Singles - Page 26

cuddlyfemme · 10-23-2010, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

Entycing told me you were in columbia SC, i pass thru there on my way home weekly.

i was surprised to know you moved out of the DC area, but i left the MD area back in 04.

but yeah maybe we can do lunch sometime

By the way, what part of MD were you in?

Sam · 10-23-2010, 04:41 PM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme

By the way, what part of MD were you in?

i lived on the eastern shore of MD

cuddlyfemme · 10-23-2010, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

i lived on the eastern shore of MD

Thats a nice area, I used to go to Solomon's Island alot

Sam · 10-23-2010, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme

Thats a nice area, I used to go to Solomon's Island alot

i just worked in ocean city md and rehoboth beach de all summer. had a blast

Sam · 10-23-2010, 05:27 PM

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Originally Posted by sylvie

don't tempt me Sam!!! heh..

♥ xo

i will tempt you, over and over until you give in lol

cuddlyfemme · 10-23-2010, 05:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam

i just worked in ocean city md and rehoboth beach de all summer. had a blast

I can imagine that would be so much fun working at either/both places

JustLovelyJenn · 10-23-2010, 06:50 PM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome

Yeppers.... timing IS everything! And time available, time for self, time for family, time for reflection...

My kid is grown and has his own family, but, I have been really thinking about being geographically closer to blood family lately. Dunno.... other than I now have a solid plan and time frame to make significant changes for myself that will result in a much more friendly retirement financially.

Today, I added another dimension to it that involves joint replacement surgeries, but, it just feels like it is time to just deal with this. I have a lot of active years ahead of me (although, life does turn on a dime as I have experienced more than once) and if I need some "bionic" parts to keep active and enjoying life, then, I'm going to just do it!

It's been over 4 years for me since a relationship and although it would be grand to have a sweetie again, I am doing just fine solo. But, I need to get back to dance! Love it and the socializing with those peeps around me.

I have big plans for after my kids are grown and gone. Surprisingly enough, these plans have always been for me "solo"... Its kinda been, if someones around... they can come or they can deal.

I plan on being very active then. Building a Gypsy "vardo" and traveling to Ren Fairs and Medieval Reenactments selling small goods and my fortune selling services. I love to feel free to do what I will and will enjoy the untethered lifestyle.

But for now... I'm content to be where I am. I have the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of children, my own included. That is something I will always enjoy and treasure.

As for someone else. I decided a while ago that I am happy on my own, having someone else in my life is a joy, a blessing, but not a necessity. I do enjoy friends and social situations though, and I am severely lacking in those of late.

bigbutchmistie · 10-23-2010, 07:00 PM

I do enjoy my " me time" right now. I love my friends, my job, and everything that my life has become...

Im happy and have really gotten to a place where I dont want to settle down out of necessity but its something I desire...

I know it will happen when its supposed too... And I refuse to settle for less than what I am looking for.

I enjoy making new friendships, chatting with folks, and dating. Cause when the day happens that "she" walks in and blows me away, and I settle down, I wont get to do these things

sweetfemme247 · 10-23-2010, 07:04 PM

well currently right now I am single, I am talking to someone but we arent "dating" we have alot of stuff that we need to work on with ourselfs so for now it is friendship. I have known this person for over 3 years. I really dont like being single but it is something I need for now, I do want to meet more people but I am rather shy so I dont really talk to anyone here much.

AtLast · 10-23-2010, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn

I have big plans for after my kids are grown and gone. Surprisingly enough, these plans have always been for me "solo"... Its kinda been, if someones around... they can come or they can deal.

I plan on being very active then. Building a Gypsy "vardo" and traveling to Ren Fairs and Medieval Reenactments selling small goods and my fortune selling services. I love to feel free to do what I will and will enjoy the untethered lifestyle.

But for now... I'm content to be where I am. I have the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of children, my own included. That is something I will always enjoy and treasure.

As for someone else. I decided a while ago that I am happy on my own, having someone else in my life is a joy, a blessing, but not a necessity. I do enjoy friends and social situations though, and I am severely lacking in those of late.

Sounds good! I have a small RV/van (older model) and lovfe road trips. And this is a big reason for my going in for surgeries and rehab. I have miles to do!!!

