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Old 05-22-2011, 09:48 PM   #1
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Missing You-John Waite
I Will Always Love You-Whitney Houston
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She Hates Me- Puddle of Mudd
I'm Sorry- John Denver
This Is Me Your Talking To- Trisha Yearwood


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Pretty much anything on Steve Winwood's album "Higher Life" especially the title song, "Back in the High Life Again."

"Want Ads" by Honey Cone

"Father Figure" George Michaels. Reminds me of how Daddy used to solve or smooth anything.

Many "Velvet Underground" songs
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Can You Stop The Rain -- Peabo Bryson

Here's another morning without you
Here's another day, will I get through it
Without breaking down
Haven't seen the sun since you've been gone
Like my heart I lost it when you left me
And it can't be found

How can I go on
Baby, I've been living on memories
Of you and me
All the love we made
All those tender nights
And those endless days
They're all here inside

Baby, can you stop the rain from falling?
Won't you chase my clouds away?
I'd give anything to see the sun again
Only you can stop these tears from falling
I can't face another day
Baby, can you stop
Can you stop the rain? Oh, oh

Everywhere I go I feel you there
Following my footsteps like a shadow
Of my broken heart
Sometimes it's a pair of passing eyes
Or it's just the way someone is talking
And there you are

Am I all alone
Don't you ever wake up and reach for me
Where I used to be
Is there any chance
I just can't believe you're not lonely too
Just for me and you

Baby, can you stop the rain from falling?
Won't you chase my clouds away?
I'd give anything to see the sun again
Only you can stop these tears from falling
I can't face another day, baby, can you stop
Can you stop the rain? Oh, oh

If you are here for only one night
Baby, I know you remember
'Cause loving you once wasn't time enough
I know we can make it together
Together

Baby, stop the rain
Won't you chase my clouds away
I'd give anything to see the sun again
Only you can stop these tears of mine from falling
I can't face another day
Baby, can you stop
Can you, can you stop the rain?

Can you stop the rain? yeah
How can I live without you, baby?
How can I let you go? yeah
Chase my clouds away, yeah



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1. Hope it gives you hell- All American Rejects
2. Scrubs- TLC
3. Someone like you- Adele
4. Chasing Pavements- Adele
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[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3M-bH3YGsTo/YOUTUBE]

heheh. "Skillet on the stove...it's such a temptation"

Another on the 'mixed tape of break up music'..
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kXR9D6Q9gwU/YOUTUBE]
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Cool Free from your spell.

Mostly wanted a opportunity to post a B.B link! BUT, it's a great 'break up' song!!

http://youtu.be/fVpc2H415j0
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THIS FITS I PICTURE SOLDIERS STOMPING HER AWAY
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1. Hope it gives you hell- All American Rejects
Yep... that one was GREAT for me.
Also... Take Another Little Piece of My Heart

Singing loudly and crying when brokenhearted is healing for me.
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When I was angry, it was The Veronica's "Revenge Is Sweeter (Than You Ever Were)"



When I needed to cry my eyes out, it was Sarah McLachlan "Fallen"



When I wanted to sink into a hole and be a hermit for the rest of my life, it was Dido "Life For Rent"



When I needed a pick me up, normally with some alcohol included, it was Nina Simone "Love Me or Leave Me"



When I needed a feel good song, Santana always does it right.. In this case, "Love of My Life" and one of my all-time favorite songs from the first time I heard it 10 years ago


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Definitely Adele's Someone Like You, and Rihanna's Take a Bow
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Well it didn't get me thru the breakup but it always reminds me of the predominant feeling at the time.... "I Can't Make You Love Me" by Bonnie Rait
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