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Old 12-28-2011, 02:59 PM   #341
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Knowing that the house of cards has collapsed and that hopefully there won't be anyone else hurt.
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...knowing that this yr i have people to share resolutions with *smiles* ....something to motivate me to stay focused and grounded
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Time spent in the barn, hugging my horse always gives me peace. He has a way of always making the stress disappear

Anytime we go to the beach I always find peace, clear my mind, and get better focused.
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Working outside. Always!

A hug and hearing that everything is going to be OK.

My girls laughter.

Sitting with my discomfort, knowing that I am feeling like I do for a reason and there is something bigger that I need to learn.

Knowing that there is always another opportunity to make the necessary changes in order to do and be better.

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Being content with myself, my life and my decisions. I still have some unresolved issues, but I am getting there with the goal of peace in mind
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What gives me peace...

prayer

my hands in the dirt, planting flowers

standing barefoot in the sand, my face towards the sun & feeling the ocean breeze on my face
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When I'm sitting at a stationary weight machine and do those first couple sets, and my heart is pounding and I get that first endorphic rush, that brings me peace.
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- my inner growth, determination and joy within all brings me peace.. The constant work on my self-journey, the hard honesty and the growing confidence.. seeing and feeling my beauty, believing in myself and recognizing my self-worth.. All things that bring me such peace.. And knowing i've a long way to go just yet - but the inner peace is something to cherish and celebrate..

- Buddha.. Having embraced my spirituality, and what a rollercoaster journey it's been in doing so - having such an intense trust, turning to my Higher Power, the meditations, the beauty in the precious moments spent with Buddha, especially these last couple of days - much peace spiritually.. ♥

- being outdoors, at one with nature, enjoying the fresh air.. i love trees, they've such character and beauty.. There is one tree i soo love and visit often.. sometimes i read beneath it, or lay up against it and take in the beauty around me.. i feel a great sense of peace with that willow tree, and it's hanging branches feels like a warm hug.. All trees tell a story to me, i love exploring them, and other things while out hiking trails.. i love rocks too & collect them as they, too, bring me such peace.. Whether they're something special to keep in my pocket, or a smooth surface to paint.. or just to admire the details of it.. they make me smile..

- the love i have with Mtn, Our amazing trust, communication and always being present for one another.. the safe feeling i have when i'm in His arms, His protective nature, and chasing the monsters from under my bed, the warmth and joy i feel in His presence..The happiness in my heart, the flutterbees when i see or hear from Him, and the feel of His touch.. all brings me peace..
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I may remind you of this on occasion
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Sounds sorta silly or redundant but...

Being happy brings me peace.

I haven't been this happy with my job, my family, my friends, my relationship in many, many years.

I'm due. Peace is a wonderful, beautiful place to be.

I think i'll stay here.
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Knowing the future holds new possibilities .

Not being in a dead end job.

Slow weekend mornings, enjoying homemade blueberry pancakes.

Knowing I will have better healthcare with my new benefits.

Private time to refuel, reflect and meditate.

Knowing I am not alone in this world, that I can reach out to any of a few select friends to help me sort difficult subjects out. Knowing I no longer need to handle everything on my own... knowing they are sincere, honest, loyal and supportive.
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