What is on your mind

[MsTinkerbelly]

...how sore I am from playing golf last night. You would think I have never picked up a club before.

[Medusa]

I hope I dont rupture something holding it in.

[chefhmboyrd]

[Corkey]

Originally Posted by Medusa

I hope I dont rupture something holding it in.

Spill and save your colon

[pajama]

What I want out of life. How to get it. How to not let my fear keep me from it.

[waxnrope]

Originally Posted by ravfem

i'm very sorry, i honestly didn't mean to offend you.

Ok. You, I believe. But you still don't get any of my Toblerone stash. Heh

[Gemme]

Letting it go. Just letting it go.

[Canela]

Hym, of course...always hym...*smiling*...

[ravfem]

i copied this passage (with permission from the poster...thank you!!) from another thread:

>We seem to talk a lot about respecting others but have no problem giving out verbal lashings when people dont think like we do, respond in the way we expect, have the same issues with something as we do, or express outrage in the form we expect. Is that respectful? Is that honoring diversity?<

i have often been dumbfounded about this myself. i've seen such amazing support and encouragement from this community and it makes me feel great when i see it happening.

But i've also seen the same posters attack and belittle someone for expressing personal opinions & thoughts that they don't agree with.

i understand feeling strongly about issues that are important to you....i have no problem standing up for myself or my issues and think it's always a good thing to be able to do. What i don't understand is why some of us are so incredibly rude and mean when we let someone know we don't agree with them.

i'm not suggesting i would rather see everyone play kiss-ass or asking people to ignore it when someone says something they don't agree with. i just don't understand why it has to turn viscious and ugly.

What's wrong with saying, "i think you are wrong, and here's why..." instead of calling someone awful names and/or talking down to them? Why do we ask for respect and common courtesies when we don't give the same?

We love it when we see someone honor our diversity and individuality, but we wont hesitate to jump all over someone for disagreeing or stating their own opinions & thoughts if they happen to not be what we think they should be. Honestly, i would love it if everyone thought the same as i did about issues that are close to my heart, and ones that i think should be important to us all. But i know that it doesn't work that way.

Even if someone has an opinion/thought/ideology that i think is ignorant/crazy/hateful ....for example, let's say someone hates chocolate. Now i happen to know that loving chocolate is the one true *right* way to live, and not only should everyone love chocolate and partake daily, but they should also stand up against the haters. But i'm not going to belittle the dissenters because they'll just shut down and get angry, hurt and/or be rude back at me. It's much more productive to extend courtesy and calmness while i'm telling them just how wrong they are. If they continue to be a hater, then i have to understand that they don't have the same priorities as i do, and let it go.

When someone makes a comment i don't agree with, i would much rather engage them in civil conversation than go on the attack. For me, when i feel attacked, i'm not gonna be open to hearing why someone thinks i am wrong...i am gonna shut down and end the conversation or get into an arguement that leads to nothing. And i've never bought into the argument that they were mean to me so i'm gonna be even meaner to them. Well, i used to be that way, but then i grew up.

i know i'm sensitive. i always have been, i always will be. i also understand not everyone has the same communication "skills". But i do know that we are all adults here and that we are all capable of being civil.

Having a heated debate can be done while maintaining maturity and dignity.

Peace!

[Lynn]

On my mind is that pastor's fucking nuts plan to burn the Koran.

It's so frightening to me, on so many levels.

If someone were to call on others to burn holy Jewish texts, or any other religion's texts, I would consider that a hate crime. For me, it goes beyond freedom of speech to inciting hatred and violence. And, if there are in fact any deaths that result from this stupidity, I think the pastor should be charged with homicide.

How soon we forget that the Nazis were able to burn holy books in their town squares with hardly any protest before they burned the Jews (and the queers, and...).

[TIMBERWOLF]

On my mind............going to see Michael Bolton in concert with my lady and supper afterwards

[bright_arrow]

I wish people all the best, those I know and those I do not.

[Massive]

It's good to be writing again and it's good to be liking me.

[Leigh]

I'm thinking about the job interview I have tomorrow ~ getting back out into the workforce is scary but will be worth it for sure

[bright_arrow]

I think I need to wash a pan, cook some eggs, make some toast, and give up for the night. Meh.

Tired, starving, and willing to kill for nicotine

Last episode of this series made me sad :/
Heavy heart kinda sad.
Meh.

Therapist: "I think for this to work you two need to be a little less honest with each other. For a marriage to work, you have to conspire with your partner to not say everything. You know things aren't perfect, but you don't hammer away at it. Marriage is a silent conspiracy between two people to not confess everything, to let sleeping dogs lie."

Husband: "I like that!"

Wife: "I bet you do."

Husband: "So that's working for your marriage?"

Therapist: "I-I think so! We've been married ten years!"

Wife: "So does that mean she does or doesn't know you're gay?"

Therapist: *stammering* "Uh uh.. I think she might."

[Soon]

A new student transferred from Savannah, Georgia to my city in SW Ontario--she's in Gr. 12. I was thinking how hard that must be to transfer from one country and cultural climate to another--especially in that last Senior year!

She seems really sweet (I only met her two days ago) -- she brought in her binder, so I could look over what she was taught in her previous year (specialized program--I wanted a peek!).

So, I was listening to these awesome poems the students wrote as an Intro activity (I AM poems, but they love it!), and I look over to the new girl from Savannah, GA and see her bag on the ground. She has a bunch of pins on it and I sit there kinda studying them and, lo and behold, I see a big fat Rainbow Pride pin.

It just made my day.

[Leigh]

Reading this story made Me so sad ............. I couldnt imagine going through that. A man in the car with his wife and unborn child, driving down the road without a care in the world until a car comes barelling down the other end of the road heading straight for the man and his family. Determined to save his family, the man swerves the car so that he is the one who takes the impact of the collision ~ saving his wife and unborn child but being killed in the end. What a hero he was to sacrifice his life for that of his wife and unborn child, not thinking twice about doing something like that in order to ensure that the ones he loves did not die as he did.

The occupants of the other car, four young individuals well known to police, are said to have had the influence of drugs in their system. Two of them died as well, one is in the hospital with a broken pelvis while the driver sits in jail waiting to be formally charged. It amazes Me that such things happen to good people, and the fact that where this happened will probably not find the people involved charged with more than two years in jail, completely blows My mind ........... here is the entire story:

http://ca.news.yahoo.com/s/08092010/...es-family.html

[DamonK]

Going to bite the bullet and talk to the doctor about my options.

Then see where I can go from there.

[Scorp]

I hate pissing matches. Don't go there with me or else you'll end up face down in the yellow puddle....

[pajama]

How unexpected life can be. And the prices paid and paying along the way.