I, too, think in terms of doing this solo. I am just in the phase of life in which a relationship is just not the main event. I honestly do not see me living with a partner again at all. I enjoyed a 21 year relationship and the last was for 6 years (she died). Both enriched my life. Yet, I know that any relationship presently or in the future would have the same variables as my past ones. I am not in the same developmental space (with the same needs) as when I was in those relationships.

I like having my own home and working on it. LOL... however, I did give my last partner a bedroom and bath of her own to decorate as hers and put th8ings in it of hers even though she didn't live there.

I want to go back to Alaska and be a campground host- or maybe somewhere else for a summer. I like being able to volunteer time to the things I care about. Couldn't when I was working and in practice. And I still want to compete in partner dancing!

JustLovelyJenn · 10-23-2010, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome

Sounds good! I have a small RV/van (older model) and lovfe road trips. And this is a big reason for my going in for surgeries and rehab. I have miles to do!!!

I, too, think in terms of doing this solo. I am just in the phase of life in which a relationship is just not the main event. I honestly do not see me living with a partner again at all. I enjoyed a 21 year relationship and the last was for 6 years (she died). Both enriched my life. Yet, I know that any relationship presently or in the future would have the same variables as my past ones. I am not in the same developmental space (with the same needs) as when I was in those relationships.

I like having my own home and working on it. LOL... however, I did give my last partner a bedroom and bath of her own to decorate as hers and put th8ings in it of hers even though she didn't live there.

I want to go back to Alaska and be a campground host- or maybe somewhere else for a summer. I like being able to volunteer time to the things I care about. Couldn't when I was working and in practice. And I still want to compete in partner dancing!

Partner dancing sounds like a really fun thing to compete in. I have always loved ball room dancing but never really had an opportunity to learn or practice much. Campground host is another thing I have looked into in the past, and would LOVE to do later in life.

I see myself having the same problem about my space. When I finally get a house of my own... i know it will be MY home, and I wont really care too terribly much who is living there it will be my decisions on things.... lol...

cuddlyfemme · 10-24-2010, 05:16 AM

Good Morning Singles! Its supposed to be nice today here so will be sending warmth to all who need it. I've brought coffee, tea and pasteries for everyone. Have a wonderful day all

lipstixgal · 10-24-2010, 06:10 AM

Oh pasteries yum hello singles how is everyone doing today its early and probably no one is up right now, had to do doggie care for dogs and feed them next its laundry and dishes in the sink and dishwasher, thinking its a soup day with matzo balls gotta love that Jewish food it heals what ales you!!

cuddlyfemme · 10-24-2010, 06:13 AM

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Originally Posted by lipstixgal

Oh pasteries yum hello singles how is everyone doing today its early and probably no one is up right now, had to do doggie care for dogs and feed them next its laundry and dishes in the sink and dishwasher, thinking its a soup day with matzo balls gotta love that Jewish food it heals what ales you!!

I'm up....my cats always wake me up early to feed them and won't stop till there is food in their bowls. Sounds like you have a busy day today. I need to clean my kitchen up today

Zimmeh · 10-24-2010, 12:02 PM

Good Afternoon Everyone,

I did all of my laundry yesterday inbetween doing homework for my microbiolgy class. Today is my day to take the quiz in my micro class and then finish decorating for Halloween.

Have a good to you all and smile!!

Zimmy

greeneyedlady · 10-24-2010, 12:14 PM

Single here in Ontario, Canada. Went through a bad breakup after a four year relationship/engagement a couple months ago. Not sure I'm looking to get back into a relationship although here I would not even know where to start to meet people. Meeting new friends would be be a great start.

Today...I am content with being with my dogs watching the football game. When I look out my balcony from my 10th floor apartment, I can see across the entire city and the changing colours are so beautiful!

lipstixgal · 10-24-2010, 12:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ZimmygLrL

Good Afternoon Everyone,

I did all of my laundry yesterday inbetween doing homework for my microbiolgy class. Today is my day to take the quiz in my micro class and then finish decorating for Halloween.

Have a good to you all and smile!!

Zimmy

Ah yes good luck on the micro quiz and I bet you are tired of being quizzed!!

sylvie · 10-24-2010, 05:42 PM

evenin' singles ♥

hope you all had a wonderful day!
mine has been... L O N G !!! lol i'm tired thanks to my BFF *chuckles*
and worked 2 shifts today, was going to bring my son to the hospital tonight
but wow, i'm actually amazed at the awesome improvement im seeing in him just since i left from work.. so i'll be watchin him closely but here's hoping it's just improvement from now on..

