass it on...so we may embrace them and their families at this time..for these fallen heroes....


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may the flames of healing energies, support, and honor of these brave men..who were seriously injured this am, in responding to a fire in West Webster,NY....please keep their honor going..light a candle from ine..let's send our energies and prayers to their families and loved ones...
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Lighting candles for ATLAST!

May energy surround you now.
May those in charge of your care be directed.
And may you grow stronger by the day.
May you feel the added strength given here now.

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Wishing you a wonderful year!
Full of love,beautiful memories and new beginnings and abundance.
Happy New Year to you and yours!!
From my family and myself!

HAPPY 2013!!!
"Have Fun But Be Safe!!!"


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Today I light candles for those in My circle. Candles of calm, strength, wisdom, and love for the upcoming year.

I extend the same wish and energy for any and all that see this and may need it.
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Tommi you were there to mend and heal'care for love and
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My heart and sympathies go out to you during this difficult time.
Be well my friend and know her mind is no longer suffering.







Thank you SD. Life continues, the Ebb and flow since she died Jan 5,, the day after my birthday...

I'm not to that quiet acceptance place that some tell me will come. Even though we had separated many years ago, hadn't seen each other, a new found friendship developed over the last year or so. Being her caretaker for that year was something I never, ever could have imagined. I know that Peggie's suffering has ended. I know she wanted to die. She told me so after rushing her to the hospital in Sept a year ago. I know she was ready to die. It has been a journey since finding her suffering from COPD, watching the oxygen loss and mental dementia that ended in Alzheimer's.

Taking her to Oregon this July, we had a two days to talk in the car, and we laughed and cried, remembering the crazy things a family goes through. We lamented about raising Leia, the grandaughter as our own, and how Kristal , the youngest stepped up and insisted Peggie come to Oregon and live out her days with her and the great grandkids.

Peg died peacefully, I am told, and was cremated. Kristal took care of it all. then, called me yesterday, she said her Mom, Peg's 2nd wanted her ashes...Peg left me in charge, according to her wil. l. So, the family dynamics begin, and we will all meet in Feb. at a Memorial for Peg at Kristal's, and celebrate her LIFE>

I just received a copy of the death certificate and am at a loss for words. So keep those prayers coming and those candles lit, because, my journey continues. I guess the ashes spilt 5 ways is something Peg never talked about.
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When we spoke your pain was evident, time is your friend. There's no hury and the memories you shared will remain vivid, the candles remain and prayers are always there for you. Keeping you in light and sending energy to you.

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