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02-06-2011, 12:01 AM | #21 |
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These are the two saddest break-up songs I have ever heard. The incredible angst of loving someone who no longer loves you ...
Sad and lonely Smooches, Keri |
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When my much beloved husband died seven years ago, this was the song that most espressed my loss. Seven years later it still tears me up when I hear it. Truly the worst "break up" of my life.
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A year or so later, when my sons had decided to grieve the loss of their Dad by running away and constantly getting in to trouble with the law, I realized I WAS still alive and I had lots of stuff I needed to take care of, so I adopted this as my personal "motto" song. It still motivates me - and it is also a great "recovering from a break-up" song. Good for this particular moment too - I've been sad all night - time to kick myself in the butt and get on up out of the dumps.
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Over the years, various stages. All great songs in their own right! Glynn |
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After the end of my last relationship some beloved drag queen friends said enough was enough, kidnapped me, dressed me up and took me out. Here are some of the songs from that wild night:
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02-06-2011, 10:08 AM | #30 |
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This song has gotten me through all sorts of things, break ups included. . .
Paul Brady "The World is What You Make it" Here are the lyrics ... I knew this African called Hannibal Rock it roll it send it down the avenue Went out to see the Roman Empire fall Uh huh? uh huh? Two thousand elephants in gold chain-mail Take it, shake it, make it what you wanna be Them Roman legionnaires they hit the trail Uh huh? The world is what you make it The world is what you make it When Cleopatra ruled in Egypt's land Jump down, turn around, look at what the monkey did She went to find herself a mighty man Uh huh? uh huh? In come Antonio from Italy Haul it, ball it, drag it up the pyramid, He never knew how hot a girl could be Uh huh? The world is what you make it The world is what you make it baby The world is what you make it Don't start to hit me with your "no can do" Bluesin', losin', workin' up an attitude Clean up them windows let the sun shine through Uh huh? uh huh? There ain't no happy time without no pain heartbreak, new date, move on up the alleyway Pick up them pieces hit the road again Uh huh? The world is what you make it The world is what you make it baby The world is what you make it
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Anything Chris Williamson Just sayin' Chris's music has Helped to Heal me, make me whole to love again songs that have been with me since my young dashing bachelor, lover days. She has been through the fire of love and loss and her Ashes album still does it for me. and for those in need of a fuck off or love me big boy song... |
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This got me through one or two.....freaking fun to dance to as well.
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