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			As a very feminine woman. Join Date: May 2010 
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			 Remember the clear light,  
		the pure clear white light from which everything in the universe comes, to which everything in the universe returns; the original nature of your own mind. The natural state of the universe unmanifest. Let go into the clear light, trust it, merge with it. It is your own true nature, it is home. -Tibetan Book of the Dead  | 
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		#3644 | 
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			i really love my grey hair.  i would love to have the grey streak in front like my granny did in the picture i have of her when she was about 50 or so, but it looks like i'm gonna have just normal a few at a time all over grey. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Which leads me to.... is there a difference between grey and gray? 
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		#3645 | 
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			 look i got some new glasses 
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			Many set themselves up for failure by thinking they should be happy constantly.  When it doesn't turn out that way, they wonder what is wrong with them and/or their lives that they aren't feeling happy. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Instead, they should realize that happiness is an emotion - as are sadness, anger, surprise and excitement. If one realizes that all emotions ebb & flow, and let go of the theory that unless they are feeling happy the majority of time they are not "normal", many will soon figure out that life is easier to manage on a day-to-day basis. Why not focus on feeling contentment instead? Ask yourself, "Am I content right now?" If the answer is anything besides yes, try to figure out what you can do to help get yourself closer to the goal of contentment. Having said that, one must also remember that it is prefectly "normal" to feel sad, blue, anxious or other "negative" emotions from time-to-time. Do not discount these emotions. Often, when we deny or bury emotions, they will linger under the surface and find other, unhealthy ways of emerging. When you find yourself feeling sad, for example, allot a set amount of time to immerse yourself in the emotion and the causes for it; to think about why you might be feeling this way. And then focus on letting go of that emotion, of not allowing it to consume you. If it's a situation you can do something about, try writing possible solutions or plans to change it, then act on it. If it is something that you do not have control over, try telling yourself exactly that: "I do not have control over that. There is nothing at all I can do about it." and work on letting it go instead of allowing it to eat away at you. Practice this as often as needed. Practice makes perfect. 
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			Pixie: I think I was a cheap date this weekend. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Irish: me too! Pixie: *big grin* Irish: you know, that doesnt make us easy, it just makes us whores. LMAO!!!  | 
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		#3649 | 
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		#3650 | 
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			 I shouldnta moved all that furniture today... 
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	. . . . . Happiness is like a butterfly which,  when pursued, is always beyond our grasp, but, if you will sit down quietly, may alight upon you ~Nathaniel Hawthorne  | 
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		#3651 | 
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Queer..in the queer deffinition of the queer meaning of the queer word... Preferred Pronoun?: 
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			Things happen... Join Date: Apr 2010 
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			My children are as sick as I am... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			We are watching a horror movie and there was an extensive amount of blood splattering... All three of us cracked up and thought it was a GRAND death... I hope they turn out ok...  
		
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	"Today we would pass through the scenes of our youth like travelers. We are burnt up by hard facts; like tradesmen we understand distinctions, and like butchers, necessities. We are no longer untroubled - we are indifferent. We might exist there; but, should we really live there?" ~Erich Maria Remarque "All Quiet on the Western Front" http://a6.sphotos.ak.fbcdn.net/hphot..._4605968_n.jpg  | 
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			i am innocent, i tell ya
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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	I'm a fountain of blood. In the shape of a girl.  - Bjork What is to give light must endure burning.  -Viktor Frankl 
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			sir why you felt the need to speed up and fly past me only to cut in front of me to exit is beyond me. I'm sure it wont cost too much to repair your bike and your body surely hurts like hell right now. you should have stayed in bed this morning dumbass. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	on a not so lighter note...don't ever manhandle someone weaker than you in front of me, ever. what a fucking morning. I'm off to the farm with the dogs to see what happens next.  | 
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			Keep it simple: the white oxford shirt.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			 Whenever I see a crane or a heron, I consider it good luck. Today when I was driving 3 cranes flew over me! Come on good luck! I'm ready for ya!! ![]() skeet 
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	Texting while driving is a real KILLER!!! "It takes hundreds of nuts to hold a car together...but it takes only one nut to scatter them all over the highway..." Jeff PARAMEDIC  
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			As a very feminine woman. Join Date: May 2010 
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			Two-hundred-and-thirty-seven members of Congress are millionaires. That’s 44 percent of the body – compared to about 1 percent of Americans overall. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I am burning a cafe au lait scented tart.  I now desperately need coffee.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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