ANYway, just thought i'd poke my head in and say hello, think i'll be crashing soon! haha... trying to stay up a bit however..

((((hugggggz))))

cuddlyfemme · 10-24-2010, 06:12 PM

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Originally Posted by sylvie

evenin' singles ♥

hope you all had a wonderful day!
mine has been... L O N G !!! lol i'm tired thanks to my BFF *chuckles*
and worked 2 shifts today, was going to bring my son to the hospital tonight
but wow, i'm actually amazed at the awesome improvement im seeing in him just since i left from work.. so i'll be watchin him closely but here's hoping it's just improvement from now on..

ANYway, just thought i'd poke my head in and say hello, think i'll be crashing soon! haha... trying to stay up a bit however..

((((hugggggz))))

(((Sylvie)))) I'm glad your son seems to be doing better

paposeco · 10-24-2010, 10:34 PM

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10-23-2010, 07:04 PM	#509
sweetfemme247 Member How Do You Identify?: fem Preferred Pronoun?: femme, she, her, baby, sweetie Relationship Status: holding my heart close and putting back up a wall Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: california, palm springs Posts: 994 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 206 Thanked 719 Times in 350 Posts Rep Power: 4115671	well currently right now I am single, I am talking to someone but we arent "dating" we have alot of stuff that we need to work on with ourselfs so for now it is friendship. I have known this person for over 3 years. I really dont like being single but it is something I need for now, I do want to meet more people but I am rather shy so I dont really talk to anyone here much. __________________ Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. Jim Rohn

10-24-2010, 12:02 PM	#515
Zimmeh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: I am a human and not a possession Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Volusia County, FL Posts: 6,746 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 23,549 Thanked 13,441 Times in 4,316 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Good Afternoon Everyone, I did all of my laundry yesterday inbetween doing homework for my microbiolgy class. Today is my day to take the quiz in my micro class and then finish decorating for Halloween. Have a good to you all and smile!! Zimmy __________________ "A loving heart is the truest wisdom" -Chinua Achebe

10-24-2010, 12:14 PM	#516
greeneyedlady Junior Member How Do You Identify?: ...... Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: .... Posts: 31 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1 Thanked 47 Times in 18 Posts Rep Power: 11328	single Single here in Ontario, Canada. Went through a bad breakup after a four year relationship/engagement a couple months ago. Not sure I'm looking to get back into a relationship although here I would not even know where to start to meet people. Meeting new friends would be be a great start. Today...I am content with being with my dogs watching the football game. When I look out my balcony from my 10th floor apartment, I can see across the entire city and the changing colours are so beautiful! __________________ Every woman I have ever loved has left her print upon me, where I loved some invaluable piece of myself apart from me--so different that I had to stretch and grow in order to recognize her. And in that growing we came to seperation, that place where work begins" Audre Lorde

10-24-2010, 05:42 PM	#518
sylvie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: girly, she Relationship Status: fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !! Posts: 2,548 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,834 Thanked 7,501 Times in 1,850 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	evenin' singles ♥ hope you all had a wonderful day! mine has been... L O N G !!! lol i'm tired thanks to my BFF chuckles and worked 2 shifts today, was going to bring my son to the hospital tonight but wow, i'm actually amazed at the awesome improvement im seeing in him just since i left from work.. so i'll be watchin him closely but here's hoping it's just improvement from now on.. ANYway, just thought i'd poke my head in and say hello, think i'll be crashing soon! haha... trying to stay up a bit however.. ((((hugggggz)))) __________________ my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page: http://www.facebook.com/asyllyjourney

10-24-2010, 10:34 PM	#520
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10-23-2010, 07:00 PM	#508
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I do enjoy my " me time" right now. I love my friends, my job, and everything that my life has become... Im happy and have really gotten to a place where I dont want to settle down out of necessity but its something I desire... I know it will happen when its supposed too... And I refuse to settle for less than what I am looking for. I enjoy making new friendships, chatting with folks, and dating. Cause when the day happens that "she" walks in and blows me away, and I settle down, I wont get to do these things

10-24-2010, 05:16 AM	#512
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10-24-2010, 06:10 AM	#513
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	Oh pasteries yum hello singles how is everyone doing today its early and probably no one is up right now, had to do doggie care for dogs and feed them next its laundry and dishes in the sink and dishwasher, thinking its a soup day with matzo balls gotta love that Jewish food it heals what ales you!!