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Crossing bridges by foot, especially those with traffic underneath (for some reason, the rapid movement of the traffic freaks me out).
I'm always afraid that I'll succumb to a sudden temptation to jump and inevitably have to wait for someone to hold my hand and walk me across with my eyes closed. Words |
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big crowds - NO!! most of the other things are getting better with each try :-) and a fear that's too big to say, cuz I don't want to jinx them |
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I have three..
1 Heights without a rail or some sort of barrerer... I can do it but I break out in the sweats and the shakes... Why, yes I do love driving through the mountains.... 2 Something horrible would happen to my son.. It used to be my biggest fear, but now that he is out on his own, it's lessened... Lol.. I can't know where he is and what he is doing every day... 3 Not knowing where a loved one is... If someone was supposed to be home at x time and they are not and I haven't gotten a phone call, txt, email... I start to panic... They are dead on the side of the road... I used to say... It's not that I care where you go or how long you stay... I just need to know when to start worring, when to start calling the hospitals and driving the streets.. (I once left a voice mail on a friends phone at 12am telling him that he didn't call me when he was supposed to and now I'm imagining that he has ripped out his stitches and laying in a pool of blood and if he didn't call me back within a half hour, I was calling the ambulance to go make sure he was alive...)
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heights as in falling from or looking from or being in or thinking about
bugs of any kind, any color, any shape size or ID A flat tire (I must get triple A, i keep forgetting) Drowning (learning to swim is also on my to do list) Something happening to someone I love (i'm a worrier) the world running out of coffee
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Heights, weird cuz I never was afraid of heights until the last few years. I get vertigo without warning so if I go up, I tether to something.
I fear losing more hours at work and then losing my house and truck, but I'm looking for a job so maybe something will come up at least maybe a part time job I don't fear crowds but I'm not crazy about being around a a stadium full of people. I do have a fire fear, but am told that comes from a previous life.
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So many of the things that I have feared in the past just don't bother me as much anymore. Don't know if this is a good or bad thing... After going through the deaths of 4 family members and a lover in a short time period, I was very fearful of cancer. Now, I have calmed and know that it is up to me to take care of myself and go in for preventive tests, etc. Not that I am perfect about this at all- those damn personal flaws!! FDR's "there is nothing to fear, but fear itself," rings true for me in terms of doing whatever I need to in terms of combating my own anxieties.
I do fear the rising of the far right to the point of gaining a majority in the US government, however. Last edited by AtLast; 11-22-2010 at 09:30 AM. |
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What is/are your biggest fears?
I'm disabled and deal with chronic pain and mobility limits, so most of my fears revolve around that. I fear not being able to take care of myself when I'm older and losing my independence. I also fear being unwanted and a burden to others.
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...Not being there...to protect or help a loved one...
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Elavators Don't like them , I avoid them especially if there are a lot of people in there ..Years ago I was in one , it started to get full , and before I could get off on any floor , it stopped real fast and this drunk guy flew into Me and My first reaction was to turn and bodyslam him to the back of the elavator He hit that back and slid down , oppssss
The one at the hotel for the reunion was a lil freaky for Me , but it was never full and it was fast ...lol |
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I think i have to get out of bed and drive to it right now.
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i fear escalators. Nothing traumatic has ever happened on them, i remember riding them as a child and doing fine. But i fear them now to the point that just walking by one makes my palms sweat and my heart race.
i fear giving all of me, and having the recipient eventually say, "no, i changed my mind, i don't want you anymore". i fear breaking my right arm. i fear, right at this moment, that i'm going to have to go upstairs and have a come-to-jesus meeting with my new neighbors. OK, maybe "fear" is the wrong word.....or maybe it's right, but not for that reason. Maybe i really fear the beat down imma hafta leave her with.
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Dying alone in a nursing home.
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Dying alone and not meeting anyone soon.
Bugs any kind especially cockroaches had when I lived in NYC it was awful!! Certain Heights it could be an elevated area to.Animals in the garbage like oppossum, one was in the trash a couple of weeks ago I think dead..yucky
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finding out I was right about everything... and then some.
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Heights... No roller coasters etc for me Dying Alone |
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Not achieving my potential; I have a reoccurring nightmare that I am working in retail sales again, don't want that to happen
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Being trapped, anywhere... Being home alone in the dark (even at night sometimes) - we had a break in a few years ago, and I was home alone...and I thank God every day that our pups scared the intruder away...but, I've never been the same. Failing. Miserably. Falling apart at the seams..and having no tape, thread, or glue. |
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