Prenuptial Agreements. Anyone have one? Anyone who would consider one if they married? - Page 2

imperfect_cupcake · 01-03-2016, 09:41 PM

Maybe you haven't dealt with what I have. And it *certainly* wasn't the flush of new love.
I've changed quite a bit in the last two years.
I've had friends that last over 25, and 30 years. I've watched them change deeply. That we are still friends are only because I grew up with them.

People change their ethics. A lot. What my ethics were 10 years ago are not the same as they are now after living in a different continent and going through severve poverty, a break down and a divorce.
My life has taught me people change in big fat huge ways, right through their core if life hits them hard enough.
So, I have to disagree.

flapdoodle · 06-15-2016, 11:03 PM

we are legally married
no prenup here.
I never understood the purpose.
... I protect myself via my will and my deed, I made sure j gets everything and likewise.

i knew the score going in, sure, she might change...and so might I...

i trust her, bottom line

kittygrrl · 06-27-2016, 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by flapdoodle

we are legally married
no prenup here.
I never understood the purpose.
... I protect myself via my will and my deed, I made sure j gets everything and likewise.

i knew the score going in, sure, she might change...and so might I...

i trust her, bottom line

Love this...and it's true..if you believe the person you are loving has good bones..then trust you're going to be ok go all in or go home

(so to speak)

Tuff Stuff · 10-16-2017, 11:34 AM

No, we didn't sign one.If something happens she knows it is all hers,i want nothing from her end.There's something about me that really doesn't give a damn about material stuff.She can have the house,the vehicles ect.I would move out and start new some place else.

Angeltoes · 01-02-2016, 07:37 PM

Hell yeah, no one can have my beanie baby collection, my giant hello kitty, my vegan recipe books, my vinyl collection. .. I don't care how cute you are. You can't have them!

homoe · 01-02-2016, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Angeltoes

Hell yeah, no one can have my beanie baby collection, my giant hello kitty, my vegan recipe books, my vinyl collection. .. I don't care how cute you are. You can't have them!

Angel, careful, there are gold diggers out there just waiting to pounce!

easygoingfemme · 01-02-2016, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Angeltoes

Hell yeah, no one can have my beanie baby collection, my giant hello kitty, my vegan recipe books, my vinyl collection. .. I don't care how cute you are. You can't have them!

The vinyl collection! See I was thinking that I didn't really have a reason for a pre-nup. But yeah, need to protect my vinyl! Good looking out. Guess I'd need one.

Deborah* · 10-03-2017, 05:40 PM

Absolutely I'd consider one.

Deborah

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imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,711 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Maybe you haven't dealt with what I have. And it certainly wasn't the flush of new love. I've changed quite a bit in the last two years. I've had friends that last over 25, and 30 years. I've watched them change deeply. That we are still friends are only because I grew up with them. People change their ethics. A lot. What my ethics were 10 years ago are not the same as they are now after living in a different continent and going through severve poverty, a break down and a divorce. My life has taught me people change in big fat huge ways, right through their core if life hits them hard enough. So, I have to disagree.

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flapdoodle Junior Member How Do You Identify?: I'm the Mrs. Preferred Pronoun?: reflexive Relationship Status: Married in 2013 Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: sing it Frankie baby Posts: 81 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8 Thanked 245 Times in 59 Posts Rep Power: 1073757	we are legally married no prenup here. I never understood the purpose. ... I protect myself via my will and my deed, I made sure j gets everything and likewise. i knew the score going in, sure, she might change...and so might I... i trust her, bottom line

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Tuff Stuff Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married Join Date: May 2013 Location: California Posts: 695 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 904 Thanked 1,315 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9408454	No, we didn't sign one.If something happens she knows it is all hers,i want nothing from her end.There's something about me that really doesn't give a damn about material stuff.She can have the house,the vehicles ect.I would move out and start new some place else.

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Deborah* Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: single and not looking Join Date: Sep 2017 Location: Texas Posts: 354 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 304 Thanked 420 Times in 180 Posts Rep Power: 2658954	Absolutely I'd consider one. Deborah