12-28-2011, 11:29 AM | #21 |
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I've learned that it's a lot easier to ride the horse in the direction it's going.
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12-28-2011, 11:34 AM | #22 |
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I learned that if you forget to put the water in the little instant noodle thingys...... They WILL burst into flames!
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12-28-2011, 11:37 AM | #23 |
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That some people have no taste buds!
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12-28-2011, 11:41 AM | #24 |
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not to get my hopes up high about anybody. i've been let down too many times that i care to even describe.
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12-28-2011, 12:22 PM | #25 |
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I have learned that I have the will to say no.
That it is healthy to take a break. That I dislike being smothered and feel suffocated. That I love myself too much to settle. And that I never stop learning. |
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12-29-2011, 12:04 PM | #26 |
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WIHL...no matter how old my kids get..no matter how successful they are in their jobs and lives they will always need/want my guidance and help. And no matter what I will always be there for them. A mothers/grandmothers unconditional love.
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I've learned nothing is set in stone and changes do occur. We must learn to roll with it no matter how bumpy it gets.
I also learned I do have true friends for which I am very lucky.
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12-30-2011, 07:01 PM | #28 |
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I've learned that honoring my need for quiet alone time makes me a better human when I do interact with others.
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12-30-2011, 07:07 PM | #29 |
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I am putting this out there in all honesty... I have learned I will make some dumb/impulsive/seemed like a very good idea at the time mistakes and I may just have to limit to which areas of my life I make them. Right now I am pondering if.... maybe just maybe I could limit them to errors in judgement to involving sex. With safer sex practices in mind, I maybe I can afford to be a bit loosey goosey. I'd rather make better choices financially, at work, with my parenting and health. Save the stupid shit for sex.
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12-30-2011, 07:35 PM | #30 |
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when i put my mind to something... i do it. i have failed at many attempts in my life... however, when i dust myself off i take another look at things from a different perspective.
i have 3 goals for 2012, #1 is passing the exam to earn my personal training certificate. i am confident with my studies; i know i need to step it up; do some online testing; then some hands on practicals. i Can and will do this!
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12-30-2011, 07:43 PM | #31 |
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i have learned that expectations are premeditated resentments.. and that when i can keep myself from getting wrapped up in them, i am MUCH muchier happier.
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i have learned it's a really bad idea to look at clothes when i'm sposed to be shopping for shoes.
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I just wished aloud for a shroud (out of some mock desire for a little privacy which I don't really need) and E, while building me a gorgeous bookcase asks, 'a Shroud of Turin?'
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12-30-2011, 10:15 PM | #34 |
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...and i'm less likely to be disappointed. it's a win-win... now if i could just remember to do it....
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12-30-2011, 10:29 PM | #35 |
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What I learned (this week)....not to leave a box of mini cheesecakes in the house when mom is visiting....she knows they are loaded with a bunch of stuff that makes her very sick....but half the box is gone anyway. And I learned not to automatically think the car might be beyond fixing when it took less than $4.00 to solve.... I learned to be humble ... :
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lessons......
As a culture we mark the New Year as a chance for new beginnings. We do this once a year, and it's important to see that opportunity and grasp it. But in reality we have that opportunity every day, every moment, and with each breath we take. The chance to recreate our lives, and make life more beautiful and true to ourselves. I had to get slapped really hard to get this one. Maybe, someday, I will be able to say thank you. For now, breathe and recreate is the best I can do........
Ojos de Brujo feat Bebe- Nueva Vida Nueva vida, rayos de luz por mi ventana brisa de otro dia, tengo una caricia...como angelito de la guardia de la cada esquina no imagine que algo tan bello y tan autentico iba a pasar me desperte oliendo a menta sobre arena mojada y sal, run run que alegra mi canto y una vida que viene y otra se va...mira la dulce que acuna con calma, oye susurra cuentos sin fantasmas... Quien me iba a decir que un amor tan profundo me iba ami a latir en lo mas hondo de mi corazon... este misterio y el perfume y amanecer es nuevo.. Viene y va pero este amor que siento por dentro siempre permanecera..viene y va.. aunque se paren los cuatro vientos que se dejen llevar, aunque este mundo se vuelva loco...te quiero..viene y va... uuuu de tu mano huelo la felicidad, devoros de instantes sin pensar cancion de amor que llenan mi habitacion repleta...de porque no y sensaciones nuevas.... Viene y va pero este amor que siento por dentro siempre permanecera, aunque se paren los cuatro vientos..viene y va, aunque este mundo se vuelva loco...viene y vaa..viene y vaa...aunque se paren los cuatro vientos......viene y va..... Nueva vida rayos de luz por mi ventana brisa de otro dia, tengo una caricia como angelito de la guardia de la cada esquina run run que alegra mi canto y una vida que viene y otra se va...viene y va ,pero este amor que siento por dentro siempre permanecera,viene y va aunque se paren los cuatro vientos,viene y va....aunque este mundo se vuelva loco..te quiero...viene y va.....
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12-31-2011, 03:18 PM | #38 |
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things i have learned....
you cant ignore that little voice you cant compromise who you are. that i need to widen my circle of friends that i am better off than a lot of other people--meaning i am lucky to have food,shelter,and people who love and care about me. some things/people just cant change no matter how hard you try or will them to. |
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A couple random things that have had the most positive ripples...
To move to the beat of my own heart, to be as forgiving of myself as I would for another, that unlearning is as important as learning...
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To take chances. That was a real hard one for me to do.
Also who to listen to.....listen to your heart and feel with your brain. Not the opposite. If your brain is saying naw, while your heart is saying yeah, don't go there. Or reversed, if your brain is saying, yeah it fits but the heart is saying no: Don't go there. They have to be agreeable and in agreement and talking to each other. Not a 50/50 thing either. A 110%/110% thing. Oh and i learned how to balance on one foot and hold my other foot up to tie my shoe. I may start leaning over a little, by the end of the "tieing", but i can now make it to the final bow. I've always wanted to learn that.
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