The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over. - Page 213

Licious · 11-28-2013, 02:41 PM

Been out sick for some weeks.... Coming through to catch up

Happy Thanksgiving Lofters!

morningstar55 · 11-29-2013, 06:18 PM

... sits up .. looks back and forth all around ...... hmmmm thinks i think i felt a breeze Jet .. by here ..

Jet · 11-29-2013, 07:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55

... sits up .. looks back and forth all around ...... hmmmm thinks i think i felt a breeze Jet .. by here ..

Hello Barb. Good to see you again. You're looking well in the galleries and I hope life is treating you well—as you deserve. Please keep in touch and keep on truckin' hon. (And just remember the golden rule in my visitor's pages—no food shots, just thoughts from your heart.)

Hugs,
Jet

BeccaWolf · 11-29-2013, 11:47 PM

Hello everyone. Glad I found this thread. I'm happy to know there is a spot for those of us that are past the staying up until 3am phase. LOL

morningstar55 · 11-30-2013, 07:29 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jet

Hello Barb. Good to see you again. You're looking well in the galleries and I hope life is treating you well—as you deserve. Please keep in touch and keep on truckin' hon. (And just remember the golden rule in my visitor's pages—no food shots, just thoughts from your heart.)

Hugs,
Jet

ty.. nice to c u bk around these parts .. lol
?? no foods or coffee pics here???

DaddyNik12 · 11-30-2013, 08:55 PM

whos got coffee ??? *sittin my white wolf coffee mug down*

Jet · 11-30-2013, 10:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by morningstar55

ty.. nice to c u bk around these parts .. lol
?? no foods or coffee pics here???

Yes, Barb. No food—just feel free to drop by. LOL

Joe Mario · 03-03-2014, 09:28 AM

Any one have any experience with Life Insurance Policies for Trans Men?

Would a beneficiary be denied, if the gender on ones Death Cert. and Ins. Policy gender don't match?

Retirement Plans?

I opened a thread in the FTM forums on these topics, in case any one would care to post there!

Breathless · 03-03-2014, 09:36 AM

Unfortunately yes Joe, the insurance company can and will deny benefits if the documents do not match. They look for any kind of 'fraud' and refuse to fulfill their obligations based on, they feel that a) could be different people, or b) the documents were not filled out accurately.. it is in the fine print and their escape clause.

Joe Mario · 03-03-2014, 09:52 AM

Aah, Thanks, Breathless. Am just getting some papers in order and seeing my work benefits portal leaves out particulars, including copies of the Ins. policies we signed up for during enrollment last fall and even the name of the Ins. Co. they are using!

Off I go then, I suppose, to tweeze out what I chose with a 'click', checking for consistency, making changes and then getting copies of documents, etc...that's if one can get ahold of ones HR guy. Full-time job just protecting yourself, eh...

anaisninja · 04-05-2014, 12:18 AM

Anybody here in the Pacific Northwest?

mythy · 04-06-2014, 05:55 AM

Well wot a nice spot to come in an have a cuppa, hello all, very nice to meet you.

TruTexan · 04-15-2014, 09:57 PM

bumping the thread for singles in this group.

pkrpower · 04-16-2014, 08:06 AM

hello single femmes.....

Christina · 04-19-2014, 07:14 PM

Hello... so very quiet in here... is there another venue everyone goes to chat?

C0LLETTE · 04-19-2014, 07:27 PM

I've decided to stick my name into every singles, meet-up, howdy, thread on BFP..I mean, it can't hurt. Right? And if this weenie post has already got your heart racing, just send me a message here on BFP and I'll respond in kind.

Christina · 04-19-2014, 08:08 PM

Someone asked me in a private message… “Can I tie you up and punish you”… Allow me to expound on the fact that NOT all Leather Girls are into S/M… I am a Stone Femme who excels off of the energy I derive from a Stone Butch, the commanding presence, self-assurance that is brought to the dance that compliments, blends, encapsulates my submissive aura … my personal dynamic… so where I can fully appreciate a slow tantalizing encounter that may or may not border on the line of pain before pleasure… it is not my personal preference to be roped, racked, gagged, or beat… not that anything is wrong with any of the aforementioned if that is your pleasure… with that said… I wish everyone well in their dance no matter their desires…

ruthie14 · 04-21-2014, 11:43 AM

Hello all, I hope you are having a great day!

Jet · 04-21-2014, 11:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ruthie14

Hello all, I hope you are having a great day!

Ruthie, nice to see you. Been a long time. It's rare that I'm in here and I'm not online often, but I wanted to say hello and wish you well.

ruthie14 · 04-21-2014, 11:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jet

Ruthie, nice to see you. Been a long time. It's rare that I'm in here and I'm not online often, but I wanted to say hello and wish you well.

Hi Jet!!! I've mostly been on facebook, but I am looking around here again. Miss some folks who aren't on facebook. I hope all is well with you!!

