How have you met the people you've been involved with romantically or sexually? - Page 2

Orema · 07-10-2014, 07:05 AM

A party, a brothel (long before Viagra, thank goodness), the internet.

JRM · 08-03-2015, 04:47 PM

2 of them by just standing there minding my own business .. Must of had a post it stuck on me that said talk to me .. 1 online

Karysma · 08-03-2015, 06:47 PM

Chat room... where the most disturbed individuals live. I like a challenge! LOL!

TruTexan · 08-22-2015, 04:48 PM

Just bumping for some folks to read.

JDeere · 01-09-2020, 05:15 PM

On old yahoo chat, another bf website, pof and this one I met in a Facebook group.

Tuff Stuff · 01-12-2020, 02:53 PM

No longer called hook-ups but "traveling companions"...I like that term better myself.

Love all my buddies, really I do.

GeorgiaMa'am · 01-12-2020, 06:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tuff Stuff

No longer called hook-ups but "traveling companions"...I like that term better myself.

Love all my buddies, really I do.

Ohhhhh! Is that what we used to call a trick?

Queenie · 07-10-2014, 08:17 AM

I met my husband on my 26th birthday. At the time, I was going onto a music site a, morrissey fan site. He liked my user name so he sent me a pm to ask me about it. I sent him a short pm back about my user name and that was it. Well, I thought that would be it. A few months later I saw a thread of his asking should he grow out his hair. I was curious to see what he looked like so I clicked on the thread. The moment I saw his photo I knew I was going to be his wife.

I wrote a cute post about my thoughts about him growing out his hair. I spent so long making sure my post was smart and cute. I really wanted him to notice me. It worked!

We started to talk via pm and then onto IM and then onto the phone. It was just easy with him and different. Seven years ago this week he came to vegas to meet me in person. We both fell more in love with each other that week and we both knew that what we had was the real deal with each other.

A few months later I moved to, London to be with him and thats it. I have been here ever since. I still dont know how it all worked out. But it did!

JDeere · 06-09-2015, 10:31 PM

I have mainly met them from online. Mostly dating sites.

Sweet Bliss · 07-17-2015, 09:28 PM

online, in person..... still single, lmao...

bright_arrow · 09-03-2013, 03:44 AM

I did forget about a sorta poly/open LDR relationship

I was young, so obv we just considered it an open relationship.

Met in The Graveyard Yahoo chatroom. He was an English major at a Catholic college in PA, long black hair and trenchcoat. After 3 years or so, he broke all connection with me. Came back a year later and told me he was a lesbian. I said whatttt? MtF. She is still pre-op (living at home, with Catholic parents). We still haven't met in person though we have been talking on-line/phone/texts for 14 years now. I hope that one day we can at least meet - we are hella good friends! Did lose contact when dating stalker MySpace gf because I wasn't *allowed* to have friends (no lie!) and we just got back in touch about a year ago after five years of nothing.

Sweet Bliss · 09-03-2013, 06:24 AM

Guy next door, 3 years
Mother introduced us, 16 years
Online, met real time, over same day, just took me to my limit to end.
yahoo group, almost fainted, oh ya, ended when I moved.
Introduced by friend, not so good for me, great for her

Single.

CherryBlonde · 09-03-2013, 06:48 AM

Question: What is this dash site everyone keeps mentioning?

08-03-2015, 06:47 PM	#3
Karysma Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she,her Relationship Status: Post Apocolyptic Join Date: Jul 2015 Location: Atlanta Posts: 172 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 850 Thanked 769 Times in 148 Posts Rep Power: 13174978	Chat room... where the most disturbed individuals live. I like a challenge! LOL! __________________ Karysma

08-22-2015, 04:48 PM	#4
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,266 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Just bumping for some folks to read. __________________

06-09-2015, 10:31 PM	#9
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	I have mainly met them from online. Mostly dating sites. __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

09-03-2013, 06:48 AM	#13
CherryBlonde Junior Member How Do You Identify?: high femme babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: she...her...Ms. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Arizona Posts: 51 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 115 Thanked 209 Times in 42 Posts Rep Power: 3181299	Question: What is this dash site everyone keeps mentioning? __________________ What do I wear in bed? Why, Chanel No. 5, of course. - Marilyn Monroe

07-10-2014, 07:05 AM	#1
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Moving in a single file Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,567 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,431 Thanked 34,700 Times in 8,926 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	A party, a brothel (long before Viagra, thank goodness), the internet.

08-03-2015, 04:47 PM	#2
JRM Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Not looking Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Ohio Posts: 116 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 40 Thanked 386 Times in 107 Posts Rep Power: 5899365	2 of them by just standing there minding my own business .. Must of had a post it stuck on me that said talk to me .. 1 online

01-09-2020, 05:15 PM	#5
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	On old yahoo chat, another bf website, pof and this one I met in a Facebook group.

01-12-2020, 02:53 PM	#6
Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	No longer called hook-ups but "traveling companions"...I like that term better myself. Love all my buddies, really I do.

07-10-2014, 08:17 AM	#8
Queenie Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Preferred Pronoun?: Her Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: East Finchley Posts: 752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 478 Thanked 1,886 Times in 523 Posts Rep Power: 16307164	I met my husband on my 26th birthday. At the time, I was going onto a music site a, morrissey fan site. He liked my user name so he sent me a pm to ask me about it. I sent him a short pm back about my user name and that was it. Well, I thought that would be it. A few months later I saw a thread of his asking should he grow out his hair. I was curious to see what he looked like so I clicked on the thread. The moment I saw his photo I knew I was going to be his wife. I wrote a cute post about my thoughts about him growing out his hair. I spent so long making sure my post was smart and cute. I really wanted him to notice me. It worked! We started to talk via pm and then onto IM and then onto the phone. It was just easy with him and different. Seven years ago this week he came to vegas to meet me in person. We both fell more in love with each other that week and we both knew that what we had was the real deal with each other. A few months later I moved to, London to be with him and thats it. I have been here ever since. I still dont know how it all worked out. But it did!

07-17-2015, 09:28 PM	#10
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	online, in person..... still single, lmao...

09-03-2013, 03:44 AM	#11
bright_arrow ☆ the stars are aligned ☆ How Do You Identify?: one queer mama Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: married to my Boo Daddy <3 Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: nor cal Posts: 2,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,644 Thanked 9,363 Times in 2,296 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I did forget about a sorta poly/open LDR relationship I was young, so obv we just considered it an open relationship. Met in The Graveyard Yahoo chatroom. He was an English major at a Catholic college in PA, long black hair and trenchcoat. After 3 years or so, he broke all connection with me. Came back a year later and told me he was a lesbian. I said whatttt? MtF. She is still pre-op (living at home, with Catholic parents). We still haven't met in person though we have been talking on-line/phone/texts for 14 years now. I hope that one day we can at least meet - we are hella good friends! Did lose contact when dating stalker MySpace gf because I wasn't allowed to have friends (no lie!) and we just got back in touch about a year ago after five years of nothing.

09-03-2013, 06:24 AM	#12
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Guy next door, 3 years Mother introduced us, 16 years Online, met real time, over same day, just took me to my limit to end. yahoo group, almost fainted, oh ya, ended when I moved. Introduced by friend, not so good for me, great for her Single.