11-28-2013, 02:41 PM	#4241
Licious Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,502 Thanked 1,974 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Been out sick for some weeks.... Coming through to catch up Happy Thanksgiving Lofters! __________________ Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi

11-29-2013, 06:18 PM	#4242
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,241 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	... sits up .. looks back and forth all around ...... hmmmm thinks i think i felt a breeze Jet .. by here .. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

11-29-2013, 11:47 PM	#4244
BeccaWolf Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Top Preferred Pronoun?: Sir Relationship Status: Looking Join Date: Nov 2013 Location: Dallas/Albuquerque Posts: 5 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10 Thanked 14 Times in 3 Posts Rep Power: 0	New here Hello everyone. Glad I found this thread. I'm happy to know there is a spot for those of us that are past the staying up until 3am phase. LOL

11-30-2013, 08:55 PM	#4246
DaddyNik12 Member How Do You Identify?: Butch/Domme Preferred Pronoun?: Sir Relationship Status: still searching for ms right Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Indiana Posts: 580 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 515 Thanked 1,508 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 14895926	whos got coffee ??? sittin my white wolf coffee mug down __________________ people with sharp tounges , cut thier own throat !! smirk*

03-03-2014, 09:28 AM	#4248
Joe Mario Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Just a guy Preferred Pronoun?: 'He' will be fine. Relationship Status: happily involved Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 57 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 67 Times in 24 Posts Rep Power: 41799	50's and better concerns Any one have any experience with Life Insurance Policies for Trans Men? Would a beneficiary be denied, if the gender on ones Death Cert. and Ins. Policy gender don't match? Retirement Plans? I opened a thread in the FTM forums on these topics, in case any one would care to post there! __________________ Ciao, ~Joe Mario

03-03-2014, 09:36 AM	#4249
Breathless Brat Extraordinaire How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Happy Tournaments Won: 23 Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Alberta Canada Posts: 1,412 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,549 Thanked 4,101 Times in 958 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Unfortunately yes Joe, the insurance company can and will deny benefits if the documents do not match. They look for any kind of 'fraud' and refuse to fulfill their obligations based on, they feel that a) could be different people, or b) the documents were not filled out accurately.. it is in the fine print and their escape clause. __________________ *BE the change you wish to see in the world. Gandhi*

03-03-2014, 09:52 AM	#4250
Joe Mario Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Just a guy Preferred Pronoun?: 'He' will be fine. Relationship Status: happily involved Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 57 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 67 Times in 24 Posts Rep Power: 41799	Aah, Thanks, Breathless. Am just getting some papers in order and seeing my work benefits portal leaves out particulars, including copies of the Ins. policies we signed up for during enrollment last fall and even the name of the Ins. Co. they are using! Off I go then, I suppose, to tweeze out what I chose with a 'click', checking for consistency, making changes and then getting copies of documents, etc...that's if one can get ahold of ones HR guy. Full-time job just protecting yourself, eh... __________________ Ciao, ~Joe Mario Last edited by Joe Mario; 03-03-2014 at 09:53 AM. Reason: spelling

04-05-2014, 12:18 AM	#4251
anaisninja Member How Do You Identify?: . Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: . Posts: 117 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 167 Thanked 486 Times in 93 Posts Rep Power: 6064351	Anybody here in the Pacific Northwest?

04-06-2014, 05:55 AM	#4252
mythy Junior Member How Do You Identify?: silly buggar Relationship Status: single Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: cheshire Posts: 80 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 180 Times in 67 Posts Rep Power: 1503251	Owdo Well wot a nice spot to come in an have a cuppa, hello all, very nice to meet you.

04-15-2014, 09:57 PM	#4253
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,268 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	bumping the thread for singles in this group. __________________

04-16-2014, 08:06 AM	#4254
pkrpower Junior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: single....pkrpower@aol.com Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: michigan Posts: 7 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 15 Times in 5 Posts Rep Power: 0	hello single femmes.....

04-19-2014, 07:14 PM	#4255
Christina Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: San Fernando Valley Posts: 42 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 195 Thanked 128 Times in 29 Posts Rep Power: 1477035	Hello... so very quiet in here... is there another venue everyone goes to chat?

04-19-2014, 07:27 PM	#4256
C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,260 Times in 4,345 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I've decided to stick my name into every singles, meet-up, howdy, thread on BFP..I mean, it can't hurt. Right? And if this weenie post has already got your heart racing, just send me a message here on BFP and I'll respond in kind.

04-19-2014, 08:08 PM	#4257
Christina Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: San Fernando Valley Posts: 42 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 195 Thanked 128 Times in 29 Posts Rep Power: 1477035	“Can I tie you up and punish you” Someone asked me in a private message… “Can I tie you up and punish you”… Allow me to expound on the fact that NOT all Leather Girls are into S/M… I am a Stone Femme who excels off of the energy I derive from a Stone Butch, the commanding presence, self-assurance that is brought to the dance that compliments, blends, encapsulates my submissive aura … my personal dynamic… so where I can fully appreciate a slow tantalizing encounter that may or may not border on the line of pain before pleasure… it is not my personal preference to be roped, racked, gagged, or beat… not that anything is wrong with any of the aforementioned if that is your pleasure… with that said… I wish everyone well in their dance no matter their desires…

04-21-2014, 11:43 AM	#4258
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,243 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5731586	Hello all, I hope you are having a great day!